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ok im turning 16 in may. and i want to start planning. or at least get some ideas for a party. like what me and my friends can do. im inviting like 13 people. no drinking, no drugs. and at my house. maybe a bomfire. is that stupid considering its in may?? (link)
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no! its your 16th birthday you should have what you want (legally of course =]) its awesome if thats what u want!
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I would like to go to school to be a lawyer. Does anyone know any colleges with really good law programs? I know about all the well known ones such as Harvard and Yale, but does anyone know any colleges that they know to be VERY good? thanks a bunch! (link)
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Pepperdine University in California has a pretty good one. and it has an amazing view of malibu!
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My Friend and i have been planing to go to this party for a while. But my one friend whos house i was gonna go to cancled on me because her wrist hurt!! i dont really think she wanted to go in the first place but she invited me over and every thing and just blew me off!!! Shes done this be for!! Should I be mad?? (link)
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i have had so much friend drama in the past two months. its not even worth going through the drama of fighting..trust me just talk to her and ask her why. if she gives you a hard time just let it go and see if it happend again if it does then maybe you should be mad but if she has a logical explanation and her wrist really did hurt id say let it go. it will save yyou a lit of time and it will save your friendship.
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There is a private, christian school that Im interested in and my parents went to an open house today. They told me there are only about 24 kids in my whole grade and in my current biology class i have more than that! You have to understand my school and grade is HUGE there is about 750-800 kids in my grade ALONE and now my grade would have less kids then a class of mine. Im afraid of having this little amount of students because there are so little oppurtunities to make friends. On the other hand they all seem very nice and i will be shodowing a student for half the day later this next week. Im excited and would love to change to this school but i have more friends than there whole grade. And what about dating? How can you date boys when there are a whole 13 in your grade? If anyone has experienced this and has some advice i would love it!!! I really want to go to this school but there are so little kids! But also because of this and thats its a christian private school im sure they are all very nice and i really am looking for some great christian friends because you dont find that many even if you do go to a school as large as mine! Thanks again and i wil rate everyones helpful advice!!!! (link)
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i think you should go to which ever one you love more :)
sry my advice wasnt that great but thats what i truely think you should do :)
Good luck!!!!!
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The relationship I have with my bestfriend Adam is... Diffrent. I really like him, and everyone says we'd make a cute couple, but I'm ugly.
And don't be like oo don't call yourself that no your not.. yes I am. I have naturally curly hair that everyone says they want but it's uncontrolible..and I have discoloration on my neck, armpits, and in between my legs (not IN, but around) not that anyone can see that, but they can my neck and it looks like hardcore dirt but it's not I have Acanthosis Negracans. And it's because im fat. And im not talking a little over-weight, I weight 220 and im 14. and its not portioned on my body.. it's all in my gut!I look like in pegante! Im gross and I do like Adam but I don't get my hopes up with anything. I hate everypart of my body not madder how many times anyone says im pretty. Im not and they're just trying to make me feel better.Pity Me.
Well a couple days ago Adam called me fat. Me&Steven were like attacking eachother when Adam yelled "WATCH OUT BUS IS COMING!!!" and I like broke down.. First I kicked him in the nuts and he tumbled.. and we were gunnago to the dance as friends so he said "Wow, is this how you treat all your dates??" and i laughed and him I said "You must think a lot of yourself if you think I'll even talk to you!" and walked away. and it fealt so good to stick up for myself but i cried all night. I am fat and I dont wanna be but it's so hard, my parents are never home, they never listen to me and it feels like the only time im happy is when im eating (ive been to a theripist and thats what she said.) and when my parents are always argueing and i cant to anything right. I've tried making myself vomit, but nooo it hurt soo bad id rather be the wall i am then have my throat hurt like that. But with Adam he said he was sorry, but he thinks its like a free card. He doesnt mean it! So I told him to leave me alone, it's not going to work your always making fun of me.. and he called me like 20 times that night and my Dad was all why dont u just talk to him.. but im wasnt about to tell him so i just took a long bath until all the icecream was gone (and people wonder why im fat) I broke mirrors, cried until my eyes burned.. and the whole day after that my skin was blotchy, it was obvois i'd been crying and Adam wouldn't leave me alone saying he was sorry. And yes I know people will think im being harsh but hes wasnt the first time making fun of me.. Then when we became talking again we startd hanging out, but i never actually forgave him and i rold him i didnt like him joking about me and he said he would stop and he has. Well last ight my Mom left again for her buseness and my Dad got drunk and i couldnt handle it so I left.. and I walked like a mile dieing, having an asthma attach *I DONT HAVE ASTHMA THO* to Adams house and we just talked. It was fun but should i say im sorry?? to him because I hoe he'll stop because im like 80 pounds overweight, adn im tall for my age. IM HUGGEE so i was wondering should I consider diet pills?
Its getting to cold to start walking and Im not going to ask my parents for a treadmill! I do have an Ablonge tho and I want this gone by next summer. I want my whole gut gone! I wanna be able to wear a bikini or something for the first time in my whole life.. and If i lose weight my discoloration in my neck will go away.then there wont be anything wrong with me.
My Goal= Be able to see my toes.
and be able to shop at like Areopostale and not have people think"why is that fatass shopping here? Like she can even fit in these cloths. Which I cant..
Anything is helpful. I need to go on a diet and i want it gone by summer.. but i dont want like saggy-skin GROSS.
I have Thick Thighs, and stomach but my arms and calf (my calfs mustcle i need ot to lug my ass around.. and my arms are tiny. I dont have a double chin.. its my Stomach mostly no ally.. i want to just eat salads, workout and that's it.
But i dont wanna go hungry. which sounds stupid I know bu i cant sleep hungry I cant even fall asleep hungry..
Anything will be helpful. (link)
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you dont need to starve yourself...if you want to lose weight then you need to do it healthy or i can promise you it WONT come off. i know how you feel i truely do. i lost 20 some pounds over the summer and i feel great! you can eat what you want you just have to have to control your eating adn excersise!! i know excersising may seem like a hassel at first and it will be a huge hassel and downer at first but i PROMISE you after like 2 or 3 weeks it will seem natural and if your going to get an excersise machine i recomend an elliptical they work well!! or try going to your local gym!! Please dont hurt yourself or over ecersise. if you excersise like 3 times a day and eat healthy things then it will probably come off by summer but you have to work hard. oh and DONT take a brake from losing weight if you are going to lose it because once you take a brake its going to be 10 times harder to start again. food is just here to keep us alive life has so much more :) i hope everything works out! good luck and be safe!
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Hi, I want to be a Pimp or a "Mac Daddy" for Halloween. I want to have a costume that's like a purple suit, with a black top hat, a cane, and a crunk cup.
The thing is I have NO idea where to look for an outfit.
I have to buy all the items seperately because they don't have the full costume at Party City in a teen size.
I was looking to see if anyone had any suggestions on where i can find these thing.
Thankkks! (link)
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hhaa im going as a gangster and i had the same problem. try going to the salvation army or goodwill.they might have some things.
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I am naturally thin. I'm not like 100 pounds or anything because I'm tall, but thin. People say my legs and arms and body are too straight, too thin, but that's just the way I'm built: very straight frame, not a lot of difference in calve and thigh widths. My doctor says I have a perfectly healthy weight, but I am very much bothered by friends telling me that I am too skinny or people telling me I am anorexic (this is ridiculous because you can't see any ribs or my spine.) I need a way to politely tell people that I am perfectly healthy, thank you, without seeming like I'm in denial and convince them that I am too thin. Thanks in advance for any help. (link)
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say it simple. just say im not anorexic im perfectly healthy.
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i have my period and i wore a tampon for about 8 hours today. i started feeling light headed and i am having major cramps..they hurt soo bad. is this tss? im really scared. will it just go away?
what should i do? the last thing i want to do is tell my dad (no mom) and have to go to the doctors or something.
please help! (link)
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do you have a grandmother or aunt you could tell??
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15/f
today at lunch i was sitting with all of these people and i was talking to this guy who i had just realized that I liked (the night before i thought about him a lot) and the guy sitting next to him says "Heyy, you guys should date! She's interested in you!" and i was so excited that he said that, and then the guy i like said "yeah, we're gonna date. AND we're gonna... (i couldn't tell what he said after that- it was probably something sexual though)"
and so when he said that he didn't quite sound like he was kidding- but not entirely serious either. I catch him looking at me sometimes, and when we made eye contact when we were talking today he started blushing and our whole conversation was pretty flirtatious i guess...
So I really want to date him- what can i do to make him want to ask me out? like what hints should i drop? he's kind of shy... should i ask him to go to a movie or something?
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just ask him on AIM or text if he likes you. or get a friend too do it.
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okay sorry this is so long,
i met my best friend jess now 4 years ago. best friends since with only a few fights here and there over stupid things.everyone knows we fight then are best friends again. well 8months ago she found this kid and fell head over heals for him. he was a jerk to me and i started being one to him and i hated him and i told her that many times. well we started fighting more and more like once a week over things all leading back to her boyfriend and stuff. now its been almost a year and she has been changing more and more. she used to be the perfect best friend the one everyone dreams about. now she couldnt be worse. lets just say i have a 34 just about c cup and the friends she invites over are pervs and well they somehow started grabbing my boobs, it didnt really bother me for some reason but it bothered jess. the other night she had 8 guys over and all of them were on me i couldnt do anything it was 8-1 but she FLIPPED out. friday night there were a few people over and one of them wanted to play spin the bottle for whatever reason and (before everyone got there she got mad at her bf because he got grounded but was able to go over that night but he was with his friends so she was like oh im gonna flirt so much tonight and said it again when we got home) well she didnt play and was by herself so i was like jess come play! and she started screaming at me in front of everyone! well that was it she was pissed at me all ngiht. so last night she imed me and i had been ignoring her in school not that i see her much but i didnt even look at her whe i did. and we got into a major fight, she was saying im turning into the typical "freshman sluts" and that ive changed and my morals are messed up and that i care more about the guy next to me than my girlfriends (totally not true i could care less about the guy next to me) none of that was true at all! all that stuff is true to her like shes becoming the slut and cares about the guy next to her. not me, everythign she said about me was what i would say about her!! shes losing her good friends shes had for years like me and she doesnt realize it, ive tried talking to her but she doesnt believe me and other people have to and it ends up with us fighting. i dont know how to change her back since i cant talk to her. i just wasnt o have her and her bf break up and get things back to normal (link)
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i think everyone is different and everyone has there one personality. i think you should really tell her how you feel. ive had friends like that. dont worry she will either come back to you or go farther away. there is nothing you can do. just stick with yuor ither friends for a while. but i think you should really tell her how you feel.
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i cannot stand my friend. she is mean to me. although sometimes she is nice. but i cannot endure anymore. i feel like we're a rollercoaster, switching between mean and nice. i will not elaborate on the reasons why. does anyone know how how i can stop being friends with someone? i think its easier to break up in a relationship but how do you do it with friendship? i have no idea. okay i do not want to talk things over with my friend because she is hard to deal with and that would not work. i do not want to stop talking to her completely. if there is anything i can say or whatever i can do to tell her i dont want to be friends with her anymore in a nice way? (link)
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just tell her how you feel and that maybe its best if you just move on. it might be a little rough but its probably better than having to deal with her.
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My friends (who are girls) tell me I'm pretty, but I've never had a guy come up to me and tell me I'm hot. I really hate it because they'll flirt with ugly girls, and I get no attention from guys. I really hate myself because of it. I'll never get a boyfriend and I've never had a real one either. Also, I want to go to homecoming but no guy will want to dance with me. What do I do? (link)
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thats not true. if your pretty and nice someone is bound to ask you! you shouldnt hate yourself!! you sound like you have GREAT friends and stuff like that is the only thing that matters. you have the rest of your life for guys!! Enjoy life!!
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I am supposed to be perfectly content. I have a lot a good friends, get almost-perfect grades, am reasonably pretty, pretty fit, and 100% bored. I have nothing to do. I do a beach clean-up every weekend, take art class, have honor society, do drama club, and do spelling team. I will start tutoring young kids next month. It just isn't satisfying. I know I should be happy, and I am, when I do these hobbies and am at school. When I get home, I just want to do SOMETHING. I want to go out, and be with my friends again. My family and home is nice, but it doesn't content me. I feel the need to go to a party, or go shopping or just something outside my house. But I feel as if I'm under house-arrest. I can almost never go out spur-of-the-moment, and am stuck inside with nothing to do. Homework and projects take all of 15 minutes. I feel like there's a huge gap where SOMETHING should be, something important, something that would make me the happiest person on Earth. I used to want to be pretty, and thought that would make me happy, but it doesn't. It's fine, but just... not enough. Help please? (link)
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omg i SOOO know how you feel!! i feel this way right now too!! i realized that why waste your time thinking of something to do or wanting to be somewhere else when your wasting away your childhood. just love being a kid and feeel so lucky for the things you do have. even though that helped me a little i still know how you feel
i hope we both can realize that soon. =)
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I don't know..thsi boy is my friend but he never aknowledges me.
My best friend and I always walk together everywhere but when we come to the same path and see him, and says Hi to my best friend and trys to tlak to her and just completely ignores me or act as if I'm nto there.
I hope you guys don't suggest that maybe he has a crush on my best friend because he doesn't they're friends too but atleast he could even say hi when me meet is enough for me but he doesn't even do it and it kinda makes me feel bad.
Does he like me or maybe he's just realyl stupid and really does forget? Or maybe it's something else? (link)
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i have a friend just like this who is a guy. As hard as it is maybe hes not really your friend. or it could be that maybe he likes YOU. or hmmm idk its confusing. boys are very misunderstood and confusing. i'd probably say just ask him if you guys are cool. he'll tell you.
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