im 15 years old and going into sophomore year at lakewood highschool.. yes... i lied about my age earlier :-p but anyways, i consider myself a good helper. i've helped many friends in the past... some through suicide and worse. please ask me a question and ill do my best to answer it to the fullest of my knowledge.
E-mail: marcbode21@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: Germany
Occupation: student
Age: 16
AIM: E1eMeNt4l
MSN: marcbode21@hotmail.com
Member Since: July 15, 2004
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once a cheater, always a cheater?? TRUE OR FALSE? (link)
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false. if you have recently been cheated on, yes, it will hurt. a LOT. but you will get over it. promise. all you need is a really reliable and trust-worthy friend to help you through it. people change. remember a few years back when you drew something that was really really awsome? well now think of it. is it still so awsome? no. people change, and cheaters, as low as they get, can change as well. there is always room for change. once a cheater, they are not always a cheater, but that is their choice.
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is rakhi sexy? (link)
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more then you could ever imagine.
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me and my boyfriend have been going steady for like 4 whole months. he STILL does not even pay for anything. what's wrong. (link)
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maybe you need to get it in his head that you would like him to be more of a gentleman. ask rakhi on this one..i was the same way... she changed me though... now im a little better i hope :-/. its best if you ask her though.
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my relationship is suffering deeply. someone told me that you and rockys is like a fairytale. can you help me? tell me about your relationship (link)
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firstly, ill need to know what is wrong in your relationship with your significant other. but ok. there are many reasons why Rakhi and I's relationship is awsome. first of all, we trust each other fully. that comes with time to everyone, so thats nothing to worry about. another thing to consider is that Rakhi and i had an awsome friendship before we started dating. i met her online in november, and we started to date in december. i really dont know, sometimes its just luck of the draw. sometimes you get someone that is really right for you, and other times you get someone that... well... just doesnt work out. perhaps we didnt do anything special, and we were just meant to be. maybe we did do something, but im not sure. what i can tell you though is that our relationship is based on trust, honesty, and love. see, Rakhi is not only my loving girlfriend, but also my best friend, sister, and advisor (at times). thats the beauty of it all, it makes sure that your other is always there for you... think about it, maybe its better if you are more then just boyfriend/girlfriend?
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guys actually look for big boobs and a nice ass, personality like 1%.. trust me lol. man guys are perverted and stupid and horny. but i finally found a guy whos the total opposite, weve been together 7 months :p hahaha i l u (link)
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haha... maybe shallow guys... not me though! i promise.
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Man, you haven't split up from your friends. We are great friends, and we get together all the time. I understand that you really want and need to be with your girlfriend a lot, and I will even help you get with her if I can, but that still doesn't stand between us. I just hope you know I'll be around for you if you need me. (link)
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well, not from you. but see, your my neigher AND my best friend.. you're like my bro, its different... kinda... if that makes sense... call on me if you need help with anyone too.
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Hey what dose boys look in gurls?? I was told a great personality and looks is that true???
IM 15 and I need help (link)
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for one, we do look for a great personality and good looks. but that isnt all. most of us arent that shallow. if you like the guy, try to spend time with him and get to know him better, trust me, it will help :)
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i am a sex finatic, literally. all i can think about is getting in bed with my boyfriend. im not sure if he wants to fuck me yet, what do i do? hes so sexy, i want him NOW (link)
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talk to him about it. maybe he wants to, and maybe he doesnt? but you should never get caught up in the moment when doing something that endangers pregnancy. anything can happen when you become caught up in the moment. and im sure that the LAST thing you want right now is a baby. perhaps you also need to start thinking differently, because realationships are not all about sex. there is an enormous amount of love included in a relationship. and people do have sex... but when they are ready. maybe you should wait until you are both ready before doing something as major as that.
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you replied to me "and no guy is worth your whole life.". you dont understand though, THIS guy IS worth my whole life. god i love him (link)
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well if that is so, then please by all means keep him. im sure he feels the same way, and he will do anything to keep you as well :)
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what do you do when your changing and you dont know if the person you care about the most likes it or not? i can feel that im changing, in tons of ways! i just dont know if my boyfriend likes it or not, he doesnt really express it? am i just being dumb? (link)
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im sure your boyfriend notices you changing. its very easy to see patterns disrupted and all the signs of change. im very sure he sees it... perhaps hes not a very expressive kind of guy? and im sure that he would confront you about it if he didnt like how you were changing. maybe hes not expressing his knowledge about you changing because he is afraid that since you are changing, you might not like him anymore?
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ive been with this dude for almost a year. we're very serious about eachother. my mom doesnt allow me to date, so she doesnt know about this at all. i am in love with this guy, and we have gone very far.. farther than most couples. i love him, i CANT talk to my mom about it. that isnt even an option. i just want to know if it is okay to still be with this guy even though you know in your heart you might be disobeying/losing your mom's trust? its such a hard decision, i need your help. a man's advice is always useful and different from a womans :) (link)
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:). well, first of all, this is up to you and your relationship with your mother. if you are very serious about this guy, and you want to keep him at all costs, then do it. everyone is wrong at some point in their lives. as long as you two dont do anything that could end in something permanent, then i think that it should be ok. but thats only my personal view. im sure your mom has her own reasons that she doesnt want you to date people. i know its hard to be disobeying your mothers trust. its very hard, because shes the one that you can ALWAYS count on for everything. but this guy might be perfect for you. you never know, you might have found your soul mate early in life. if you think that this is so, then stick it out. yes, it will be very hard and perilous, but it will be worth it in the end if he is your soul mate. being in love is a big thing. usually you dont say something like that unless you really mean it. if you want to be loyal to your mom then maybe you should let this go.. but if you really really love him, then keep it going. its your choice. choose well.
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my dog humps me a lot. she even humps my boyfriend. is it normal for me to get horny while watching my dog hump him? also, is it normal for me to have to struggle to hold myself back from humping the dog back. something about a small creature touching my body just makes me tingle all over. gosh, am i weird?? (link)
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no one is weird. the mind works in mysterious ways. and even though most people would consider it "weird" if that is what happens, the human brain is a human brain. though dont worry about it, it will pass :)
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My dad left my house when i was really young. i dont really know what its like to have a dad.. and i thought i didnt care before.. but now that ive grown up, i realise that it does make a big deal to me. its not that i miss him, i mean i dont even know what its like for him to be around. is it normal to begin to start caring and for it to start impacting you? what do you do if you dont have anyone to talk about it to? (link)
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family is something completely different. as long as you are in a society where families usually have fathers, you are generally going to feel as if a part of you is missing. if you dont have anyone to talk to, you should definitly find someone. not like a professional or anything, just a really good friend that you can always rely on. that, or a sister, brother, boyfriend, girlfriend, someone that you trust completely and someone you know and are very open to.
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this guy and i have been dating for quite a while. i've given up everything for him.. because i love him to death. it's just that i mean, i even gave up ALL my friends for him. i'm just worried he might leave me and i'll have nothing left. i love him. do you think i did the wrong thing by losing all my friend sfor him? i am not sure, i dont think i did.. but sometimes i wonder. it's kinda hard to choose between friends and ur boyfriend, but my boyfriend right now is my top and only priority. (link)
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i understand where you are coming from completely. i am in the exact position myself at this moment. i have been dating this girl for a long time.. longest relationship of my life. and by all means i love her more then i could love anything else.. and i have given up all of my friends for her. it was unintentional, but it happened. over time, i lost contact with my friends as my bond with her grew stronger. and by all means, i was completely fine with it, because i am completely happy with where i am. but it is never good to completely give up anything for one thing.... unless its a bad habit. yes, you might experience that your friendships with other people weaken, but never let your friends completely go. call them once in a while, talk to them online, keep contact with them somehow. and when you feel like it, do something with them. friends are a very important part of our lives, and no guy is worth your whole life. its absolutely fine that your boyfriend is your top priority, its the same way with my girlfriend. shes my top priority, but dont completely lose contact with your friends.
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i have a boyfriend. we have been together for over half a year. i love him so much, i'm IN love with him. he's the most perfect person i've met in my life, its undescribable. he means the world to me and i would never want to lose him. in the past we've made out, and gone a little more than making out... but not sex. but today he came over to my house, and it was empty. we were on the ground making out and one thing lead to another. he took my shirt off, it was a lttle uncomfortable. i knew what i was getting myself into but i did it anyways. then i thought it wasnt so bad, and i guess i liked it. then it got to the point where he was only in his boxers and i was only in my underwear and bra. i just dont know if what we're doing is wrong or not, what do you think? after all, you never know where your limits are when youre in love (link)
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well, this is your call. if you ever get uncomfortable around another person, including loved ones, tell them. no one has a right to push you around and tell you what to do. as long as you have control of the situation, then you shouldnt have anything to worry about. you can stop what you are doing whenever you want if it gets a little uncomfortable, or if you dont like it. if things did get a little out of control, however, maybe its time you and him sat down and talked about ways to not let it get out of hand. that, or perhaps you should take a break of doing those things... just a week or so, maybe a few days, see how things go. once again, this is your call. if you think that what you were doing was ok, then by all means dont stop doing it. but if you thought that it was wrong, or un-healthy, then you should definitly stop doing, and talk to him about it. and yes, i know how it is to get "caught up" in the moment. things are very very difficult to resist. but you still have to remind yourself that you are the boss of you and you should always consider rights or wrongs when doing something major. and for deciding whether you are in love or not... well, frankly, half a year is a long time, at least for younger people. most of my friends have relationships that last one, maybe two months. over half a year is pretty serious, and maybe its time you thought about if you really saw a serious future with this guy.
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all my friends tell me i'm fat. this might sound kind of weird, but i personally think overweight people are a lot sexier than normal people. i am so full all the itme, but i literally STUFF myself so i gain weight, is this normal? it feels so nice to never be hungry, i love the way i look. my body looks great and i feel sexy just the way i am. men check me out all the time, which is what i was aiming for. i think america's finally starting to realise that obesity is the sexiest way to live! i am so excited about this! what do you think ? (link)
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all that matters is that you think highly of yourself and dont limit yourself! dont let yourself be put down because your friends tell you that you are so called "fat". people are going to make fun of you any way you look, thats just how it is. no one can rain on your parade as long as you dont let them. if you think yourself sexy, then by all means you are sexy! and other people will share your view.
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i have this boyfriend.. he's really really hot, sweet, nice, and funny. but sometime's i wonder what his intentions are in our relationships. i know he's a good guy, but does he really like me for my personality? (link)
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ok, firstly, how long have you been with him? if its for a long time, then it seems to me that he would have broken up with you a while ago if he didnt love you for your personality. if you havent been goingn out for that long, then maybe you should ask him and try to get out of him what his intentions are. but if you have been with him for a while, then im sure its all ok. im positive he loves you for you personality, and i bet he thinks all the same of what you think of him... im sure of it :-p
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