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my question is how can you tell that guy is a virgin or not girl you can tell pop cherry but what about guys do they have some sign taht they are virgin? thx

How can you tell that a guy is a virgin and not a girl?
Wow. Kind of awkward.

Simply stated--you can't.
But most guys aren't exactly shy when they loose their virginity.

--Social Suicide

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well im like 16teen and when i was younger like about maybe 5-7 years old i experimented with somebody who was only like 2 yrs older i mean he didnt even go through pubity yet and i didnt feel anything so does that make me still tight like a virgin

Whoa. You're sixteen, teen!
That makes you like...invincible or someshit.
Gross. You were five. Fucking disgusting.

But yes it does still make you "Tight like a virgin".

--Social Suicide

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i am 13, and my boyfriend is 14. we are both goth-like, and we love each other. we do have sex, but all my friends say i should go to the counselor and tell her about it. but i have nothing to tell. can anyone think of why i should or should not go the counselor?

Goth-Like.
Wow you're lame.

Anywho. It is kind of gross concidering you're thirteen and already have lost your virginity.
Don't go to a counselor, what can she tell you? "Don't do it again".

--Social Suicide

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Hey.
Today I had a couple people come over, just to hang out, and I asked one of my best friends to comeover but she said she couldnt because she went out to lunch with her brother. So I said, "Oh, well when you get home call me so you can comeover." and she said ok. She never called me back so I just kinda forgot about it. Then I found out she saw our two other friends there and they asked her to go to the mall so she went! I asked her to comeover wayyy before they asked her to hang out! Ugh it just gets me so mad because I also told her yesterday that I wanted to hang out with her today and she said YEAH! I don't know if I should be mad at her or not. What do you think?
Thanks!
--> Jenna



You're friend has no heart. Therefor you should shoot her.

--Social Sucide

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Are weed and pot the same thing?

You're dumb.

But yes, they are the same thing.

--Social Suicide

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First of all, let me clear the air. Im a sexually active 20 year old, Ive never been married, and I personally see nothing wrong with premarital sex, or sex in general.

But.

I have many friends who are Christian or Catholic, and they are (in my opinion) anywhere from sexually repressed at best, to afraid of and disgusted by sex at worst.

I cant really talk to most of them about it, simply because its a very uncomfortable subject.So I pose the question to the masses. For those of you who are religious, what are your views on sex, and why?

Thought provoking answers might get my screen name for further discussion, if you like. Any answers that sound something like

"ur crazy! Sex is uber cool! I LOVE SEX AND THERS NOTHIN WRONG WITH IT!! hope I helped plz rate"

or outright flames will get a 1.

Lyykee OmGzzxxxorss!!11!
gOd izz lyykee myy H0mi3!11! Omgzx l0lrzzz

Fuck god. Just have sex. Not everything revolves around the bible.

--Social Suicide

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I write poems about a lot of thoughts that go on in my head. I want to share them with my friends, but I know if they don't appreciate them I will feel horrible. Once my friend found my journal filled with poems and she was just like, "Hmm. Do these all mean something to you?" and she just gave the idea of my poems were crap, which I know they aren't. I guess what I am asking is what should I say to my friends to make them understand how important these are to me?

Flat out tell them.
I know when people criticize my peotry, it's like they're criticizing me.


--Social Suicide

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My birthday is in a few days and I have no idea what I really want. I dont know whats in and whats new. Any ideas?

I don't know "what's in" or "what's new" but I want a friggin Ipod or my own PSP.
Totally.
--Social Suicide

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I enjoyed Antics by Interpol, and am interested in purchasing Plans by Death Cab for Cutie. If you have both of those, how similar are they?

I have niehter of their CD's and all.
I just listen to a lot of music and whatnot.

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I've been invited to a party by a girl I don't know that well and I can't decide whether to go. One one hand, I know some people who are going, and it should be fun b/c theres no parents or anything.
On the other hand, she knows some kind of... rough people, and it could turn nasty. She is always going on about how many people they beat up etc. Also she is telling everyone to bring someone, and in our neighbourhood if the local chavs (hooligans, yobs, call them what you want) might well gatecrash and beat people up.
So what do you think?

I would deffinatly go. But that's just me.
Uhm, can you drive? No anyone that can drive?
ps--Chavs are nasty gross.

--Social Suicide

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i've got that eyeshadow from hot topic. i put it on but my skin color shows up in the middle and applying more makes it very hard to see. (bright green) is there anything i could do to make it bright and stay? All it does is fall over my eyelashes. I heard putting concealer works... does it?

Oh snap. This happens to me all the time.

Use your finger/applier and pat it on don't smear it. Pat it all over your eyelid.

--Social Suicide

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I was wondering...what is the song called that the end of the chorus I think goes like "I'm beggin you, I'm begging you, I'm begging you to be my escape"? Also, who is it by, and do they have a cd?- what is the cd called? Thanks.

Relient K
"Be My Escape"
Mmmhmm [That's the album name]

--Social Suicide

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Why do atheists believe there is no God? I hear a lot of arguments against organized religion but I don’t hear many actual ‘reasons’ that there is not or cannot possibly be a God? So what are thier reasons?

Athiesm is a religion in which you beleive you are born, you live, you die, you rot. There is no higher power.
It's basicially an independance thing. They beleive that there is no proof that there is a god. No proof at all.
The Bible wasn't written by god. It was written by people. Not god.
But if you would like to explain to me why Christianity is a good religion, I'd love to listen to your argument. And your reasons why there is a 'god'.
[I'm not athiest. I'm agnostic]


--Social Suicide

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Ok my cousin and i are really good friends but in the past two years iv e developed a crush for him.. i dotn know what to do should i tell him and is it normal to like your cousin(im a 13 year old girl)

No!
It's not normal!
Get away from your cousin, you hick!

--Social Suicide

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I just got my braces a few days ago and I was wondering if I could make out with another boy with braces? Would that make the wires attach to each other? HELP MEEE!

You're deffinatly capeable of doing it.
Just don't get your teeth too close togher because your wires can acually latch onto his.
But a lot of guys find it a turn on when a chick has braces//weird;;I know.

--Social Suicide

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HEY ! IM TURNING 14 T0MORROW ! & I REALLLY WANT A J0B ! IS THERE ANYWHERE I C0ULD WORK ? LIKE BESIDES WENDYS =/ ? CUZZ I DONT REALLY WANNA WORK THERE. LOL ANY IDEAS?? thanks a tonnn! xoxo

Depends on where you live.
If you're in the cool area [like me] I'd suggest Corn Detassling.
You could be a bagger at Hy-Vee?

--Social Suicide

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im nauseas all the time...does anyone know how to get rid of it?or what to eat?

Yay! Pepto bismal!

--Social Suicide

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i wrote poems and entered them in conests and the companys are willing to publish them but i should copyright them first and i want to know if there is a website that i can go to to copyright my poems FOR FREE because i am only 14 and dont have that kind of money

I think she's right.
Do try Deviant art.

--Social Suicide
And let me read some of them, too.

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well this kid and me are good friends and ive known him since 2nd grade and we have been friends too... and i dont know but i think i like him.. and im not sure if he likes me but i think he might... how do i know if he does.. and please dont say ask him though not tryin to sound mean...
please help..
i rate high

I don't know.
Hint around about you guys being together when you're with him and play the rest out on his reaction.

--Social Suicide

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is there any way to tan easier or faster without using sunless tanning products or tanning booths?

The sun might help.

--Social Suicide

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