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she is just the one girl who takes all the guys i like. before i have a chance with them.I really like this one guy lets call him bob she is now going out with him and now she bumps into me on purpose and is always rude to me.i cant compete with her. it not fair.she has a c or d cup and is always flirting and is a hoe and i am the smart, funny, laid back girl who is pretty but then she shows up. what do i do. i still really like this guy bob. how can i stop this from happening and why is she doing this to me (link)
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Well first of all this girl is pretty disrespectful. You're right that is unfair. Have you been telling people who you like? If you have, maybe it'd be easier to keep it to yourself or with your closest most trustworthy friends. And then it may be easier for you to talk to a guy without this girl knowing first. She might be doing this because she jealous of you and doesn't want you to get the guy first. she wants to look like she's better, which is pretty pointless because a relationship is a relationship not a competition. ou shouldn't have to compete for a guy, that's not fair to you at all. Just get to know guys, don't let her get in the way of your life.
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i have liked the same guy for about a year. i met him through my other friend and we actually used to talk and everything. as soon as he found out i liked him, he started ignoring me and he told my friends he thought i was ugly and he even thinks i asked him out because he said "-name- knows i said no right?" to one of my other friends. i told him once on the phone that i dont like him anymore so maybe he could stop ignoring me, and that is slowly happening. me, him, and another friend are going to hang out soon so i hope i can get to talk to him again. any advice for what to do next? (link)
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maybe you should talk to him and tell him how it made you feel to be neglected and insulted just because of a personal feeling. its not fair to you at all. if you still like him, maybe he doesn't need to know that right away, but see what happens when you hang out. i doubt he'll ignore you the whole time if your gonna be with another person. maybe the fact that he's ignoring you and insulting you could possibly mean he likes u and can't admit it, bt PLEASE don't get carried away with that idea, keep it in mind though, but don't let it overtake you. hopefully you can be friends with him in some type of way and he'll put his bad attitude past him. good luck!
-Melissaaaaa
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Ever sence the kid i liked called me fat ive been eating less which i didnt think a problem, i told my friends thatim eating less and lost 5 pound in 2 weeks which is nothing but they flipped and now i dont feel like eating at all.I do though, but not alot just like little things and last night we went out to dinner a an all you can eat chinese place and when i got home i threw up, not intentionaltly just happened and i didnt eat that much.
whats wrong with me cause i always eat alot-always!im known for my size cause my friends love it.I weigh 193 pounds im a fatty no question asked! thats horrible considering im 14.its all in my belly so i started doing situps and running around and up and down stairs but became lightheaded so stopped.I dont want to eat cause ill gain weight but eating a banana and cottage cheese makes me full and i only eat like a spoon full before im like ugh im full.Which i would usually eat the holl container along with a sandwhich!!
why am i not eating and how can i make myself eat more without worring m ganna get fatter.
ps.dont be like ur not fat cause i am i know. (link)
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It must've really hurt you when the guy you liked called you fat. I think that may be the main reason why you can't get yourself to eat again. It may take some time, but you need to try to get over this guy. That guy had no right to hurt you like that and make you feel this way. Try to just eat. Even when thinking about your weight. just get yourself to eat. the more you keep this up, the more bad the situation will get. If you want to lose weight, do a little research and give yourself a daily exercise plan. i hope you're problem gets solved!
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My name is Mark. I have a serious problem. My friend Bill is seriously getting into drugs and it's becoming a huge issue for me. After school, me and Mitchell see him "snorting" and smoking "J" in the schoolyard. Sometimes during the night when he is high, he can be seen approaching my house dressed as a nazi. He then screams out for us to get on the bus so we can be sent to a labor facility. He is a burden and an embarassment on our lives and he is very unhealthy. How can i help him ?
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yes, you definitely can help him. obviously, i don't know what his parents are like, but they need to be aware of what's going on. it's their son, and they are very much responsible for his actions as well as he is. also, talk to the school guidance counselors. they can take a big part in helping him out and solving the situation. another thing you need to do is talk to him, show him your concern and what drugs is doing to him. if your friend told you not to tell anyone or he'll never talk to you again or something like that, don't let that stop u from telling someone. you could save his life just by doing so. i hope this helps.
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all my friends have had sex and i havent, every time they talk bout it i feel emabrrased. i feel like im pressured into doing it but im not ready. sex is a big deal and i dont want to commit,,, help! (link)
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You say you're not ready, than you are not ready. losing your virginity will severely change your life. it's a big deal. your friends can have sex all they want, but don't let that be a a reason for u to also. if you feel uncomfortable when they talk about it, ask them poiltely not to talk about it when you are around. dont make a big mistake over pressured feelings, itll be worth it. be young, live your life!
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im not what you would call popularr... actually im the opposite.. i have no friends.. its said and i get really onley. my mom lets me get lots of pets so im not ao alone but it doesn work.. im teased at school alot too. people call me a "losera" and say im "ugly and fat" ,, i just want friends. what should i do? thanks melissa... (link)
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i'm so sorry people treat you that way. but you obviously cant try to be friends with people in your school. have you ever considered switching schools? it may work to your advantage, even if it may cause other difficulties. your feelings are at stake and that is very important. try to make friends out of school too. if you have siblings or cousins who are close to your age, hang out with them and their friends. or join some type of program where you meet new people, like after school activity out of school. go to camp this summer. ive been going to camp for 9 years, it's one of the most important things in my life. maybe take up piano or guitar lessons. try to work out a school transfer with your parents, it'll improve your ability to concentrate in school more when you aren't so upset about other peoples' concerns towards you. you don't deserve to be treated this way. i hope everything works out
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i think i have OCD.
like i always have to touch a doorknob 5 times to make sure the door is completely shut. and i have like to sort everything i eat.
one time when i was in disney world i stepped on a tile with my right foot but i couldnt with my left cuz it was a long line and i cried myself to sleep every night for 3 days. whenever i tell my mom she says: Oh you'll grow out of it but im 13 and this has been going on for a while. what can i do??? (link)
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there's a big chance you may have ocd. you really gotta get your mom to listen, and also to notice whats going on. do some research and see if your symptoms are resemble the research and then show it to your mom. hope this helps!
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Everytime I go to Carson's house [My boyfriend] I'm really bored. His little brother always watches some G rated movie with us, and his parents always cook some nasty food. I hate eating at their house because all they eat is seafood, and thats the one thing I hate more then anything else. How can I get him to stop inviting me over? I'm all out of excuses, and his parent's won't let him at my house. (link)
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Maybe one thing you can do is get out more and do other things instead of sitting in his house, feeling bored, and uncomfortable. next time he invites you over say something like "hey, the new so and so movie came out yesterday i really want to see it!". and if you don't like going over for dinner, maybe go get a slice of pizza with him or somehting else you mihgt like.
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