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Q: what should you do if you like someone and one of your close friends knows you like that person and you think your friend likes the person you like but they wont tell you because they know thats who you like and you just want them to atleast confess and tell you thats who they like but neither of you will say something.
well nothing will happen unless one of u's do sumthing about it. If your friend is not gonna budge then u mine and well tell them and get it over with. Because if u don't them this could end up in an aruguemnt or a fight. Maybe if your the first to confess then your friend will confess as well and you guys can find a way to reason on this. but always re-a-sure your friend that there more improtant than any guy.. unless you don't feel that way.

Q: what if at the moment you really dont want to have a relationship with anyone, but ur already stuck with someone but youre not going out..but you dont want to hurt their feelings and they think you like someone else at the same time n they would think the reason why u dont wanna be with them is for the other person?
Well if you not going out it doesn't exactly mean you stuck with them. If you don't like them anymore than its mean to keep leading them on, they'll get hurt more in the end if you don't tell them you don't like them now. Be easy on them, and say that the feelings just aren't there anymore and being friends with them would mean alot. If you like sum other person then wait a lil while til you start developing another relationship because everyone has feelings. If you don't like this other person then explain to them there is no one else and if they really care about you then they'll believe u

Q: what do you do if you want a question to ask missygrl but you just ccant think of one and its killing you?
lol then don't ask til u get one =)

Q: theres this girl and we used to be able to talk for hours about random things but then she found out that i liked her and things got different. she started acting way differnt so i said that well just stay friends so we could talk like we used to before cuz i still do like her. but things dont seem to be goin back that way.. what should i do
Well things will prObably not go back to the way things use to be, because when you find out sumone likes u, its harder to talk to them about "random" things, just stick with it, you don't wanna loose this person as a friend. if u think it would be to wierd going out with this person then, treat them only as a friend, and see how she reacts to this.

Q: i like this one girl, i can never get her off my mind, only i will never tell her or anyone else because i want her to be happy and i dont want to get involved anymore then i am. i always want to be there for her and i am. and it just seems like being more then what we are right now, will mess up our future.
what do i do?
Well your making this sound like your a no-body in which every case ur speical to someone, Putting yourself down and saying I will never tell because i want her to be happy, well maybe she would be happy with you. If you and this girl had something going on before, and you both were happy, what makes you think it can't happen again. If you really don't wanna get together again then maybe you should tell her what your feeling but you only want to be friends. whats the worst that could happen?

Q: What do you do if you have liked this guy for so long and you now think your over him but you just cant get him out of your head because he has been in there for so long?
Well try being friends with him, then you mite start seeing him as "Just a friend" and slowy he will get out of your head. If not then find someone your interested in and you'll start thinking less and less of him.

Q: what if your obsessed with this girl named melissa but you dont want her to kno
haha obsession is not always a good thing .. but i think u gave this one away =) lol

Q: What do you do when you've fallen for ur best friend and you don`t wana tell them cuz you don`t things to get messed up and there goin out with someone?
Sometimes in life not everything is going to go your way. If ur bestfriend is happy going out with someone, then if u really care about this person you won't go ahead and mess things up. Your bestfriend will always be your bestfriend, and they'll always be there. If things don't work out with this person and your bestfriend and you still like him/her then tell them.

Q: wut do you do if liked some one but they are actin mean and are avoiding you even tho you just want to be friends
Sometimes people can act different than they use too, maybe you should try talking to them, and asking them why they are avoiding you, because maybe they have a reason that you guys can work on. If there is no reason than maybe just saying i don't know what i did, but i`m willing to be your friend.

Q: How do you stop someone from wanting to fight you?
Well first u have to question urself why is this going on? Maybe u should try talking to this person and try working things out with them, if not things may only get worst

Q: what do you do if you like someone but dont know if they feel the same way? And thier friends with someone who likes you but you tell that person you like them only as a friend because you like thier friend.What should you do?
Well don't back off of someone you like, just because there friend likes you. Yeah we all know how bad we feel when we hurt someone, so just speak the truth. Tell him/her that things btwn u guys are not going to work out because the feelings are just not there. And tell him that your kinda feeling sumone else and if u feel confident in yur answer tell them who, and to not take this as an affence and that you would like to be friends. If he really cares about you he'll understand.

Q: do you tell some one you like them even if you know that they might not feel the same way?
Depending on the situation, if u want them to know then go for it, because you never know maybe if you tell that you like them, then there feelings might change.

Q: What do you do if.......
hmm .. tough one u have to find sumthing to talk about not sumthing for me to finish

Q: what if you think your fat? and other people dont but a few said you are? what do you do? and how would you know if your so called friends arent lying to you?
Well what do you think of urself? If ur unhappy with the way you look then maybe exercise a little bit more, or limit ur servings of unhealthy food each day. Friends sometimes don't wanna hurt eachothers feelings with telling the truth, and half the time that doesn't even matter. If people call you fat then there obvisouly insecure about themsleves, and say stuff to you to make them feel better about themsleves. Don't listen to what others have to say because theres a 50/50 chance there wrong.

Q: what do you do if it seems like someone keeps on stalking you?
Well sometimes people can become obsessive over others, and we know thats not good. Let this person know that they need to back off a little bit. If they don't then tell someone like a parent and see what they can do. If its the type thats calling you, and won't leave you alone on the internet then block his or her screen name, and don't pick up phone calls because thats the worst thing you can do.

Q: why do guys act like assholes, not only to piss you off, but to show off in front of there friends and when they find out you like them, there mean to you?
Because guys don't understand girls and how they react to certain things. When showing off in front of thier friends although it makes them look stupid in front of girls, to them they think they look cool and try to be someone we know they'll never be. When they find out you like them, there mean because thats there way of firlting with you, sumtimes guys are so unpredictable, there just typical guys who will never change, just know that he is the lucky one to have you

Q: why are girls a pain in the ass
good question .. Well - all girls are different, every girl has a different way of expressing herself and sumtimes taking it out on others is the way she goes. Every girl will be a pain in the ass at one time or another i guess thats just sumthing we need to deal with

Q: what do you do when you`d do anything for someone but they would do absoloutley nothing for you?
Sometimes not everyone is as caring as the person u turn out to be, but just keep on being who you are and just hope that person accepts u for who you are and doesn't take advantage of it

Q: what do you do when some one keeps on throwing things at your table in lunch and hits your friend in the eye?
Laugh about it and brush it off - it's no big deal throw gum wrappers back not brownies!

Q: what if you dont wanna be just friends with the guy your still not over though?
Unfortunatley, sometimes we have no power over things like this. Talk to him and let him know how u feel, and if he doesn't feel the same and only wants to be friends, then sumtimes the hardest things in life we have to accept

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Its okay to want someone you cant have. Its okay to keep friendships when you dont want them,or want something more. Its okay to cry when you're hurt, & its okay to stay mad at someone who hurt you. Believe it or not, its always going to be okay. Thats just how it works. Sometimes, things dont always work out the way you want them to, & a lot of times, it seems like they never will. But its okay, thats how lifes suppose to go. Its all about learning how to deal with the bumpy parts in the road & waiting till they're smooth again. Its all about forgiving & forgetting. Its all about waiting & wishing. Thats just how life is.

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