Hi everyone! I'm andi...better known as sparkle26. im a female in my teens. here's some things about me...i love music...especially rock n roll and i play guitar. i'm also an artist-in-training. ive been painting at an art studio since i was 4 or 5.i'm also a runner. my philosophy is to always look at life at a bright, lively perspective. feel free to ask me a question any time!
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Member Since: January 20, 2011
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Last Update: July 22, 2012
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I just graduated high school and i lost ll my "friends." now all the friends i have live 4000 miles away. i feel alone alot and it puts me in depressions. What should i do. (link)
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Try to make new friends that are close to you, but still keep in touch with ur old friends. Get to know them, hang out, don't be depressed. Explore new things that are good for you, exercize, meet new people, get out of your comfort zone. I hope this helps!Rate me if youd like!:)
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Well I like this guy and I'm hanging out with him next weekend with some friends. We've been talking a little bit...and sexting lol. but like no pics or anything weird just lots of winky faces and stuff haha. Besides like being myself and blahblah what can I do for him to really notice me and just be like damn? And what should I wear? Like i want something sexy but not to look like I'm trying to hard. Helpp thank you :)
I'm 19, he's 21. (link)
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Wear a sophisticated, but sexy dress with a purse you can hold. That will show you care about how you look, but you can still be mature be comfy like u would around your bff.Smile, and well, just work it..let him know how you feel without punching him in the fce with it. Be casual be yourself, let yourself be noticed. txt him more serious things so he can get the message. Be you.I hope this helps. Good luck!Rate me if youd like:)
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I am 15 years old and when i was in 6th grade i fell in love with my bestfriends cousin. and he fell inlove with me. We have been on and off since 6th grade. and last time we dated was in august-6 months ago. yesturday i went to his house with my bestfriend and her boyfriend and we all hungout lots of awkwardness. but it decreased as the time passed. He put on a necklace i gave him saying nina + allen than the date. when i say we fell in love i mean in love-like the teenage love. first loves. you know what i mean? so when i left his house my bffl and her bf were trying to get us to kiss and i really didnt want to. but then he kissed me and i relized that i miss him ...again..still.. and this weekend we are all supposed to chill and drink and they are planning on us having sex again. (i lost my virginity to him months back)i know how bad this is but i dont completely mind having sex with him again- but i would really rather not at all. but in the end i do not want to date him, but i do want to hangout with all of them this weekend. just, what should i do? about telling him i am not ready for a relationship yet, and the sex thing. etc.. i know i dont have a straight out question but if anyone can find anything to say please helpp. (link)
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if you don't really love him, you shouldn't have it with him. What if something goes wrong? Teen pregnancies happen that way. You dont want to take it that fast..slow down!If you really truly love him, there's nothing wrong with that, but think before you act, you don't want to do it so fast you dont even have time to think and then regret things afterwards.I hope this helps good luck!
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I've been friends with this boy for 2 1/2 years && i've liked him for 2.! He says im like his sister && sometimes he acts like he likes me.! He told me the only reason he is moving is because his girlfriend just broke up with him && he loves her.! At his birthday party, he picked me up && spun me around.! I don't if he likes me or not.! I want to tell him now incase he feels the same && don't move.! But im scared if I do now && he don't like me like that, then i'll feel stupid.! But I am gonna tell him, I just don't know when.! Will someone help.? (link)
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I would definitely call him and tell him TODAY. take a chance so what if he doesnt like you? if he does, and you don't tell him, you could never be together. You only have one chance its now or never..! No second guessing. Good Luck! rate me if u'd like!:)
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i am tired of life. i get no respect from my family althought i am the family head. my wife, she doesn't want to hold my hand anymore. i take her out, nothing works. she's been exercising and losing weight. me, i'm gaining & i've been told if you arew trying to lost weight you are just trying to get a girlfriend. i do have a grand daughter and i feel she is the one that have kept me alive so long. i love her. (link)
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Instead of taking your own life, do things that make you happy. Spend more time with your granddaughter, go outside excercise play baseball! Get fresh air. Tell your wife whats going on.You have every right to be happy. Enjoy it.
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Me boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. We have gotten so so close and we have that type of relationship where we can be i guess you can say goofy with each other. I need help on what to get him for valentimes day... something that's not expensive like under $30.
any ideas? (link)
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Get him a watch or a wallet--boys like simple stuff like that. Or just go to the mall, look in all the stores, and if you find something that stands out and you KNOW he'll love it, get that. But if you really care about eachother, he won't care what you get him, he'll care that he's spending time with you. I hope this helps! Good luck!Rate me if ud like:)
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Rite so ive been with my boyfriend since before christmas. Im the shy type of girl! And i want to kiss him so he dosnt go off me! but the thing is hes not that type of boy he dosnt care if i kiss him or not he just wants to be with me. He makes me happy and i love him so so so much! i wanna be with him forever but i will only hug him im to shy to kiss or meet him!
So my question is how do i not be shy and just kiss him? Please help! (link)
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Go on a romantic walk on the beach or in the neiborhood. Walk casually and hold hands. Dont be afraid! Show him how you really feel kiss him on the cheek first, smile, pull way for s second, wait for him to look back and start kissing him on the lips! SO romantic..! Good Luck I hope this helps! Rate me if ud like:) Be yourself and dont hesitate. If youre ment for eachother, dont be afraid to love him.
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18/f and hes 19/m
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so ive been talking to this guy alot, and he always calls me gorgeous, cutie or bub.
and the thing is....i cannot seem to think of a cute nickname for him! any help would be appreiciated... i call him lovely but its kinda girly ahahaa. (link)
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maybe call him Bud, or Babe? or if your looking for something cute and affectionate, call him something associated with his name, like let's say someone's name is Amber and their boyfriend called her Ambergurger. See what I mean? Why not change Lovely to Lovey? or Lovey Pop?I hope this helps. Rate me if ud like:)
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Hi.
parent,teacher conference is SOON.
and i dont want mine to go.
what do i do?!! mines bad..and i have
that sick feeling in my stomach just thinking about it
how do i get them to not go,
and reports are coming home too! im so dreading it! (link)
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Maybe you should sit down and talk with your parents that you're struggling, and need some support. Tell them you don't want them to be upset with you. Tell them you'll try harder and work to the best of your ability. That way, if they are the type who get mad about your grades, tell them before they get a surprise on the report. Organize something with your teachers, so you can get extra help. I hope this advice helps! Good Luck!Rate me if youd like:)
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if a boy you are dating calls you "boo" what EXACTLY dose it mean....i mean....cant guys come up with a better nickname then that ! ... you dont call your girlfriend a word people use to scare people on halloween ! lol ...my point is....what if i think it is acward for him to call me boo and i dont know really what he means , should i say "dont call me that please" and affend him ...or just go along with it...WOULD I PLEASE GET A LIL GIRL HELP ! lol :) (link)
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Its probably just an affectionate nickname, that he thought was cute. He probably thinks that its sweet to call you something like that, don't worry. Try calling him a nickname, see how he reacts! I hope this helps!Rate me if you'd like:)
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why does he always bring up his ex when we talk? (link)
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He might still be comparing her to you, or wants to make you feel jelous and like him more. Maybe he just is still trying to comprehend that hes with you now. Try to talk to your bf about it, he should be able to understand you if you have a strong bond with him.If your too shy to have a conversation with him, chances are your not as close as you should be as a bf and gf. Ask him in a gentle, sweet, not pushy way, tell him your there if hes having any troubles. I hope this helps!:)Rate me if youd like!
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I woke up around 40 minutes ago and have literally spent around 35 of those minutes face down in the toilet. I don't feel sick. No head cold, nothing. Other than the barring. There is nothing in my stomach, all I'm doing is throwing up stomach acid. Last night I ate a single slice of leftover pizza that I had the night before, which didn't get me sick the first night. So what the heck is wrong with me.? I throw up...feel fine, 2 minutes later I get icky feeling, throw up and the cycle repeats itself. Help!!! (link)
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It might be a 24 hour stomach bug, where you throw up all the time, or maybe it was something in what you ate thats alerting your body to get it out of your system. If you have thrown up alot, tell your mom to take Emetrol, it tries to help soothe the nausia. If this doesnt work, or if you dont want to take a risk throwing up the medicine, drink sprite or anything carbonated.It always helps my stomach when that happens. I hope this helps! Rate me if yous like!:)
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I want to dye my hair. I have red hair like Shaun white and I am sick of being called a ginger and standing out. my parents will never let me do it and i'm abroad right now for a semester so i think this is the best time. they are coming to visit at the end of march, early april so i want a dye that will not last that long and wont cause any permanent damage. is there a type of dye that would not cause permanent damage and will wash out within like 6 weeks? i want to do a light brown so nothing dark or too drastic. is there a kind of dye that will wash out within a few washes but doesnt make your hair stringy or damaged? i like my red hair but i also want a little change for some time. is there a chance my hair won't return to how it is now? (link)
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My opinion:You don't know what you have until its gone.Alot of people don't have red hair and its unique. You dont want to accidentally mess it up and then never get it back. What's wrong with red hair? Its your true hair color. Its part of who you are. Think about it before you dye it..you might act too fast and not like the hair you chose. If you want change, style your hair with your natural hair color..curl it, straighten it, layer it! You can do plently of change with keeping the natural look. Where vibrant colors and try to compliment your red hair. Rembember:This is your decision its just my advice. I hope this helps! Rate me if youd like:)
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ok so what i want to know is that should a dump a bff because i help her do anything i get here friends and then she said that her and my boyfriend were dating behind my back so should i drop both of them or who? and the problem is that my boyfriend is still realy cute and loving even though i told him i knew. what should i do? pls help me? sorry if its the rong category and not good speller. :-) (link)
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I would drop your bff. It doesn't seem like she supports you or understands you in anyway. Thats like the bff I had. She always wanted me to feel jeolous and was so sensative. I found new people to hang out with, and my life has been so much better. Don't let people mistreat you. If you can find 2 to 3 huge reasons or more why you shouldnt be bffs with her anymore, chances are you should find a new bff. With the whole bf thing, shes probably jeolous and wants to end the relationship between you and him. In case I am incorrect, ask your bf, get the full scoop. I hope this helps! Good Luck! Rate me if youd like:)
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I have brown hair (to the darker side), green eyes, and I'm very light-skinned. What color would look best on me for prom? (link)
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I would try possibly a sunset pink, or a midnight blue. If you want to take a risk and go with the color of your eyes, that would look really nice, too.Try a light brown eyeshadow or a kight pink. I hope this helps! Rate me if you'd like!
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ok im looking for adivice. my girlfriend doesnt seem into me! im looking for answer that tells what i should do help as soon as possible. thxn alots bye ima male and 16 helpsssss plssssss (link)
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She's probably just embarrassed to express her true feelings for you...chances are:if she committed to being your gf, then she is into you. Try to be patient with her. Let her open up to you, be there for her. Shes probably scared and maybe just exploring being in a relationship. Be gentle and kind, speak your mind to her, shell understand. Chances are, she feels the same way.Good Luck! Hope this helps!:)rate me if u'd like!
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Ive had millions of gfs. More than most and know more about girls than just about everyone. I have millions of friends come to me about of advice on how to get a girl and my advice always works, but im with this one girl and i cant seem to figure her out. Shes so quite. i mean like ive had plenty of shy gfs before and ive been a talker and im funny so its always been easy to open them up and get them talking but this girl is impossible. We kiss and make-out but Even i (btw im an actor so i have to know how to talk well and come up with stuff on the spot) am having trouble on finding things to talk about. She only shakes her head and shrugs. I think shes afraid she might say something stupid or immature cause im older and shes not used to dating older guys. I'm not used to dating younger girls although shes not that much younger. Im 15 and shes 13. She sure don't look 13 though. She beautiful beyond words. Ive dated chicks that were scared cause they don't think there good enough for me cause they know ive dated around a lot and think my previous gfs are better than them but this is beyond that. She has no interests and is very shy even though shes says shes not. ive never asked for advice on this kind of matter before and in a way feel embarrassed of asking for it now cause ive always given this kind of advice, never received. If anyone has any ideas please share or email me. My adress is
actor.ajthedford@gmail.com. Thank's (link)
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she probably has lack of confidence...I know i would if i was dating a guy ur age.I'm also thirteen, ive never had a boyfriend before..i can relate. Shes probably scared and wants reassurance. tell her its ok to speak your mind.Tell her its ok to make mistakes, sometimes. Dont take it so seriously, yet, though shes only thirteen take it easy on her. Tell her how beautiful she is. Take her bowling, go see a movie, or even watch a movie with her at home. Be patient and sympathetic to whatever she does. Be kind and let her know your there for her. Again, shes only 13, its probably one of her first relationships, and she probably doesnt know how to act in a relationship. I hope this helps..Good luck!Rate me if u'd like!
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Ok so I was at work and I was texting my friend. We were supposed to hang out after work. And right before my shift she's like can you give me a ride home I don't live that far. I said I can't. (because I'm saving up for money on a new car that I HAVE to buy). And she's like why not. I'm like because I can't drive a lot only the places I have to go to if you want a ride home you need to give me at least 5 dollers on gas. She said "No your a cheap girl your my friend you should give me a ride home" and I got really hurt by that I said fine we won't hang out. And she still wanted to hang out with me. I didnt want to since she called me a cheap girl. But I dont give free rides. Gas is really expensive. So we didn't hang out. Then she texts me and acts like nothing happened. Do you think shes using me? Do you thnk I should not be friends with her? I'm not a cheap girl , and I dont deserve to be treated like that. My best friend always pays me for gas money because I take her everywhere.
Should I stop being her friend? (link)
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If she treats you like that and bullies you on a weekly basis, you shouldnt be her friend. If that was one time that she just slipped, give her one more chance. She shouldnt of called you that. She seems like shes not sympathetic at all. Dont tolerate it if she calls you that. She probably thinks your so sweet youll forgive her every time she does something wrong, and theres no reason to apoligize, and if she doesnt bring it up youll forget about it. If you already have friends that understand sticky situations, you dont need a bully to make you feel bad about yourself. Ive had friends like that, it actually seems we would have alot in common..I had a friend who did that, one day she would hate me the next we would be going on a ski trip and she wouldnt even apoligize! As soon as we got back from the ski trip..she went back to being mean to me. I hope this helps!Rate me if ud like!:)
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Last time i asked for advice (maybe you can check on my page what it was or something ) it was about a boy and me not getting his response on my hotmail to me saying I liked him =) four days later i received his response and he had asked me out ( HE was soo cute about it too :3 ) He told me it took him 4 days to find the right words to say :P later his friend told me how nervous he was =D SO FOR THE PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO DON'T TAKE THAT CHANCE , sometimes you gotta or i would have lost him completely eventually . Now we have problems being together... How can we find sometime to hang out and when we do hang out what should we do ? I'm so nervous about it .... =S (link)
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Tell him you still feel the same way you did when you started dating.You should go to a ball game, bowling, or when the summer comes go see a drive in...or just watch a romantic movie at your house! Talk to him and tell him how you feel. if he understands, your bond will be stronger. walk the beach so you can really have a talk with him. Go out on Valentines day, talk about it then. You shouldnt be nervous around ur boyfriend. you should feel comftorable around him, be yourself. When you talk to him, talk to him in an understanding, gentle, not pushy voice. If you treat him like that, he'll treat you the same way! Speak your mind, but don't let it come across in a pushy way. If he doesn't except and want to talk about it, chances are theres other guys out there that are interested in you. But give him a chance to also speak his mind, before hes proven himself unworthy. Be patient and sympathetic to what he says, but not too sweet that he thinks he can take advantage of you.
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13, female
So there's a guy... He's 16 and he doesn't have a girlfriend. I think he's really cute. We see eachother at parties and there was a party yesterday, and of course there was music, so we danced together to bachata. It was nice, but I guess I should've talked to him more while we were so close together. It could've been the perfect time to talk to him.(NOTE: he doesn't make fun of me or anything like that.) One thing I don't get is that he flirts with me once in a while even though he doesn't have feelings for me.
Anyways, I know he doesn't like me, but I really want to tell him that I like him, just so he knows and so I don't have to be so sneaky all the time. Should I tell him? How do I tell him?
Thank you to everyone who answers! Even if you think your answer won't help, please write it down there! (link)
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Yes, definitely tell him. Next time you get close to him,(maybe you could call him) tell him that you have feelings for him. Tell him that you understand if he doesnt like you, that you just wanted to let him know. If he likes you back, don't take it so seriously, have an unofficial relationship for a little while, until your a little older. Remember: be yourself, take it slow, dont go serious so fast your only 13.
Im also 13, so i can relate. I hope this helps!Rate me if you'd like!:)
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