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hey yall my name is ashley im 14 and have blonde hair and blue eyes and go to Lee Freshman i love hanging out with all my friends! i know what your going through so you can tell me anything:D

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hey dude me and this girl, ill leave her name unknown,have been having sex for sometime now. she wants to move and do sumthing with our realtionship but i believe if we are together, the sex wont be as good. i might be wrong though.. so thats where u come in.i cant stand the fact of us not humping. it is to great even to explain. i love it when i come home and im all hot and swety and she wants to mess around and licks on me..everywhere.. i jus cant give that up. wat should i do about going futher with this relationship we have????

well(*cough* MATT *cough*)...it sound to me your afraid of commitment...if you really love this girl you would do anything for her
i dont think it would make a difference if yall moved in together...its all in your head... but if you still think that way try telling her about it she mite feel the same way (afraid of moving in) hoped helped=D
ashley

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dear ashley,
my dog has a severe humping problem. whenver people come over, he gets too excited and starts humping everything he can get his paws on. its embarrassing to have people over, and my friends wont hang out with me any more. should i kill it?
signed, Hump-free

what ever you do dont kill the dog !lol
maybe you could try putting the dog outside when your friends are over... or putting it in a room with the door shut so it dosent get out...or maybe you should get it spaded or whatever its called lol
ashley

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ok so here's the deal. I really really like this guy a whole lot but everyone i know thinks hes wierd. I guess he is wierd in a way but once u get to know him he's awesome. how do i get my friends to realize what a great guy he is?

well i you like him nothing else should matter your the one going out with him... as for your friends you should tell them how great this guy really is .. if they still dont listen get everyone together to hang out let them see how great the guy is...

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Does anyone have any tips for swallowing pills? I have some pills from my doctor for a bronchidal infection, and they were huge, I had to cut them up into fourths, yet they still are tough to get down. Tips or tricks?

sometimes when there really big i make a smoothie and put the pill in there and it crushes it (in the blinder) and you cant even taste it ... workes everytime .. but make sure its into little pices and put it at the bottom or it mite not crush it =D
ashley

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ok so heres my problem- i went out with this guy a couple of months ago and we only went out for like 2 months but i'm still not over him! im so in love with him! but i also think i'm in love with my best friend(hes a guy). we are soo close but i really think i love him. but my other best friend(whos a girl) also likes him a TON! but he deosn't like her.she doesn't know i like him but i'm just so confused with what to do. cause a lot of people say he likes me but i dont wanna be mean and go out with him. so i really have no idea what to do! help me PLEASE!

well heres the problem you have to chose which one likes you best ... or which ones hotter if you cant pick lol just kidding ....one thing you have to do is tell you best friend ( the girl)that you like this guy too she mite be madd at first * put yourself in her shoes * but it will blow over then you have to tell your best friend (the guy ) how you feel odds are he totally likes you ! thats a plus hehe then you have to talk to your ex and find out if he still likes you .. wow your schedual if full hahah...and by that time you mite know who you like good luck lol
ashley

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I went with this boy name slim thug (nick name) he goes to my school right and I told him last tues that our relationship was boring and that he probaly F***** around with some other gurl, so we broke up. while we was together slim and me i was real coo with my friend ex-boyfriend, they both go to my school also but my friend broke up with him like in September and said she was all coo and didn't really like him, and don't care if he go wit another female so as soon as me and my man broke up her ho a** gon go with my man so u know i was all coo cause personally I don't believe in dat friends ex-boyfriends are off limits im gon like who im gon like and so on, but when me and her ex-boyfriend got together she started trippin and I didn't even jump into a relationship wit him quick,like she did wit my man and I said nodda wheh she did. Do u think Im bogous?

your totally not bogous... she did it to you so y would she get madd so i say keep going with her ex and if she gets madd be like well your doin the same thing she has no right and its gay to say not to go out with a friends ex cuz they broke it off....if everyone did that there would be no one to go out with !
ashley

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Today, my family and I (14/m) were out playing sports. All was well for a while. Untill my lil brother started to misbehave and be uncooperative.I got vexxed, but i controlled my rage untill we got home.

At home, i was still vexxed.
(since my birthday is about a montn away)My mom asked me what i wanted for my birthday. I told her "i want my brother to be gone for my birthday. that would be the perfect gift."

She got vexx at me. so vexx she couldn't speak. Sheleft the room.

I went to look for her later and i found her crying. what i said really got to her emotionally. she just looked at me like everything was lost.

that look got to me. i am sorry i told her that.
but i dont know what to do.

What should i do?
i can't let her feel like she grew me up wrong- i am her 1st born. she will just give up with the others too.

please help.

wow thats tuff you should go to your mother and say you didnt mean it. show her your sorry and care about her. maybe even do a little extra around the house it mite be hard but try and get along with your brother be patient and talk to her maybe do a little sucking up =D works for me hope this helped
ashley

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Today i feel like, well i dont know. Like i want to just cry and stuff..and i really dont know why. Im not upset, or anything like that.
Why do i feel like im going to cry?

you mite be really stressed out try going on a run and take your headphones music always makes me happier and a run brings some satifaction and makes you feel like you acomplished somthing or you mite just wanna get out of the house make plans with your friends to go to the movies or mall or anything hope this helps:D
ashley

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I have a soocer game today in like 3 hours! My leg is really hurting me and I don't think I can play! I really have to go and play cause we lost 4 games and those 4 games I wasn't there and I'm the best player on my team!If I don't play we'll lose again!any suggestion? ok thanx! I rate! by!
~*Tiffany*~

well tiffany when my leggs are cramping up you mite wanna streach it out really good or like soak it in hot water it always relaxes ! hope that helped

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so i was like ya and he said no..and i was huh...and then it happened! what should i do?

what ? what did you say ya to what did he say no to what happoned and i have no idea lol

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hey everybody this question is for everyone i am getting braces soon and i am totally freaking out on what colors to get because if i don't like the colors i get then i have to wait till i get them changed again and i am very picky so if anybody could help it would be greatly apperciated thanks i will rate 5's for good and reasonable answers. oh yeah one more thing i am a girl and my favorite color is blue and only blue thanks.

well what ever you do dont get yellow or white they both make your teeth look pretty freaky !
right now mine are light blue and i love them ! one time i got teel and they were pretty cool ... but being a pink kinda girl thats my fav hope this helped :D

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I moved here in 6th grade and I've always wanted to be popular...So I tried hanging with the white popular people and it seriously was HARD work!! Each year, things got better..and now I'm at that point where we'd be better friends if I'd invite them over (I haven't invited them over yet because I'm embaress that they will say that my house is small compared to theres..or that they will make fun of my lifestyle..and everything) I'm now in 11th grade..and I really want to be friends with these people..I don't think I can keep a close relationship with them if I never invite them over...I'm just very embaressed of the way I live...Compared to them, I'm so much uglier and poorer..and they're rich...Please don't judge..Thanks

if these "popular" people are really your friends they wouldnt care how or where you live you what you look like i say invite them over and if a second you will be able to tell if they are the people you really want to be hangin out with

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ok, so i am/was really good friends with this girl. she was new to our school nd just because she was new and not totally ugly, every guy fell in love with her, and is in love with her. but, she really isnt that pretty at all , she has big boobs, but i have the same size, she is no skinnier than me, she is a size larger, and im a better cheerleader than her, but they still like her only because she is new. its not her personality cause she is kinda annoying. and she is leaving our school next year but for some reason they think they still have a chance with her. but, i still dont get why everyone likes her better? please help me understand. i rate 5 for not bad advise.
-jazelle

ok heres what i think you totally shouldnt be comparing youself to her you are probally just as pretty and fun as her EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT IN THERE OWN WAY. guys just sometimes get bord with the girls at their schools( they see yall everyday) give it acouple of weeks and they will figure out her true self

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My best friend was/is a guy. We'll call him Bob. Well Bob just got a girlfriend and they had been extremely tight before they went out. Now all of a sudden, Bob's barely talking to me or hanging out with me anymore. I miss hangingout with him. If I confronted him he'd probably listen but not do anything because he'd forget. Please help I really miss him :(

well if it were me i would totally confront him and tell him how much you enjoy hanging out with him and miss him ... i know if thiswas happening with me and one of my guy friends they would listen if i confronted them ... odds are they really miss you too but it could be his girlfriend telling him not to. she mite feel like your taking him away from her... you could try making a plan for all yall to get together so everyone would be happy
hope i helped love ashley

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