hey im jess im 15 im from coventry/england im a good listener and so my friends have told me im good at giving advice im here to help anyone that is just looking for some advice,i love helping people out and i try and do so the best i can and i hope my advice will help those in need of some help i have msn if people want to add me and ask me things then thats fine all the best to everyone jessxx
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ok so im dating this guy tom...we have only been dating for a few days now but he has met my parents and they love him...my entire family and even my brothers friends adore him... its so cute...well the day he met my family i also met his mother...well..she hates me...when i was around she seemed to like me just fine but tom called me like 2hrs after he left and he told me that his mom hates me and doesnt want him and i dating...like he said that he doesnt want us to break up because he realli likes me and stuff like that and of course i dont want us to break up either...i mean ive only met the woman once and shes messing up my relationship with her son already...i was realli polite and stuff when i met her and stuff and im realli not a bad person...im just a simple 16yr old girl...its like im sum whore or anything but she hates me...neither tom nor i kno why she hates me...what am i supposed to do?? (link)
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wel for starters if there is nothing that your doing wrong then it must be just her she is proberly just to over protective ov her son and just doesnt want him being hurt, you sound like a nice person and wouldnt do anything to hurt him i can tel you have strong feelings for him so you should just explain to her that you aint just setting out to destroy her sons life or to cum between the to off them tel her your nothing like she thinks you are and that you would love for her and you to get on if your going to carry on dating her son ask her how cum she hates you she hardly even knows you she probly just has strong first impresions of people...
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I like my friend's brother and now that she knows, every little thing he does she always looks at me. It's weird. I want to get to know him better, but just because I talk to him I don't want her staring at me. Plus, how can I get to talk to him when he is in another conversation. I don't want him to think I'm rude and that I just join in on other people's conversations. It's really hard for me to get the chance to talk to him because the only time I really see him is on the bus, so thats my only opportunity to get to know him. So, how do I get to know him without sounding rude or nosy? (link)
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just go up to him like you would to any other normal lad say hi ask him how he is think of a hobbie you know hes interested in and you no sum stuff about ask him a few questions flirt with him a little bit but not to much ask your friend what stuff he is into and pretend to him that your interested dont make him feel like he is boring you find out what his favoutie band is or sport n then start chating to your mate about it when he is around that will soon get his attention and make him interested in geting to no ya
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okay so i really like this guy Luke* and a lot of my friends have said he likes me as well. Only problem, he has a girlfriend in a different school. He sits behind me in class and he is always talking to me and putting his head on my shoulder (no hes not trying to copy my answers haha) he teases me too and when I say "ugh i hate you right now." he says "oh no .. you love me!" and he is constantly hugging me and stuff but I dont know what to do because he has a girlfriend and I dont know what to say because I have already told him he needs to teach me to ice skate (because ive never done it) but I dont know his girlfriend and I dont want to like screw up their relationship. What do I do?? (link)
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hello
well for a start i think you should tel this lad how your really feeling its always better to get it out in the open cuz he mite like you aswell so if you dont tel him then you could end up loosing him forever or if he doesnt like you then you can tel him that its ok and you would stil like to be his friend tel him its okay if he likes his gf and say your not trying to split them up if he ends up choosing you and it doesnt go rite you will get over it as long as you know you told him how you felt so you wernt living your life wundering how it would turn out you wil never no unless you find out....
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me = 14/f, boyfriend = 14/m
My boyfriend is a....suspcious character. He was the perfect friend and then the perfect boyfriend. Now, a couple weeks later, when we talk on the phone he always has to go within the first ten minutes. At school he avoids me in the halls and I see him talking with five girls at a time. I mean, I have no problem with him talking to girls, I'm not going to restrict him, but now he's acting all strange...Any ideas on what I should do? (link)
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hi i have read your question and i think you should talk to your boyfriend about your feelings ask him if anything is up, suggest that if hes to busy or does have a problem then you could spend sum time appart tell him that he can trust you and your there to listen if he needs to talk say that you have noticed he has changed and you want to try and help ask him if he is going off you or if he just needs sum space tel him your fine if he does and you will always listen to what he has to say. i hope ive helped you out
jess xx
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