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Erggg...I'm 13 and i STILL weigh only 70 pounds!! i'm not worried that i'm short, it's okay with me, but i really need to gain weight! i dont wanna die form this! And pigging out on junk food dont help either....

if you're short then you probably don't need to gain weight. i was the same way and now i'm 15 and 90 lbs...don't try to gain weight unless the doctor told you that you were underweight, just enjoy being tiny!

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for anyone who has satelite what channel is 7th heaven on? I can't find it or where I could get the TV guide for it anyways please help haha im dying to see this episode!!

its WB but the channel depends on your dish (i think, cable is all i know) sorry

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okay so i like this guy and we hang out alot and when we do i always feel relaxed and feel confertable but when ever we hold hands or sumthin my hand always start to sweat! and i dont kno wut to do! its gross! i mean im embarrased to like hold hands with him now! wut can i do?

me too...to the point i did a project on sweaty palms (gross, right?) well...there's a ton of solutions from powders and creams you can apply (ask a pharmacist for the best brand), to more extreme solutions such as surgery if you happen to have hyperhidrosis (which you can ask your doctor about). however, it doesn't sound like you have the condition as it only comes when you're holding hands. Try to be discreet by re-adjusting your clothes if you really need to, and gently rubbing his hand or playing with his sleeve will release some of the trapped air between your hands which might be heating you up and causing sweat. hope i helped!

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Okay...well i know this is weird..but i definetly need help lol. See everytime theres like a hott guy or jus even a cute one that like talks to me or is looking at me, even jus for a second, i start to turn red. AND the worst part is i don't even like them! I mean maybe it's because im shy...but im not really that shy. I don't know wat to do about it...but like i can feel my face get red, and when they're lookin at me i get embarrassed cuz know that they can see my face red... So wat can i do to make it stop...or at least control is better?!!

don't worry about it, i turn red all the time and my friends are very good at pointing that out (which inevitably makes you turn redder). play it off as a joke, don't let it bother you, that alone will not only let others leave you alone about it, but will let it go away faster. when you can feel the blood rushing to your face just breathe deep and think about relaxing. i promise it works, and blushing is adorable anyway.

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I don't have a lot of money and I'm very small, so where can I get nice kids clothes. (Pant size- 10 or 12. Shirt size 10/12 or 14/16.) Thanks a lot and please don't say K-mart :/.

i definitely know how ya feel, i like 5 7 9 and abercrombie kids a lot...fossil has xs shirts which are pretty small. try saving up money and just buying an outfit or two that you REALLY like and will wear for a long time every now and then and soon enough you'll have a ton of cute clothes instead of trying to buy cheaper clothes you might not be happy with.

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ok well i kinda did stuff with this guy and afterwards we were like never not fighting and it was the gayest stuff too! okay well he like stoped talking to me and then i was like why are you being such an ass to me and he was like cause you are a bitch. and he just wont talk to me and i really want to talk to him and golly! it just makes me mad and i dont know if i should just be like you know what i dont care anymore or if i should keep trying to get him to talk to me.. cause i really do care! GAH!
any suggestions?

wow! ok the exact same thing happened to me just a couple weeks ago. its hard to answer without knowing how close you were to this guy. but it happened with me and my boyfriend, we'd be pissed at each other for hours over the stupidest things...you need to try to see if there's a pattern with all the fighting, it turned out that there was a bigger issue on his mind and without knowing it he was just really edgy, after i pointed out what was going on he was really cool about it and we stopped fighting. if you care let him know that, but if he wants his space don't push yourself at him until he's ready to talk, and if he's never ready then just move on and don't stress over him. hope i helped

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ok there is this guy i really like and apparently he likes me too but he wont go out with me because he doesnt like my friends..... i dont know what to do because i cant get over him but at the same time i wouldnt be able to hang out with him and my friends at the together

you should talk to him about why he hates them, maybe your friends and el lover can work out their differences. if not, you should decide whether this guy is worth having to juggle between him and his friends, and your friends who don't get along with him. if he is worth it, let him know that, and try to work something out. you sound like you like him a LOT, so if he's that great of a guy, he should be understanding towards you, and willing to talk to you about the situation with your friends.

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