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Hey..my room is kind of big, but it's so boring! The walls aren't white, thankfully, but there's no where for my friends to sit when we hang out and it's not a really fun enviorment. Does anyone have any ideas on making my room more upbeat, inviting, or cool? Thanks!

if u dont have a high ceiling, (this may seem childish)add a hammock or swing! fun! :D lol

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My room is always messy and when I clean it up it just gets messy again! Im try to keep organized but it just never seems to work! What are some tips or things I can put in my room that will help me?

well, for me the prob is hanging up clothes.....so get plastic drawers in ur closet and FOLD ur shirts to keep in their....its easier and stuff...

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I'm starting to make a collage on my one wall, with like band pics and my concert tickets and all that. I don't have much stuff yet. All I have are my tickets, Taking Back Sunday picture, a Something Corporate picture, and a My Chemical Romance picture. Does anyone know any good magazines to get like full-size pictures of those types of bands? Or anywhere else, like internet addresses? Thanks so much!

search on google and print out pics.

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i have problems. LIKE I AM A VERY NICE EASYGOING FUNNY PERSON BUT I DONT HAVE any friends.(sry cap locks was on!!) like there are people that are nice and i eat lunch with them. but i want a friend thAt i can tell stuff to hang out on the weekends stuff like that. i call people but there always "busy" when i call. since i dont have any friends and im lonely and have alot on my mind my grades are dropping.and since my grades are dropping my parents are getting mad at me. and i am always screaming at them and there always screaming at me. i cant talk to them they would like eat my alive. i cant tell my problems to my friens because i dont have any. i cry so much. i cry myself to sleep. i sometimes think about sucide. i have no one to talk to. i need some love! what do i do?

~unloved and unwanted

do you have a journal? if not, start one! it helps me express myself. in it, you could write poems, stories, songs, journal entries(duh), and even tape little memory things in it (movie tickets)...i know it sounds stupid to most ppl, but its fun and makes me happier. also, on the friend thing, you should just basically start to talk to people. anyone! its not as hard as it seems....thats how i make most of my friends!! :D NEVER look on the dark side either! and about suicuide?!?!?!? think about the pain you are goin through in this advice help thingy.....many people DO love you, and this is how they would feel if u attempted it(suicuide). would you want that?

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Im going out with this guy i really like but when ever we talk on the phone theirs nothing to talk about. I dontknow wht to do it can get akward. Im not shy im far from that anyone would say that but its just i cant think of anything to say can you help?

personal stuff like bdays, family, friends, school, sports, uhh...

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please help me me best friend is starting to become well i dont know but like wen ever i say something she goes, "that wasnt funny" if im tryin 2 be funny or not and wenever i say something "like honestly i dont want to tell you" she calls me a bitch and she is not on my team in school and she is becoming a totally different person and i miss the old her and im not tryin to sound mean or jealsous or anything i just miss my friend o and she started straightening her hair and since then she has this ridiculous amount of confidence -- way too much please help ill rate 5's if ur not rude to me

avoid her, u dont need to take that crap. what a horrible "friend".


*I am sorry I wasn't much of a help. :( That was just my opinion. I wish you the best of luck! :D

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ok, this will be my 2nd vday with my boyfriend and i want this one to be extra special. i bought him a bunch of candy already, might buy him a cd and i'm baking him cookies. anyone know any cute ideas for vday? please share...thanks

a ballon filled w/ confetti and love notes.....so he pops it and it flies out! lol :D

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15/f I get really chapped lips, but they don't crack or anything, they just get sore and red and sometimes itchy. They flake too. So anyway, I've tried loads of different chapsticks and stuff, even blisteze which is a really good medical thing to use. It's really annoying me cuz I can't wear lip gloss or anything, plus they itch and I get red bits around my lips too. Does anybody know what's up with them?

put neosporin on them. i have the same prob. and that works 4 me

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Well there is this girl i like and we are really good friends and i want to ask her out but i dont know if her parents let her date im in 8th grade so i dont know if i should ask her out i dont want to make our friend ship all akward please help...

just ask

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i`ve never shaved 'down there'..i`m scared i`ll get razor burn, but it really bugs me and i want it all gone..without getting it waxed. Does using shaving cream keep it from no razor burn? what else could i use so i dont get it, because i`m in a swim class at my school..and i really dont want red bumps to be visible. i use a venus razor, if that counts for anything..

use scissors and cut...be careful lol

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I started cutting my self about a year, and I just did it to see what it felt like and to maybe finally get some attention from my mom and now I cant stop... its like after every little argument I have with her I have to go up to my room and cut my self or it doesn’t feel right. I have tried to stop and I have even made promise to people but I just don’t know what to do any more it seems like its getting out of control and I don’t want to have to go see a therapist because I don’t know if I could come out and say I have a problem so basically I’m just asking what I should do...?

a good way to avoid cutting is putting rubber bands on ur wrists and pulling/letting go. it helps.

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