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Q: I met this guy online and i really like him...he is really sweet and he asked me out...i said yes and i havent told my friends yet. The thing is they might think it's kind of wierd or strange that I met a guy online that I have never met before and actually talked to him..because they think that you shouldn't do that. Should I tell them or just keep it a secret to myself??
Thanks a lot!!
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Well, first off how long have you known him? I want you to be careful, because you never know if someone is who they say they are. Does he live in your area? If he does and you want to meet, you definately need to tell friends because it's a must not to be alone when meeting someone off the internet.

But there is nothing wrong with it, in my opinion. Just keep in mind that if someone else offline comes along, don't let him stand in the way because it is no substitute to a real face-to-face relationship.

Q: I always have nerds and other people who like me, and are sometimes obsessive. It really bothers me, because whenever I like someone, they don't like me. I'm afraid I will never find that one special guy. My parents are also extremely strict so I never have a place to meet new people except for the pool during the summer. HELP!
I feel your pain. I've dealt with this again and again. The right guy will come when you least expect it. Just keep being yourself and let your personality shine through. School is a good place to meet people... never outrule it.

Also with your strict parents, show them you can be trusted by taking on new responsibilites, and try to calmly discuss it with them. If you follow rules and get good grades consistantly, they'll be more willing to ease up on you.

If I helped you & you have any more questions or need more suggestions, feel free to stop by my advice column. :)

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