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My name is mikela. Pretty obviouse i hope. well im really loud and outspoken and sometimes i get a little critical on my answers but ima stop that. i love giving people advice and reciving it as well.Im really good at giving family advice since ive been through alot with my own family im also pretty good at love/school and really weird fetishes. if i cant help you with your problem i can show u ur not alone.i will try to give you the best advice possible tho.
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ok theres this really fine guy at my school and he and like 3 of his friends asked me out and i mean i like him but not his friends but i want to still stay friends with him what should i do im so confussed!

im hopeing this is a girl. if its a guy. GAY PRIDE! lol anyways. just tell the other dudes "no i dont really like you more than a friend. and i hope we can stay friends even after this". pretty simple. dont think about it too much cause then like...you will start freaking out and changing ur mind and yeah.
i hope i helped.
if i did. come back and let me know!

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i have this friend, and she is like my best friend, but she is always like stealing u know like ideas from me and its getting old

i want her to get her own ideas!
what should i do!?

miikela says:

Well. Shes probally just looks up to you and respects you and thinks you have really good points. i know it can be annoying, ive been through it but i mean yeah there is a point where its like "too much". You just need to tell your friend how you feel. talk it over with her and be like "im not mad. but i mean its getting annoying." if shes your best friend you dont just want to drop her like a hot cake (sorry i always wanted to use that exspression) anyways
i hope i helped.
if it does or doesnt work out. let me know.

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OHH THANKS YOU OHH SO VERY MUCH!!! :D

miikela says:

your totally welcome.

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ok well dr.mikela (may i all you dr.miklea) ok well annyways theres this gurl at my school and like wow she has her own advice colum and everything i mean i think im in love but im not sure and i mean this might sound a little bad to you but please what ever you do odont call the popo on this 1 k well anyways we do krystal together and we goto are local kroger to get and i mean it might sound naughty to you but its romantic to me.......what should i do about my love for her should i keep it inside or should i express my feelings? what do you think DR.MIKELA?

miikela says:

well. if u love this person i think its best to exspres you feelings.
i hope i helped

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dear mikela,
i have a sister that is older than me and she's reallyy cool, but we dont really get along that well and i would like our relationship to be like best friends,not like enimies what shouldd i do?

miikela says :

hmm. dont try to force a close relationship with your sister. but dont just not do anything about it either. i had the same problem at one point. you just have to be nice and propose ideas of stuff yall could do together. If you give her compliments and try really hard not to fight with her and just agree to some of the things she says yall will probally start getting closer. but dont be a total kiss ass. give her her space and she will give you yours. OR you could just come straight out and be like. "ya know i never felt really close to you. do you think we could maybe start hanging out or doing more stuff togetehr cause i dont want to be enimies" or make up ur own lines. but i think you get it.
i hope i helped.
thats what mikela had to sayy

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how close are we as friends like best friends...?
just friends...?
or what...?

miikela says:

am im suppose to know who u are.

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Mason is telling somepoeple that we arent going out and somepeople that we are should i tell him that we should break up or pick it back up when school starts?

miikela says:

WHAT A RUDE...wait i said i wouldnt be critical with my answers. honestly i wouldnt want anything to do with any1 who denied to be my boyfriend. you shouldnt have to either. You deserve soo much better than that. in a matter of fact all girls do! I (im not saying you) would break up with him and MAYBEE is he learns how to treat a girl MAYBE go back out with him when school starts thats only a maybe. im not going to tell you how to run ur life. but thats just how i feel. guys like that are rude egotistical jerks who dont deserve girls friends.

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Okay well one of my friends ALLWAYS wants me to hang out with her and I really don't want to hang out with her that much! What should I do?

miikela says:

Yeah that is a problem. This remindes me of something me and my friend did. She use to have a friend over and id call to ask to hang out and she would make up excusses and evenutally i figured out what was going on. one day i called her up and confronted her and i told her im a big girl and if she had friends over i could handle it and she didnt have to lie to me. I think basically the same thing is going on with yall. All you have to do is be honest and be like "um i really dont feel like hanging out right now" not in a mean way. but just calmly and kindly. shes a big girl shell get over it and as long as you say that she wont take it offencivly either.
i hope i helped. and that is what mikela had to say. =)

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I babysit these bad ass kids and they piss me off all the time wat should i do dr. Mikela????

miikela says:

lock them in a closet. hahaha just playing. i babysitt all the time there are ways of getting to a child. First there is time out..or "THE PENNY" both or classics. "THE PENNY" i think is the best way to go. what you do is you get a penny or a coin or whatever and you tell them that they have to hold it up agiast the wall with their NOSE for 10 minutes and if they drop it they keep having to start over and stay in that corner till they get the ten minutes done. i do it all the time and after that they settle down. and if that doesnt work briberary is always good.Tell them if theyre good you give them candy. i hope i helped

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heyy cool!! haha i pik the rite subject just wanted to talk to u on this so0o0 gtg hahaha love ya so much!!! thx for being there for me!!!

aimee aka aimster or bubbles


miikela saysss :

well. that was a very tough question. hahahaha i love you too amiee! thanks for being the first person to ask me a question..u didnt really ask but hey...lol i still think ur totally sexxy! hahaha thank you!

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