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Hello Everyone here to give the best advice I can or just listern...
Location: Salem Massachusetts
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Age: 22
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i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost a month and i dont no what to get him for christmas he likes sports but he told me not to get anything for him. what should i do? (link)
I would still get him something. Its only been a month so you should just get him a 25 dollar gift card to dicks sporting goods or something.


im getting this weird butt pulsing feeling in my right butt cheek:S I know it sounds weird but it feels like its pulsing and i dont know what to do cause its getting annoying:S

thanks and i will rate! (link)
Try to drink more milk and eat bananas. Hope that helps.. They feel so weird I know if they really bother you you could take a muscle relaxer


k so i wanna know if its possible to make a guy that doesn't want to be in a relationship change his mind. like are there things a girl can do to make the guy want to commit to her. i was with this guy and he really didn't want to be committed. he always hooked up with several girls at once. but he met me and stopped talking to everyone else and looked like he was about to commit but then changed his mind and backed out. so now were friends but i wanna know how to make him want me as a girlfriend... (link)
You cant really make him want you.. They only way to try would be to act like your moving on and your his "friend" so you can ask him for some manly advice if he likes you he'll break! And realize he wants to be with you if not maybe hes not ready yet, be glad he told you and didnt just go and cheat like mine did!!




Here's an odd one for ya..

She broke up with me 2 weeks ago... So now we're just friends (sucks, but what can ya do?) What do I get her for christmas?

She's 16 btw

Thanks! (link)
Depends on why she broke up with you lol.. IF it was a good reason get her a gif card to a clthing store like macys or something if not get her a fruit basket...


this guy. We went out for about a year. I think i was inlove with him. When we used to fight, i would ignore him for a while because i didn't want to deal with him, then i would talk to him later after. days later. I miss him so much. he's told one of my friends that he still likes me, but i guess i'm not supposed to know, even his best friend thought that he mite still like me because he was talking about me a lot at his school...i still love him...i can't stop thinking about him...and it makes me super jealous to know that he seems to be doing fine without me....i'm just so depressed. Life is going straight downhill, and i'm hanging in there. I just need advice about this one issue. So one of my ex's friends called me saying that my ex told him to call me. And i didn't understand why. i was so confused. and at the same time it hurt me because it was like he was calling me a slut or easy or something. And i didn't understand my why he would call me a slut because we never did it. I'm not planning on that anytime soon. We just made out and kind of grinded on each other, and it was almost like we were doing it, but not really because our clothes were on...i guess this could be counted as a slutty, but...what do you guys think? just tryna get help and get myself up... thank you! (link)
Guys are like children. Hes playing games to see how far youll go thats all like a test. He wants to see if you'll hookup with him. And as far as him doing fine.. WHEN have you ever seen a man show signs of weaknesss.. Hello he wouod never show you or anyone else that its bothering him.. hello a mans Pride??....You need to find something to distract you like go hang with the girls or whatever. I know its hard but it will all fall into place if its meant to be, Show him you dont care, when you see him try to smile and act like your having the time of your life. I f he really does like you he will call.. And if not why bother with soemone who doensnt...


im 15/f. i shy and have a hard time talking to guys....just so u kno im not one of those weird people u kno who tlk to there cat but,i havent ever had a boyfriend...i dont think im bad looking im 5'0 and a little chubby but i can still wear a bikini and look in it..well i have semilong brown razor cut style hair and blue eyes...i wear hollister and stuff like that...but now i sound like im writing a single person seeking a person ad...but, i still cant figure out why im single (link)
Listen Honey first of all your only 15 and boyfriends arent everything there is plenty of time for that seriously... I mean I know you probably dont want to hear it but I wish someone would of told me.... I had a bf at your age and had a baby by 17. I am now 22. Its ok to be shy guys like that too. Alot of people are shy. My advice would be if you really want to be able to approach any man is you have to first be comfortable in your own skin and feel sexy and then youll aproach anyone work on having tremendous confidence.




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