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Q: does anyone know of any print catalogs that you can order by mail that have crystal or artificial jewel hair clamps or sticks.
check out claires or icing by claires or anystore with accessories

Q: 14/m

ok so my girlfriend and i have been going out for a couple months and i don't know what to get her for valentine's day. i don't have much cash so it can't be too expensive.

also, don't suggest burning a cd. i did that for her for christmas, and i don't want to look repetitive.

thanks
you can do several sweet nice things:

++ make her a romantical dinner that you cooked or with very little help have dimmed lights and candles and serve her dinner
++buy her a nexklace with a heart or something
++if you have a class ring or a ring thats yours tie it aroudn a necklace chain and give it to her. but give that as a side gift not the main one like with the dinenr or something
++buy her a stuffed animal that says ilove you or something
++ make a build a bear if you know what that is you can go to buildabear.com and you cna get one with sound which can say ilove you and dress it up and stuff.
++give her chocolates
++a ring


if you need anymore help jsut put one in the inbox
crissx33

Q: K well my friend said that she was talking to my boyfriend and he said that he was planning on kissing me soon. Me and him have talked about it and i told him that i really want to but i am just scared. I have never kissed anyone before and so i am like really nervous but i know that i want him to be my first kiss. i am just scared that i will do something weird or something like that. does anyone have any... umm tips/advice for me? and also, should i wear lipgloss or chapstick or just nothing? or what? cause im afraid lipgloss would make my lips too gooey! and if i didnt have anything on then i dont want my lips to be all chappy or anything! so any advice would be greatly appreciated! thanks!
ok i was the same way about this as you are. jsut relax. its nothing that great. dont use lipgloss.. because most guys dont liek it because its sticky. chapstick is the best because it makes your lips smooth and look good. when the kiss happens it happens..dont rush into anything. when you guys do get to the point of kissing. let him be the lead if you dont know how to. whatever he does you do. just tilt your head and make sure your lips touch. if he uses tounge. use yours but dont shove it down his throat. since its your first kiss it might not be a huge long one. so just relax and be calm when it comes =D

Q: ok so theres this guy thats been a friend of mine, but yesturday there were sparks, and stuff. we were hugging and kissing, but the thing is yesturday I was staying at a hotel by the beach, so I'm not sure if he just hasn't called me because he thinks I'm still there. But, I feel, i don't know, i guess kind of weird because once, this guy, not the same guy, another guy, came up to me and randomly kissed me, and so I thought he liked me, but he also requested me on myspace and stuff, but it turned out he was drunk, so I kind of felt stupid, so should I be worried if the guy is kind of quiet today?? I'm not asking because I'm desperate or anything, it's just because the drunk one left me nervous!!

xoxo
ok. just because he kissed you and stuff dont assume too much..yet. im not saying there werent any sparks or anything. jsut dont go runnin after the guy and huntin him down.. if it was meant to be he wil ltalk to you again. if he is one of your friends then call him and be like heyy whats up. something like that. let him somehow now you home.

Q: okay so theres this guy.. and i like him. i talk to him bacically every day, but sometimes we have awkward silences. i dont like them.

like i cant talk to a guy. you know? its really hard. like ill be talking to this guy and it will go like this

me-hey
him-hey
---awkward silence
him-did you do your math homework(okay he asks this question like every day, but its about different subjects)
me-oh crap! (i get out my book)
(i do my homework)
--awkward silence
me-did you win your game last night?
him-no
me-who'd you play
him-saint paper of pens(fake name..duh :])
me-aww..whens your next game?
him-next friday
--awkward silence

okay so thats how it goes. i dont think he likes me that much, but i really want him to..yeahh..heres how another conversation went::

[[okay im telling a really long story..and i just ended it]]
me-hhaha
him-haha i was counting the times you said "and i was like" and it was 52 times!
--awkward silence

so yeah thats my story
how do you talk to a guy?
hellppp meeee :]
ok well first of all.. after he said hte 52 times thing.. you should have been like. haha did i relaly say it that many times?? or like wow. you counted then put like a smilie.

but i mean he actually read your story
cuz he counted the i likes.... lol
just liek go with the flow. i kno how its awkward.. i did the same thing with the guy i liked. just be liek soo whats up? whats new>? how was your day?? yeahh im bored. so im gonna ask random questions..whats your fav this? that? and bladihblah.

Q: out of these 2 magazines

J-14

and

Cosmo Girl

which one should I subscribe to?
I bought both of them, but i'm really not sure which one i like better.

I like magazines that have info on celebritys, quizzes, embarressing moments, and just plain fashion and make-up things. Which one should I get?

or if you have a better magazine, please do tell!
i would prefer seventeen. i love that magazine

Q: 13f ok so i want to lose weight but i cant get focused and i have no time to exercise i really really want to lose weight and be heathier but the fact that i have no time is the problem and i dont have the right equiptment and stuff i asked my mom about this gym near our house but you have to be a certain age even if your parent or gurdian is there what can i do to lose weight i want to be skinnier before i go into high school i dont wanna get teased anymore either it's ruining my life and i cant take it anymore pretty much everyone at my school even my friends make fun of me for it and they make me hate myself for it PLEASE HELP ME
ok first of all. you dont necessarily have to excersise alot. but it will help. just make sure that you dont get to the point where you starve yourself. just eat a halthy breakfast, lunch, and dinner. try to avoid those fatty snacks in between. and try not to eat soo much fatty or fried foods. if you do need a snack because your hungry make sure its low in fat or has no fat. jsut eat healthy. then on your spare time instead of sittin on your butt at the computer get up and walk, jog, do sit ups, pushups, etc.


hope i helped!

and dont forget..you wont just loose the weight in one day it takes a while












OK SO I READ YOUR FEEDBACK. IDIDNT KNOW IT WAS A FRIEND. WHEN YOUR WITH HER MAKE SURE SHE EATS. LIKE EVEN IF YOU HAVE TO FORCE HER TOO. AND MAKE SURE SHE DOESNT GO TO THE BATHROOM AFTERWARDS. AND IF YOU GET TO THE POINT TELL SOMEBODY. SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP AND TELL HER THAT. BE LIKE IF YOU CANT EAT THEN YOU HAVE TO GET HELP AND IM GONNA FIND IT FOR YOU.

Q: i need helpp. okay i really need a screen name.

i want it to do with.

broken heart
still not over someone
always loved him
love.

something of that sort.

please help me
yoUrmynE
alwaysloveyooh
ixlovexyo0hx
babyxurxmyne
brk3nxh3arteddx
truexloveeeeee
hexlovesxmexxnot
hexxlovesxxmexx
yourxgirlx4vaax

Q: 16/f
Well there's this guy, one of my best friends and well I really like him alot. He doesn't know and I'm not planning on telling him for fear of losing our friendship so I don't need help about that. The thing is, the other day he texted me the wierdest message and then logged off. I havn't been able to ralk to him since so I don't know what it meant and I couldn't ask. The text he sent me was: 'I less than heart you'
Like what the heck does that mean? I asked a friend but she didn't know.
To clarify what I'm asking, I want to know what the message means and why he would send it to me if it's not something stupid.
Any help is appreciated. Thanks.
im sorry. but i less than heart you. pretend that heart means love. and then if you rewrte it it says i less than love you. and less than love is either like or dont like.. so he probably doesnt feel the sme way about you..and randomly sendin you that texts means he found out.

=[ sorry

Q: In entering pictures on your section of "who I'd like to meet", how to you put pictures up? I know you have to copy the url of the picture or somethin, but I'm a little confused. Any help?
you can go to imageshack.us put in the pic and get the code

Q: which part of a guy physically do you like the most.....eyes? abs? arm muscles? cheekbones? hair? lips?

thanks for reading
my favs. is his hair, smile, eyes, and his height.

Q: Yesterday me and my friends had a chat room with him on aim, and he was like "ali u stole my color" and I'm like "I had it first, bitch" and we were like, play fighting. I had to go, and he had to go a bit later. He said he was going to youth group......:/

Anywho, I was reading the chat, and he's like "I love all of you except finaltaktic829" thats stacey's sn.

and then hes like "oh yea i forgot ali"

and ashleys like "YOU DONT LOVE ALI?"


and hes like "lol jk"

so I don't know if he loves me or not???

Then Ashley told me that he told her not to tell anyone, but he has a hicky on his neck.....
oooohh....so wait im guessing your ali? . well if he said jk. he might not hate you . but im not sure. and ok he has a hicky. yeah taht is a big deal considering he likes you.l but you cant keep him to yourself. ask him be like oh do you have a girlfriend? and all. and are you sure he told your friend he had a hickey? and is the guy you like sure htat its a hicky? lol. just some things to think about.

Q: lol ty. I have no clue what goes on in his head, fereealsz. he is SO confusing.
lol thats guys for you. you can barely ever understand them. lol well it seems like you got a hang of things here. lol tell me how things are going on and if you need any help with other stuff.

Q: lol we were gonaa 3way him on my phone. Yesterday she inviteed him in a chat room, and I was like "Ashley, would you be sad if I died?" and she said yes, then I asked Stacey, and he said yes, and then I'm like "Greg, would you be sad if I died?" And he made the :X face. I don't know if that was for me or not, but yea. He said something else, but I forget what he said.
awww lol. yeah i have no idea what that means. i think he means that he doesnt wanna say. or hes too embarassed to say what he is gonna say. not sure though. but good asking that quetstion lol.

Q: I'm gonna have him talk to my friend who he really wants to talk to on the phone, but she doesnt have long distance, so I'm gonna try to get her to convince him to do a 3way. lol
tahts a good idea. or if she cant do long distance use someone elses fone if he wont do three way?? well im glad things are atleast gonna possibly change. lol

Q: hmm lol. I'm not sure what he'd say since he isn't even supposed to be talking to me. lol and if he said no, I'd be crushed. Like last week, my friend Ashley imed him, and said she was going to kidnap him and send him to me for Kissmas ((She did this without asking me first)) and he's like "no please no, me and her are cool now"
And she's like why not?
and he's like "I don't wanna get yelled at"
and she asked who would yell at him, and he said alot of people, mostly just one.
And she said no one would know though, since he's being kidnapped.
And then he's like "Fine, I guess you can if I have no choice"

Or something along those lines.


So I have no idea. Haha. :/
well im not sure but since he said no wre cool now. maybe he thought you would react in someoway or yell at him or wouldnt want him. well if he has a cell phone call his cell when hes not at his house and talk to him tehre. becuase sometimes you can tell how a guy is reacting better if you hear him.

Q: Well, I just got out of a 11 month relationship with my ex but were just friends now...but I'm attracted to this guy named johnny... we flirt a lot and everything.... I want to call him but I don't know what to say... I don't want to date him or anything....(yet)but I would like to get to know him better... but how do I get him to notice me, should I call him, what do I say......
ok i have like almost the same situation i jsut broke up with my boyfriend of like 5 months. and i like htis other guy. so like i just randomly started talking to him. like at first im like hey what s up when hes by me or i'll go by him? then i will ask him more like saying hey how are you? you having fun? and so on or something. then im like are you dominican puerto rican? cuz he was one of them and just get talking to him dont like just stare at him from afar and now since i started taliking to him i have his number we talk on the fone were liek friends now and i mean its really easy. you can also try finding his myspace and omment him if htats easier for you

Q: lol id be afraid of what the answer would be.
lol thats where i always go wrong. dont ever be afraid to do something. i always was gonna ask my crushto do something or anything and h actually wanted to hang out but i never asked. and since i didnt ask we never grew anything more yet. but all you have to do is be like hey you know we havnt hung out in soooooo long.i miss hangin out with you. and since i got some money maybe i could take you out and we can do something? and the worst thing that he can say is sorry i cant or no. but then dont just stop there. maybe ask him another time. but once you do it im sure you wont be as afraid

Q: ok so for about 1 month ive been so heartbroken, crying like there's no tomorrow, because i emailed my crush (just a normal email, not revealing anything) and he didnt answer.. and it felt like i was living for him, and he didnt even notice me, but TURNS out, he did email me, but it landed in the "trash" and just noticed it now..(Gosh im lucky, two more days and it would have been deleted!) but here's the thing.. in this email, he wrote "ive been thinking about you alot" and at first when i read that, i screamed, started jumping up and down.. so happy, BUT NOW that it's sunk in.. i kinda.. i dont know. it feels like my feelings were SOO HOTT and now they've cooled down. does this mean i dont like him anymore? was i just in it for the chase? because seriously - i could have sworn i was IN LOVE with the guy.

And my second question would be, WHAT NOW? he sent that A MONTH AGO.. i mean it would be weird to answer NOW-- he's def. the typ of guy who would overanalyze that! so maybe i should just "let go" ? cause the thing is.. im not even allowed to date. so what's the point in answering?

Third question - let's say id answer (not saying that i am!) - what would i say??

please help! thanks!
ok well to the answering him back..which i suggest you do so that he doesnt think liek you lost interest. be like hey im sorry it took so long to respond your email got sent to the trash and i just found it. and hten be like syaing what you would have said if you got it wen you were supposed ot. like be like aww really you have? i would say deffiantely email him back.

Q: hehe ok. :) He doesnt talk that much when he ims me, though.
oooh. well if he doesnt talk much start the conversation or get it flowing.dont let the friendship die btwn you to

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