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Okay, I am 18/f. I was cutting on and off for years. Since November I have been hosptialized three times for suicidal idiations. My parents found out about the cutting and I stopped cold turkey. That was in like February when I stopped. But I still want to cut at times. It was such a wonderful addiction. That is what it was to me. It made me feel so much better. Well, I've been having some problems again, and the wanting to cut is back. I don't know what to do. Have any advice? I really feel like I am going to do something soon. (link)
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I'm going to be totally honest with you and say that for me, I never really lost the urge to cut. It's something that has stayed with me for the past four years. The only thing I can suggest is finding another way to get your emotions out, or finding another release. For example, every time you wanted to cut, you could call a friend to talk, or exercise or something t take your mind off it. This is the only thing that seems to help me. I hope it might help you.
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how do you turn on a guy without getting to sexual with him you know with out grabbing or rubbing him down there..I want to turn on this guy bad but I dont want him to think Im a hoe or anything (link)
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Try subtle flirting. When your eyes meet, look at him for a few seconds and then look away. Or, when he sees you looking at him, do a scan of his body with your eyes. Both of these show interest. Try touching him, but not in any serious places. A hand on the shoulder if you're standing up, or a hand on his thigh sitting down works very well. If you're talking to him in someplace kind of crowded or noisy, instead of yelling to be heard, lean in close and whisper in his ear. That really turns guys on. Hope some of this ideas help, if you need more let me know.
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I have been trying to kill myself sense I was ten. It never worked out right, either there was some-one to stop me or they found me before I could finish. I really don't want to live any more. But I don't seem to have the strength to go on. I don't want to feel this way any more. It scares me and each thought is stronger than the last. I want these feelings to go away. What can I do? Nothing ever seems to help me. I feel that my only option is to kill my self. I still WANT to live though! I'm scared that I might take this to far. Please help me, I don't think I can hold on much longer! (link)
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First, you need to talk to someone that you trust and get help. It sounds like you are depressed, and you can get medication that will help you with that. Also, talking to people is a great way to get your emotions out and talk about how you are feeling. Find things that you enjoy doing. Read, play a sport, paint, dance, listen to music. Find something that makes you happy and do it as often as you can. Hang out with friends that you feel close to and can trust. If you are doing things that make you happy and hanging out with people that support you and encourage you, it is less likely that you will want to kill yourself. Try and figure out what exactly is making you so unhappy, and if you can remove it from your life. Think about all the people that would be hurt, upset, or negatively affected if you decided to kill yourself. Have you ever thought that maybe you haven't been able to successfully kill yourself for a reason? You are here for a reason, and there is a purpose and meaning to your life. No one knows what the future has in store. Yes, things could get worse, but they could also get better. Ask yourself if you think you are feeling the worse you could ever possibly feel. Is the answer yes? Then things can only get better. I don't know if you belive in God, but if you do He loves you and He has a purpose for your life. Try looking into a religion and finding one that works for you. There are always people who are willing to help and support you, and who would miss you if you are gone. I hope this helped a little bit, send me a message if you would like to talk more.
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Can someone please tell me everything I need to know about Vans Warped Tour. What to wear? What can I buy? What to bring? What to expect? How other people there will treat me? Is there a certain way I should dress? Thanks (link)
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Well the Warped Tour varies a little bit from city to city, but the basics stay the same. Obviously you can expect there to be a lot of bands and a lot of people, if you don't know what bands are playing you can check the Warped Tour website for a lineup. For clothes, wear something that is suitable for the weather and something you're comfortable in, but try not to wear anything too nice in case it gets messed up. (You can never be sure with mosh pits and crazy fans and such.) You can buy a lot of band merchandise and music merchandise, ranging from t-shirts to posters to cd's. You might be able to stand in line for autographs from some of the bands. As for how people will treat you, there's no way to know that for sure. Technically, you should get along with everyone fine, after all, you're all there for the same reason and obviously have similar tastes, however, you never know with people. I think that covers most of what you need to know, anything else you should be able to find on the Warped Tour's website. Good luck and have fun!
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My sixteenth birthday is coming up in like a month. I am going to have a pool party at my house. I want something extra. I wanted one of those Sumo Wrestling moon bounce things, but one of my friends already had that so I need a new idea. It can be renting something, but it can also just be a really fun activity to do. Like one year I had a Tie Dye station and everyone made a tie dye shirt. Give any idea you have.
Also, if anyone can and should suggest just good ideas for everything in the party. Food, music, games, decorations, play things, ect. (link)
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One thing that is a lot of fun to do, especially at a pool party, is a shaving cream fight. You need a tarp or some type of covering to put on the ground, prefferably something that will get slippery easy. Buy a good amount of shaving cream cans, and let everybody have each one. Everyone should already have bathing suits on, so no clothes will be messed up, and all you need is a hose to clean up after. This may sound simple and not exciting, but it's actually a lot of fun, especially when everyone is slipping around and pictures are taken. Some other ideas for things you could do is setting up a badminton or volleyball net, getting a slip n slide, having a scavenger hunt, or doing fun games from childhood days like three legged races and such. Hope this helps!
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I have to do a project for AP Biology for the Science Fair. I was wondering what are some really good and interesting topics to do it on. Any ideas? (link)
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SOmething that people always seem to be interested in is genetics and DNA. You could do a project on forensic science, and explain how science is used in relation to crime scenes. This would be interesting to both guys and girls, and it's not something you hear a lot about in Biology. Also, you could choose from a lot of different topics underneath that subject, such as fingerprinting, or gel electrophoresis. Or, you could do a project on different genetic diseases. Another goo ideaa would be inheritance of traits, because it's always interesting to find out where your looks came from. I hope this helps.
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How can I become famous. I want to like, walk down the streets and have everyone say, Hey, thats ____! I want to be an actress. How can I get auditions to go into movies. Please help. I need to know where to start. I'm already taking Improv, Singing, (And soon) Dance classes. PLEASE HELP. Do i need an agent? how do i get one? PLEASE TELL ME EVERYTHING> (link)
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It seems as if you are already taking some good classes to get you started. Make sure you're trying to get in all the plays at your school, and look for local theaters that would be having shows you could be in. You want to be in as many plays as possible to give you a lot of acting background, it looks great on resumes. Find a place where you can get an acting comp card done. It's similar to a modeling comp card, but it has your head shot and information about yourself that agencies would like to know. You can show this to anyone you are trying to get to hire you, and it is a must to look as professional as possible. Look up acting agencies in your area and try to get appointments to talk to people, and attend as many auditions as possible. I hope that's enough to get you started.
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I'm 15/f, about 165cm tall...not sure :P and atm I weight 64.5kg( arrrghh, I know I'm fat!)
I've gained so much recently, and I really hate it.
I decided to go on a diet over the summer, cause I'd love to be nice and thin for when we back to school in September, and also be able to wear more clothes.
My aim is to weight at least 57kg by September, but less would be even better :)
I don't have much time for exercises, so could someone give me some 15 minute ones I could do in the evenings at home?
Also, what type of things should I eat?
I eat most things, except spinach and seafood :P
Maybe some other exceptions.
Also, what could be really good things to motivate me? (link)
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There aren't a whole lot of great fifteen minute exercises, but cardio workouts that really get you moving, like sports and running, are most likely to burn fat. As for diet, try to avoid sugary food like desserts and sodas, as these add weight quickly. Try to avoid eating right before bed, because your body won't have enough time to burn off the calories or turn the food into energy for your body, so it will instead turn into fat. Try to avoid eating out at fast food places, and eating foods that are extra greasy like chips and pizza. As for things to motivate you, think about how great you're going to look after you reach your ideal weight of 57kg or less. Picture yourself with the body you want and know that you will get it by eating healthy and exercising. If you think about how great you will look and how happy and confident you will be with your body shape, you should be motivated. Good luck.
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so i've never been in a relationship before... i am 18/f..... i have many guy friends (some were even best friends) and i've been comfortable with them all (and they the same) yet... i've never had a boyfriend or been in a romantic relationship before... i am not bothered by it especially since i am the one being picky about who i should be with... i've always been content with limiting things to friendship.... and after a while i develop feelings and feel like they are just silly infatuations because i respect and enjoy the company of these guys... but usually i get over it (or screw up the friendship by backing off) today i was taking one of those personality disorder tests online and one of the questions they asked was what makes me the happiest? among the options was romantic relationship and i didn't know what to choose because i have never experienced it... i mean i don't know if i'll be my happiest then ... the image i have in my head offcourse is a fairy tale... again i am fine with that.... i just don't feel like relationships are all what they are cut out to be let alone whether or not i should be happy.... i knw this question lacks structure or logic... and i guess in the end i'm saying is love something that you choose or its, well does it just happen? (link)
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As a general rule, I think love is just something that happens. However, you don't always have to be in a relationship to fall in love. For example, if you're best friend was a guy, over time you could begin to fall in love with him because of his personality and you could also be attracted to him and want a physical relationship with him, making it more than a "brother-sister" type love. I mean you have to be open to loving someone so in that way you choose it, but you can't just say I'm going to fall in love. When you're in a caring relationship with someone who appreciates you and respects you and makes you feel happy, then it is more likely that you will grow to love each other. I hope this helped.
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Okay so here's the deal...
I have bad breath. I BRUSH, & everything. I am CLEAN. I brush 3 times a day for 3 minutes each! I use crest. IDK why i have bad breath though I floss too if that helps.
I just can't stand it cause at school I'm constently chewing gum so no one will notice. BUT what can i do? Help please. ALSO is there some type of breath ment that'll last longer then 5 minutes?
thanks (link)
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I used to have this problem. Sometimes bad breath is caused by something other than not brushing teeth, so even when you do brush and floss your teeth a lot the bad breath is still there. The bad breath could be caused by your tongue if you don't brush that well enough, or it could be caused by a medical condition. I would suggest also using mouthwash two times a day, and continue using gum because it lasts the longest. If you really can't find anything that helps fix the problem, talk to your doctor about it because it could be a medical condition that they can help fix.
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my cousin's birthday is on june 28th in about 2 weeks and she will be 39 and i want to get her something for her birthday but the problem is she won't tell me what she wants she says she dosn't want anything but she always gets me something for my birthday every year and if i don't get her something i'll feel bad becouse she always buys me something even when she really can't afford it and another problem is that iam broke and there's no way i can get the money to buy her something in less than 2 weeks time so i want to make her something does anybody have any ideas thanks in advance. (link)
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There are a lot of things that you could do for her that don't cost much many or any at all. You could make her a breakfast, lunch, or dinner with her favorite foods. If you are musically talented you could write her a song, or you could write her a poem that says why you like her/appreciate her/great things about her etc. If she lives near you, you could make her a little coupon book of things you're willing to do for her whenever she wants to redeem them, such as cleaning her house or running errands for her, things like that. If you have a lot of pictures of her, or you and her, you could put together a photo album or scrapbook. If you're good at drawing you could do a self portrait of her, or just make a piece of art for her. You could bake her favorite cookies or type of cake. Whatever you end up doing, as long as you put some thought into it I'm sure she'll appreciate your effort.
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I just had my birthday and i got a TON of money. I want to buy a bunch of clothes so that way I have a ton for highschool - I'm going to be a freshman. 14/f btw. Even though i have a lot of money i don't want to spend to much on everything i buy so that way i can get more. =] what are some good stores?
Whats in right now? (link)
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Most stores that have "in" clothing are expensive, like Hollister, Pac Sun, American Eagle, Abercrombie and Fitch, Aeropostale, and Forever 21. So instead of buying clothes that are name brand and supposedly "popular," I would suggest buying one or two name brand shirts that you like a lot, and then buying the rest of your clothes from stores that are more affordable, like Target. Two other good stores that are great to go to are Ross and Marshall's. They both have a lot of name brand clothing for less than you would find the at other stores, and they have a lot of nice clothes at inexpensive prices. As long as you think you look good in the clothes you're wearing and you like them, you will exude confidence and that's all that matters.
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anyone know any aphrodisiacs? :) (link)
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Stuff like wine, chocolate, and strawberries work really well. It's been said components in sweat are an aphrodisiac. Also, there are a lot of perfumes that have aphrodisiacs in them, if you search that on Google you will find a large assortment.
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what does nut in you mean? (link)
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nut is another way of saying cum.
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Hey Hey! Does anyone know any songs which talk about controlling others and puppetry of a person. I'm doing a play called Eclipse by Simon Armitage and we need music that reflect our play! (link)
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"puppet" by thousand foot krutch
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how do i start to get to talk a girl when we both like each other without seeming strange (link)
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if you both like each other then shouldn't be akward when you talk. if you have something in common, talk about that, and if you don't know, find out things she's interested in. this way you can learn more about her, tell her about yourself, and find similar things you like. compliments also work really well.
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Okay... today is my last day at school.
so, my friend and I decide to do cheeks with this guy...
[you know, each get one side and kiss his cheek].
well, we did, an idk if that was actually my first kiss.
he like my friend more... and she has kissed him on the cheek twicce...
this is my first time doing any of that. [no im not ugly]
and, well i just need to know if it counts as being a first kiss.
please help!
ps; my bf doesnt know about it... becuase he left early... but i wanted to kiss him on the lips... maybe i will get a chance when we go back for grades on friday..
love...
Kaila (link)
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no this does not count as your first kiss. a first kiss is considered to be the first kiss on the lips.
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what are songs that can get you over your x! (link)
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"My Black Dahlia" Hollywood Undead
"Your Love is a Lie" Simple Plan
"When You're Around" Motion City Soundtrack
""Don't Wanna Think About You" Simple Plan
Hope you like some of these, message me if you would like more.
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okay well im trying to use my itunes gift card on itunes (obviously) to buy a song. i typed in my code on there, and it said this card had already been redeemed. i typed my code in before but i didnt buy anything. so, since my card was already redeemed, how can i buy songs? (link)
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You only have to redeem gift cards once. Even though you didn't purchase anything the first time you already logged the card number in the system, so you don't have to do it again. Now if you try to purchase something it should automatically reduct the amount from the total on your gift card. (You should see a little spot in the top right corner of the itunes store that has your username and how much money is in your account at the moment.) Hope this helps. :)
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are there any good videos for learning how to dance at a regular school dance or club? the moves seem simple but i dont know if im doing them right. i searched youtube and there was not really anything but hip hop moves which arent what im looking for. im a girl. thanks in advance! (link)
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well... there isn't really videos like that because there is no "dance" to do at a school dance or the club, it's just whatever you like to do. however, you could try looking up dances to popular songs that are played a lot at clubs and dances, like the dances to soulja boy, snap yo fingers, two step, and lean back. good luck.
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