Hey, My name is Laura! I'm a sophmore in high school. I blow out my 16 candles on December 22. I don't really know what to say on here, but I love to help anyone!
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Age: 15
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well see there is this guy that is like madley in love with me and then there is my boyfriend..... and i really love my boyfriend but how do i getrid or this other guy?????? can you help me????? thank you
AGE-14
GENDER-FEMALE (link)
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Tell the guy thats madly in love you to please, get over you. tell him you have your boyfriend and that you have no interest in him. It WILL be hard to tell him that, and it will disappoint him, but it best for your relationship with your boyfriend :]
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I cannot get my music from lime wire into my itunes library what am i doing wrong? (link)
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When you're in itunes, press CTRL+O.
it brings up a box, you have to find your music in your saved file for your music.
then can highlight up to about 4 songs at a time :/ click okay, and your songs will be on your itunes!
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okay so i'm fourteen and my boyfriend broke up with me about June 29th. We were in a really tight relationship, i could tell him anything, but all we really did was kiss, we never made out or anything. when he broke up with me i got really sick, didnt eat, and everytime i stood up i was dizzy. i have kinda moved on, i started dating this kid on the 8th, but we broke up on the 19th, due to we thought we were rushing things. now my exboyfriend (greg) is acting like a huge ass, like he was when he broke up with me. he told me to fuck off and stuff when i just texted him hey. he texted me last night saying "hey just so you know i got a new girlfriend" and i think it's my friend rachel! rachel is not really a good friend, because she tried breaking me and greg up before, and i almost punched her in her face. she knows what i went through with him, and what happened in the break up and everything! im not sure there going out or not, but he's #1 on her myspace, and she's #1 on his. i don't know what to do bc i kinda still like greg, but i need to get over him. he even asked for the hoodie back he gave me, that i used to sleep with every night. please help me i don't know what to do. im thinking maybe that im being jealous, because i did have a new boyfriend before rachel, but i think its wrong for him to date my friend. (link)
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Grr. you're not alone... I'm going through the same thing. My boyfriend and i broke up last month, i don't even know when. We were going out since January. I got with him after my friend and him broke up, big mistake! But the thing is, i didn't even find out that they were going out 'till 2 days they broke up. What really upset me about her was, i invited him to my 15th birthday party to be with me.. I liked him. She was all over him, I went out with him over the summer, [this party was in December]. And i still liked him, What hurt me was that I told her I liked this boy, she didn't listen! I got so pissed off to the point that I wanted to kick her out of my party.. This was my BEST FRIEND. When I went to go talk to him, I sat down next to him [i took the chance when she wasn't even near him] I sat next to him, i got a few words in then i heard "Laura, im talking to him, MOVE" I was like "Bitch, this is my party, shut the fuck up" I literally said that! I cant believe i said that to my best friend, im naturally really nice to my aquantinces, friends, and best friends. What i'm telling you is, You have to call Rachel and ask her whats going on. Ask her about Greg. Thats the only way you're going to find out.. I found out from a random person in the hallway at school..
Remember, You're not alone! You can always inbox me :]
good luck!
xoxo
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im offically hating my life at the moment. i hear rumors about my boyfriend cheating me but yet everytime i confront him about it he'll say there making it up and start flipping out even say im lieing and making it up. but yet would people say stuff if it wasnt true? i want to believe hes telling me the truth, but yet deep down i know he probably isnt. and than when he goes back to the girls that told me they all tell him they never told me so it makes me look crazy. He'll ask me to the movies one night and than make up an excuse and turn everything back on me and say we arent going cause i didnt want to and not see me that ngith and tell me the next morning he went out with his friends. he thinks hes being honest but if he was honest wouldnt of he told me in the first place that night he was going intill the next morning? i feel like he always picks his friends over me and when were on breaks he tries so hard to get back with me yet goes around telling everyone hes single. and throws in my face the girls hes talking to. yet he tells me he doesnt like them and hell stop talking to them for me but who knows if hes lieing. He saids we need to talk about our problems but everytime i try and he wont answer me back or just push me to the side and say hell call me later but never does. it would nice to save this relationship cause its been for 2 years and id like to believe him when he saids he loves me. but its tearing me apart honesty and i dont know what to do cause when i try to stop talking to him and finally go this is it im done. he'll text..callme... message me.. non stop. and its my fault for giving back in. i feel as he only wants me when he has nothing better to do. has this happen to anyone else? any good advice, it would help alot. (link)
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Ugh, my boyfriend was the same exact way. Everyone would tell me he was cheating on me and making me look stupid. But when i asked him "did you cheat on me with blah blah blah?" he would be like "Wow, who said that? Whoever did their just jealous. You probably said ''i dont believe you'' so they gave you the girls screen name to be a decoy and you asked them and they said yes, but their lying to you so you break up with me." That is exactly what happened, it seems like he planned on this happening. But, truth is, he did cheat on me, people just don't talk smack like that out of the blue. Do any of your friends pretend someone is cheating on their girl friend? I don't find it very funny when someone does... None of my friends do that, someone has to have no life to do that. Even my best friends from his school [we went to different schools, the next town over] told me that he was cheating on me, and every week he would ask her to hook up with her and she would ask "aren't you going out with laura?" and he would be like "nope". Its like hes embarrissed to be going out with me! SO MANY GUYS WANTED TO HOOK UP WITH ME --- the hottest guys in my school! i turned them down. But one day, a guy just came up to me and started making out with me, he was rather large so i couldn't push him off because i'm tiny. So he got pissed that i was attacked.. but yet i didnt flip a shit if i heard he cheated on me, unfair? yes.
i know this was a longish answer, but i really think it would be good if you left him. It did me so much for me, im a happier girl now.. It's the only thing, I went through the same thing, so if you want to IM me on Seeing S0unds
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Ok i have TONS of friends,and i will always have tons of friends. But now that its summer everyone is on vacation,or there busy and alot of my friends dont keep in touch. I have absolutely nothing to do with my time,and im not talking about JUST today,i am talking about for the whole summer. I am glad summer is hear and all but i have nothing to do!!! So basically what i am asking is what do i do all summer? I need suggestions and even if you see 5 people already answered,dont let that stop you!!!!! I do rate and give feedback! Thanx in advance (link)
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I agree with everything that jack suggested! Their all great ideas. You could also:
- go on a walk.
- take photography pictures of stuff.
- [this always works for me] listen to your ipod, a very danceable song, run around your house dancing, letting your hair go crazy and also yourself.
- go into your backyard, spin until you're dizzy and RUN! take a video on your camera!
- sing even if you're not the best
- search funny shit on youtube
- call a random number and talk to whoever answers.
- let a helium balloon float up to your ceiling and throw things at it to pop it.
heres some other good ideas: but i think the poster below did some of the same stuff
links:
1. http://www.discoverfun.com/freeinfo/500fun/when_severly_bored.html
2. http://punkbabigurl.tripod.com/id8.html
have fun!
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14/f So I have this friend lets call her emma. Emma has no other friends other then me. She had in school friends that we hung out with like "our group" and stuff but they never call her to do anything unless i set up a group thing. She also has this friend lets call her Rita from another group who she kinda hangs out with but Rita has other friends who she'd rather hang out with. And last Emma has a friend named Haley who goes running with her for soccer. Besides soccer Emma has nothing else to do. She texts me every day trying to start a conversation, trying to ask me if i want to hang out. And when i do say i can hang out it's like she plans her whole day around me, waiting for me to call her to say i can hang out. I know i should be a better friend and call her and either say okay i can hang out at this time: blah blah blah but usually i hang out with other friends and blow Emma off. I know it's mean, but i can't help it. Emma gets mad but since i'm her only friend she gets over it.
Emma won't leave me alone. At parties she follows me EVERYWHERE. She has a huge mouth and she's really loud and awkward. Now that i'm her friend it's like she doesn't even try she's always wearing icky clothes and such.
I want to stay friends with Emma but i'm sick of people thinking we are best friends? I don't like her anymore and i wanna...i just want her to stop calling me so much and following me everywhere.
help? (link)
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Well, i used to have a friend like that, when we were alone it was a BLAST to hang out with her, when we were at school, parties, or with other friends she'd follow me. IT WAS SO ANNOYING! every time she IMed/called/texted/facebooked/myspaced me i'd ignore it every few times but not all the time. so for a day, ignore emmas texts and calls, tell her you were with your BEST FRIEND. shell get the fact you have more then one best friend, also at parties like speed off to somewhere. run thru crowds so it looks like your trying to get away from her but shell follow you. or say "ill brb stay here." or if you get in contact with the person hosting the party, ask if they cannot invite emma because you dont want her there or something.
about the fashion--thats just judgeing. but what i'd do is go onto websites, like forever21, wetseal, zumiez, abercrombie, abercrombie and fitch, pac sun, delias ETC. and be like OMG this shirt would look so cute on you, you should get it! friends listen to friends, right? :]]
good luck! if you need anymore help you can inbox me!
xoxo Laura
shell get the point that you need time alone.
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theres a song that goes like
i love this crazy night i wanna spend my life i wanna fly so high tonight
its number 2 on
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=132677733
does anyone know the name of the song or who sings it ? (link)
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rocket in the sky by phobia feat naan,
heres the lyrics
"Hey boy
Hey boy
Hey boy
When we first met
On the 31st
And it was Halloween
You know what I mean
(and) I was the one dressed up
as a rocket
that night
Please, please
Don't ask me why
Hey boy
Hey boy
You came over me
And said
�Tell me
if you�re alone tonight
can I be by your side?�
Hey baby, ain�t we having fun
Tonight
Little rocket in the sky
Little rocket in the sky
Tell me  Pa pa da da pa pa da da�
Was a rocket in the sky
I�m a rocket in the sky
Baby baby
Ain�t we having fun tonight
I�ll be by yourside
I�ll be by yourside
Baby baby
I�ve been there all
Year long
Standing by the telephone
The telephone
Hey baby
If you care for me
Why don�t you call
And give me some dignity
Some decency
Rocket in disguise
Rocket in disguise
Don�t ask me why
Don�t ask me why
I�m a rocket in disguise
Don�t ask me why
I�m a rocket in disguise
Don�t ask me why
Tell me
Ba da da da �
I�m a rocket in disguise
Ba da da da �
Hey boy
Hey boy
Hey boy"
**add on.
this is to the first song though, sorry i couldnt find the 2nd one
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What do you say when parent's ask you a question you don't know the answer to cuz they hate when you say i don't know.
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I just say "i honestly have no idea, im sorry"
or, something along these lines:
"I'm not sure"
"Haven't heard of it"
or just flat out-- "I DONT KNOW!"
but the one that my parents accept is
"i honestly have no idea, im sorry/i apologize"
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I need a name for my American Eskimo Dog. My dog is a boy and it is pure white.
What are some good names?
Thanks in advice. =] (link)
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heres some ideas:
[to do with snow]
snowball
snowflake
avalanche
eskimo
blizzard
[to do with just white]
cottonball
cotton
cloud
[to be funny] negro [black in spanish, opposite of american, opposite of white]
[just named in general]
Dog
Pippy [pippi?]
puff doggy
walle
dutchess [a really good name for a boy dog!]
Roxy
sammy
here are some tips:
http://www.nameadog.com/dognamingtips.html
here are some more links for more unique names!:
1. http://www.favorite-puppy-names.com/name-for-a-puppy.html
2. http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Hills/4611/petnames2.htm
i recommend link #2 because theres over 2,000 names :]
good luck and happy training!
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I'm 18!...and i wear a 34a bra size BUT from the little girls. anything else is too big and does not fit right. I really skinny. and i wear patted bras. does any body know any website i can go to were i can buy bras that make it look like i have more than a 13 year old girl (link)
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Victorias secret!
they have really good push up, air bras. it makes your boobs look bigger. i also am a 34a but im 15, almost 16. but it makes my boobs look like a b.
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I went out on a first date with this guy. He is really nice and everything, but I'm not really looking for a relationship. During the date, he asked what I'm looking for and I explicitly said "nothing serious".
He has called me every day since the date (which was 4 days ago) and has even invited me to spend the night.
He's a nice guy and I wouldn't mind spending time with him, but I don't want a relationship with him and I don't want him calling all the time!
What do I do? I hate being mean to people. (link)
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I was in the same position, but i met the guy and he asked for my number and i gave it to him. since then he has been calling me 24/7. even at like 9 in the morning when im sleeping.
whenever he calls, i sometimes answer his call, i sometimes dont. and when i do answer his call, i say im on the other line with my friend ill talk to you later. or i say im doing something ill talk to you later. Just keep doing that, eventually hell understand that hes not worthy to you.
when you want to hang with him, YOU call him and ask him to hang out. don't let him ask you every time.
hope i helped
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Guys, what are things you hate that girl's do? Like if they're annnoying and if they check your cell phone a bunch or something. I just want to know all the things guys hate about girls. Like yeah, if that makes sense? Even girls can tell me! Like any things you know guy's don't like. THANKS :D (link)
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heres 99 facts about guys that can help you out:]
http://gleez.com/articles/relationship/99-facts-about-guyz-very-true
i know for a FACT guys hate girls obsession with their cell phones, but hey, we cant help it! haha.
good luck :]
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i dont know if the translation is right since i got it off the internet, but if ne one knows how to speak german on here i could use some help pronouncing this "Weibchenesel Hacke"
since ppl aint allowed to cuss in skool i though ok i'll cuss in another language.... (link)
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I'm german! i'm currently learning it from my father. its really pronounced how its written.
it would be like
we-eyb-chen-esel h-AAAAAA-k
you dont pronounce the E at the end.
and the "ha" in "hacke" is over pronounced. like over exagerated. :]
what exactly are you trying to say? heres some cussing words in german.
fuck you: ficken sie [feeken-se]
slut: schlampe [sk-lam-p]
bitch: weibchen [we-eyb-chen]
hoe: Hacke [h-AAA-kk]
asshole: arschloch [ar-sci-loch]
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Okay, So i have a Verizon CHocolate, And i want to upgarde it and get another phone. I had my phone since May 2007. My plan ends in May 2009. How does upgrading work. Do you get certain ammount of money off? and I have warranty on my phone. It broke 2 and i got a new phone both times. (Same Chocolate, since it was under warranty)And In august I got my number changed. So my question is, Can I still upgrade it, even hough i got 2 phones under warranty and a new number, And then How does upgrading work? Thank you!. (link)
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I also have the verizon LG chocolate, very shitty phone right? i broke the first one about 15 times until they stopped selling it so they upgraded me to the newer virsion for free. My suggestion would be if you have the newer chocolate, when they stop selling it [probably in the next 3 or 4 months] break the slider. slide it 24 hours a day so it gets loose, blame it on the damn slider and they'll have to give you a new phone. :] thats my plan.
If you break the two contract, you have to pay a termination fee, which can be about $400. Then, you have to get the phone, get a contract, and everything all over again. I suggest you wait until may to save some money.
If you wait until may 2009, you will get 50 dollars off your next phone.
Good luck :]
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I have sunburn on my face and my nose and cheeks are starting to peel. Ive been using Solarcaine to help the burn, but what would help it stop peeling? thanks (link)
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Aloe, it will moisturize your face and also help the burn. Make sure its the green kind!
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i'm having hard troubles trying to get guys to like me what should i do i need some advice
love,can't get a guy (link)
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First, you cant GET a guy to like you, but you can GET him interested in you. Heres how..
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Guy-to-Like-You
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16/f
well ther is redness on like my upper cheeks like under my eyes. do you know of any good concerlers or founation. i would prefer foundation so my entire face would look flawless.
thanks (link)
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what i use is that is truly AMAZING is bare minerals. Get the starters kit--its $60.00-- it includes moisturizer, a flawless application brush, a concealer brush, and a mineral veil brush.
First you wash your face, then you apply your moisturizer! thats your first step.
after your moisturizer is applied and in the skin, use the concealer [it will tell you in order on the box, im not sure what color skin you are but im fairly light]
so i would start off with fairly light with the concealer brush, i put it on my blemishes, red spots, acne scars, under my eyes, on my eye lids [it blends your eyeshadow really good if you put it on your eye] and anywhere else i really need it.
second, i'd use light, the foundation, you apply it with the flawless applicateion brush. Just use as much as you'd like! but remember-- with bare minerals a little goes a long way! [remember, put a little in your cap. swirl the brush in the cap, and tap, you'll have enough for your whole face!]
third, i'd use the bronzer stuff it comes with, this is FAIRLY DARK. probably the perfect start off color for a black person. So use very little, again, swirl brush in cap, tap, and you'll have enough for your whole face.
fourth it comes with radience, its a sparkle that makes your face look fresh and new. It looks really nice! i use clear radience.
fifth, i use the mineral veil with the mineral veil brush, the mineral veil protects your makeup from rubbing off, when you sweat it wont smudge or get all gross looking, so use this AFTER you put your eyeshadow and blush on!
don't worry about finding the right color.
go to your local sephora store and they'll find it for you :]
good luck !
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So today out of nowhere my left eye started to hurt. It's mostly when I move it into a certain direction.. like all the way to the left, straight up or all the way to the right.
Any ideas on what might be causing this?
I don't have any history of bad eyesight, too much tv or anything like that. (link)
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Did you wear mascara or eyeliner to bed? Because if you did, it could have gotten into your eye, causing bacteria. Also you could have the slighest eye infection, maybe you could see a doctor, because it could become into pink eye, which no one wants!
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Well this is the first song i've written it's not that good but i just need advice on how i can improve the song or if it's good or if i need to change afew words
heres the song-
Over you
You left like you never knew me
You could've stayed
We could've worked it out
But you just took off and ran
Oh baby if only you knew
How much i loved you
& needed you Ohhh
But babe i'm just so over you
Over you
Completely over you
Ohhh overrr you
I just don't need you
Over you
So many sleepless night
& never did you care
So many tears and fears
& you were never there
I've worked real hard &
Never mind the nights i had to cry
Better off without you ooohhh
But babe i'm just so over you
Over you
Completely over you
Ohhh overrr you
I just don't need you
Over you
You were just so crul
You lied so many times
made me cry so many times
You'll come back no doubt
But boy im so much smarter and wiser
i dont need you
I got through alone
Babe Im just so voer youu
Overr you yehhh
Over youuuu (link)
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oh my god! i can COMPLETELY relate to this song! this is truly AMAZING HOW IT IS.
I LOVE IT.
if you record it, i have to hear this!
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13/f
so since its summer you hear of girls shaving "down there" for bikini season.
do you shave all of it?
or do you just shave what can be shown through a bikini?
i shaved it all once and it left re bumps that itched ((( is that normal )))???
please tell me what you do. (link)
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its 100% normal.
since your skin is so sensative down there when you shave it acts up. i suggest putting aloe [the green kind] on after you shave, it cools it down.
and you can do anything you want! either one is fine, do whatever you feel comfortable doing.
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