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I really like this boy. He is the friend of alot of my friends that I hang out with regularly, but he does not always hang out with us because he lives quite far away even though he is in my school district. We have one class together: band. I really want to start talking to him. I am very friendly, but I just have no idea where to start. We have alot of social time in band, but it just seems too much of an akward streach just to walk over and start talking to him. I dont want to seem desperate or attention seeking, thats why I feel so akward just walking up to him and chatting him up.

Also, I think that I am nice looking and am overall pretty self-confident, but I have braces. I have never had a real boyfriend before and I feel like thats why. Honestly, I usually dont even "like" guys with braces unless there is somthing really special or likable about them. My braces are coming off soon, but I like him now! I feel self-concious about my smile. Also, prom is in a few months and I would love for him to take me! :D

I really am seriously crushing on this guy, I just dont know what to do about it! Please help! (link)
Band is always a good class to have with a boy first off, because it should give a lot of things to talk about. Nervousness is common in crushing on anyone, you don't know what to say because maybe you'll feel stupid. Here is what i suggest, be brave and take that chance. Start off with the assignment that you have and maybe ease off into talking about prom. See if he even likes prom. if he does then ask him if he would like to go with you. guys are very fragile creatures, you rush them into a relationship the run off screaming, just ease yourself into the conversation.
See the best thing to do is if he starts talking back go off it, don't go back into whatever it is that you want to talk about. talk about what he likes and what he would like to do later.
hoped my suggestion is helpful. need anymore help feel free to post again.
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It sounds like 'Everywhere' By Michelle Branch at the beginning with the guitar, but its not that song. I think the artist is called 'Wade' and i cant remember any of the lyrics.
Any help? XD I know this isn't a lot to go off of. (link)
Have you tried looking at all of Wade's and Branch's lyrics? That may help a lot, that is what I do when I can't find the song and can't remember the lyrics. I start to look at all of the songs and lyrics either on the cd or on the internet because some cd's don't give you the lyrics. if you still can't seem to find it you can ask me again, but that is my suggestion first look there.
Hoped i helped.
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whats the diff between watching a regular movie in THE THEATERS AND imax??


also, a harry potter question:

does cedric die in goblet of fire? if he did, then how come he was in order of phoenix?? (link)
The difference between imax and an actual movie theater is that in imax you get to wear these glasses that makes the movie pop out at you and you can feel like you were just in the movie. For your Harry Potter question yes Cedric did die in the Goblet of Fire, but the reason he is in the Order of the Phoenix is because they are refrensing him. Do you remember the part where the order is in the room of requirments and it is christmas. Cho is at the board that has all their names on it and she's looking at him wondering about him. Harry see's comes over and she refenses him by asking Harry if Cedric knew magic. He wasn't really in the movie he was just being brought back for people to reminisce about him.
hope i helped.


How can I make my style different. Everyone at my school wears uggs, Hollister, Victoria's secreat, Forever 21(A LOTT!)

What can I do to be different, or just get my own style?! (link)
Either try out stores that people in your school don't go to like Spencers or Hot Topic or just a store that your really into. Being different doesn't always mean breaking off into a whole different look. You can also go through your closet pick out clothes that you would think stand out and mix match them. A t-shirt with a tank top over it, then put whatever your style is like belts scarfs etc. just make it your own. You can even go to Garage sales and get clothes there. hoped i helped.


Well you see there this boy iven been liking for awhile now. I have this class wit him and like we talk and play around and stuff. you see he knewed i liked him but i dont know if he still knows i like him. Because like he always flirt with me and stuff, and if he do know that i still like him does he like me or if he just flirting with me just to flirt. And if he dont know that i like him should i say somthin or wat. But if i do i dont wont things to be awkard beteewn us.
what should i do?? (link)
Then honestly don't let things get Awkward between you two. While reading this i would have said tell him, but once i finished reading i realized that you shouldn't say anything at all because if he really likes you, then he will come to you. Don't exactly ignore him, just kinda shut him off while he's trying to filrt. See if he's still trying to get the filrt still going, then he doesn't really like you. He's just filrting to just filrt, but if he stops and leaves you alone when you tell him to, then he may or may not like you, but he respects you enough to do what you say. after that wait a couple of weeks see if he starts up again if he doesn't rephrase your "question" of do you like me?




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