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kayy well i was going out with a really cool guy and this girl that used to be my best friend asked him out when we just broke up and she told him she asked me that it was ok to go out with him but she never asked me. so im really mad at her. but now the guy wants to go out with me again but he doesnt like to say no to people like the other girl but i hate her now so i feel like getting back at her so this is the best thing i can think of. is it ok??? (link)
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(note to people who answered and commented on her being immature or jealous, that has nothing to do with this site, it's for advice, not for us to ridicule her morals)
I would say that if you are only thinking of getting back at your friend, then don't do it. You would be using him to hurt somebody who used to be a good friend. I would advise you to talk to your friend, tell her how you feel and see if the two of you can remain friends. Friends are invaluable and you should never attempt to get rid of one for a petty reason.
About the guy, if you LIKE him and you want another chance with him, then go out with him. Otherwise, don't. It would be a very cruel thing to do to go out with him just to get back at her. And if he can't say no to her, then that shows how little he's willing to do for you. If he can't say no, I don't think you can say yes.
If you're unsatisfied with my answer, or you have further questions, feel free to ask more.
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I Love this guy to death and I really want to go the next level with him, but I'm nervous and scared about what he thinks. How do I overcome this nervousness? (link)
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This may sound difficult, but you just have to let go. I used to be very nervous and shy myself, so believe me when I say that you're really not going to have an easy time of overcomming your nervousness unless if you just let go. If you really love him, then you should just be able to let go and let yourself fall. If he really loves you, he'll catch you. I know that sounds cheesy, but if he catches you, everything will work. Things will progress naturally.
I'm sure you were looking for a much more definite, literal answer, but there isn't one.
One small thing: about what he thinks, don't worry. If he loves you, he'll be happy with whatever you are or whatever you've got.
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i was just wondering where you can find someone to be with (as in girlfriend and boyfriend) like online or something. cuz i mean there is no one at school that im really into. i just want a good site to meet single teens ready for a relationship. btw, im 13/f. THANKS A BUNCH!!! (link)
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This probably isn't the answer you're looking for, but don't look on the internet. I've got alot of experience in that area, and you're never really gonna find a better relationship on the internet than you will find in your area. Just be patient and eventually, somebody will come along that you'll be into, and if you're lucky, they'll be into you.
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I like this guy *dylan* and he used to (at least it seemed like it,) flirted with me last year and im at a different school this yr, and he keeps giving me the wrong email address, and my friend keeps telling him he better give me the right one and blah blah blah!! i don't know wut to do!!!!!!!!! please help!!!! :(
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I hate to say this, but it sounds like he doesn't like you anymore. It sounds like he used to be interested in you, and now he's lost interest and he's trying to piss you off and lose your interest in him.
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well see i like this guy, and he has a girlfriend... but we have all our classes together and none w/his girlfriend. so he's always flirting with me and saying "i love you" but were just really good friends and i think he likes me too, and my friends think so too... so i'm confused. he always wants hugs from me, and he'll say "you don't love me anymore..." and i'll say, "how do you know?" so this one time he said "well i know for a fact, that if i asked you out right now you'd say no" so i never thought he was saying i love you like that... so, does he like me? sorry so long and confusing
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As a guy, I think I can answer this question pretty accurately.
He likes you. He likes you, but he either likes his girlfriend too, or he is afraid to break up with her. Maybe if you let him know how you feel, he'll tell you that he likes you too, but doesn't know how to break up with his girlfriend, which is how I met my current girlfriend, who I love. Unfortunately, it's also possible that he'd say "I like you too, but I like my girlfriend too much to do that to her." which I actually had to say something similar to a friend of mine recently.
I'd say tell him how you feel and hope for the best.
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Well i got my girlfriend a really nice gift for her birthday...well not gift....more like gifts....they were pretty expensive all together....but its her first birthday since weve been going out....and weve been going out for about 4 months now....do u think really expensive is a bad or good thing? (link)
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In my experience, expensive gifts are good, but that early in the relationship, you don't want her to know that it was expensive.
It'd be good for you to get her something really nice, but not very common. For instance, I sent my new girlfriend(who I'd known for a while) to a dayspa for her birthday. It cost $165 for the dayspa, plus another 35 for chocolates and the card, but she had no idea how much it had cost. I got the credit for a good gift without it seeming like I was moving too fast and spending too much.
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