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ok well here's the problem --- see if you can do the math. Ok my friend Eric is the FUNNIEST guy i've ever met, he's my sunshine in total *u*king darkness... like i talk to him to help me deal with my oh-so-emo life. He's always there for me, and i'm always there for him. I'd help him with ALL kinds of his problems, but then he just got a new (and totally bad!) one.. that i cant seem to solve. His girlfriend broke up with him, and they went out for 2 years, the breakup was REALLY hard on him *he thought he was gonna marry her or something* and he really wants a girlfriend. I'm not sure if he's on the rebound, but i dont think so. He's 16 and driving this September, and yet he cant get a girlfriend. He's semi-hot, but looks dont matter *even though they sorta do but..*. He said that he knows alot of girls and has alot of friends that ARE girls, but they are all taken. He dosent see the beauty of being single--yet. But he's been really depressed and so have i, i got threatend to be killed, and i wanted him to help me cope with it through laughter, but he was just as upset. Also, he's in my band, and the band is me and him lol, and we both make lyrics, and my lyrics are serious and emo because i'm going through that stage in life when everything sucks, and he makes the fun, jump-in, dance, funny, sorta lyrics, but ever since he's been depressed, his lyrics are just like mine, and i dont want everyone to think our band is emo and gothy. Also, i want the best for him, cause he's my homeboy lol. My friends and i talked to him about dying his hair and stuff *changing his apperance* but he's a band jocky, and he's a lost cause. WHAT DO I DO?! I rate high!!! (link)
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I'm sry to hear about all the crap that is happening to you and your friend. I think you should tell him that he can't rush love, or just fake love (like not love). Try to show him how much fun it is to be single sometimes, and before you know it, love will come to him. It may not happen right away, but tell him not to base his life on finding a girlfriend. I know breakups are hard, i've been through it, but i got over it after a while. Right now, he may be asking you to help him to find a girl to go out with, but what he really needs is for you to help him get over his ex. I really hope i helped you and your friend out. If you ever need more advice, i'm always here.
Thanks,
Jenna
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kay i have these friends that i meet in 6th grade ive known them for two years now and a short time ago they all got mad at me and started curseing me out. they wont leave me alone i want to for get them because they have mad my life a leaveing hell. they even got my best friend to curse me out and blow stuff of with me and go with them. we are goign to the same high school in a year and they wont stop. i dont kno what to do? im lost please help. thanx!! (link)
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It sounds like they are a mean group of people, you should try to find some new friends that are actually nice to you. I can't believe how mena some people can be sometimes. I can't really give anymore advice to you except this: never be like those girls and be mean to people, that way you'll never have friends if your mean. I hope i helped.
Thanks,
Jenna
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ok. well one of my best friends is best friends with my enemy. ok lets call my enemy sally and my best friend holly..ok anyways sally used to be my best friend but she dumped me..(long story) and she is really mean to me now. and now she is trying to get all of my friends like holly to be her friend. ok and when sally is around her new friends that hate holly she is mean to her. and also sally is really mean to me and it just drives me crazy of how holly and sally are always doing things together and holly talks about sally behind her back and stuff...im just really confused and how could i get them to not be friends or do you have a better way i could solve this without there being a fite?
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Do not try to make them not friends anymore, when friends tell friends that they can't be friends with someone, just becasue they don't like them, that would be a huge mistake, trust me, i've seen it happen. Just tell her the truth, don't tell her in a bratty way, she'll think ur just jealous of her, and tehn she'll be mean to you and be amd at you. If she doesn't understand what your trying to say when your talking to her, try and write her a note or a letter type thing, try to explain it so she can undersatand that your not trying to be mean to "sally", but your jsut telling what you know about her. I hope i helped you out.
Thanks,
Jenna
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So i have this "friend" that thinks everyone likes her and all and she's always like "oh everyone's posing me" and what not. and she CONSTANTLY wants to prove something to me, like she's better than me or something. and i frankly, don't care if she's better or not, but what really bugs me is that one of my bestfriends is ALWAYS complaining about how annoying she is but always goes out of her way to be nice to the "annoying" kid. i talked to her about it already and it didn't help but strain our relationship. and quite frankly, a lot of kids think she's kinda...awkward but they all STILL go out of their way to please her and all. it's gotten to the point that i just can't stand being around her because of her so focking annoying behavior. she ALWAYS wants people to pity her ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS and she ALWAYS thinks people are posing her when in reality, she's as much of a poseur as any of us. this has been bugging me for the longest time so what do you think i should do? sitting down and talking to her is definitely not a choice because she's such a butthole. (link)
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If she starts bugging u again, tell her, in a nice way, that she is really bugging you, and you want ehr to stop it, and if she doesn't then just don't be friends with her. Hope i helped.
Thanks,
Jenna
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