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Gender: Female
Age: 14
AIM: Lucky12 101
Member Since: December 2, 2004
Answers: 72
Last Update: December 12, 2007
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Ok the deal is that there is a dance this friday and me and sum of my friends are going to eat afterwards, but this one kid is coming that me and my friend just cant stand!! He is SO immature and is always acting like a 10 year old, we have tried everything to keep him from going be we have run outta ideas, then, I found out that he had ISS and never told his mom, i was gonna call and tell his mom but i got him insted, so now i cant. And now the other guy thats going with us dosnt want him going either. Please give me some advice to keep him from going with us!!!!!

>>RohoBaby (link)
whats ISS. and tell him straight up you dont want him going.


Is there anyway to get rid of acne and blackheads fast or at least to get less of it?? PLEASE TELL ME!! I'm 13 and a girl (link)
try proactive


ok so my bff who i've known since 1st grade is being kinda mean to me. we are going to a new school now and well i get the feeling that she just wan to be in the "popular crowd". i'm "popular" in the sense that i have the most friends but not in the sense that i'm bff's with the girls in the "coolest group". i am really good friends with alot of girls in the "popular/coolest" group so i guess alot of people consider me popular. but my bff doesn't, so when i have classes with her and the some of the "popular" girls, which i always do, she completely ignores me or talks to me only when the "popular" girls are. so most of the time she only talks to me when the "popular" girls are and its kinda annoying. she's been ignoring me lately and ditching me alot for these "popular" girls. and it's nto just me who thinks this. our other bff's think so also. so we are all mad at her. me and my other friend the most cuz one time we all were partners for this day where we take care of these unfortunate little kids at a carnival type thing at school. anywayz she ditched us to hang out with my other really good friend who is like the most popular girl at school. she never came back to our group and we had to take care of two kids, but my other friends were helping us cuz they only had one. anywayz so she ditched us while me and my other friend took care of these two little kids. and at the end of the carnival she came back to say goodbye to the little girls. and she pretended that she had done everything with the girls that she had done the most work and that she should take all the credit. so now i am mad at her, and so are 5 other girls. i don't know if i should tell her that we're mad at her or not. or maybe we should just ignore her and ditch her like she does to us. please help me she is really gettin on my nerves even though i love her to death she's being a real biatch!!!!! (link)
ok sounds to me like this is war. you have to show that bitch that you are popular to. Ditch her or whatever and if she comes crawling back give her another chance but if she does the same thing again ditch her..hope it helped
-arielle-


What do you do if you think someone is really annoying and she is at your house all the time..she thinks that i am her friend but im not..what should i do? (link)
tell her nicely or meanly please leave me alone or buzz off BITCH!!!


I can put a tampon in just fine, it just hurts *really* bad whenever I pull it out, is it maybe because I let it get too full before I changed it? Please help! (link)
wish i could help but i have never used a tampon b4...my questions just like it....please answer="does it hurt?"


hi im 14/f/ma im in 9th grade.... i have been cutting myself sine 8th grade.... and for a while i stopped for two months..... but i can anymore.... i do it often now and its becoming hard to hide it... and im just to the point where i dont care anymore.... and im sick of people telling me i do it for attention like they know or something... i do it becuase it hurts... because when im doing it thats all im focusing on is that it hurts and not the reasons why im doing it... i guess the reason i am is becuase i dont like myself very much i cant look at myself in the mirror anymore without seeing a buncha stuff wrong with me... my parents fight a lott too.... im just sick of this all and i really just wanna fall asleep at night and never wake up.... i dont know what to do anymore... someone please help me (link)
have you ever thought about getting a councelor. that might help. Just try not to cut yourself... that can lead to much more. I know it might be hard to answer those questions on why you do it but just avoid knives or what ever you use. trust me it is better to be scared of them than be ok with them


ok.. well i have these 2 bffs and weve been bffs since 5th grade.. im in 8th now and were all pretty popular (not to sound conceited) but 1 of them is like known by like very single person in my town and one is almost the same.. but the one that isnt as popular always gets me pissed off bec she trys soooo god damn hard to be like the other one.. whens shes not with the other one shes a WHOLE differnt person.. how should talk to her like about this w/o havin a big agrument?
srii if this was confusing lol thanx (link)
well you just need to think about it from her perspective and then talk to her....read mine its called....."sry its long but please read"


ok wellll.. i have alot of friends, but there all obsessed with me. its not like we all talk to eachother, they just fight over me.. they literally do. Like at lunch they all want to sit next to me and it get's really annoying. I feel bad because if i'm talking to someone or sitting next to someone other people feel bad. ahh they want to be just like me too. Don't get me wrong, i love them, but it's really immature too. I mean it's been going on for a long time and in 6th and 7th grade I could understand, but now we're in 9th. What should i do? (link)
well you just have to talk to other people i mean i dont know your exact realationship with them but either do that or have a 1 on 1 discussion with each of them
read mine...its called...."i know its long but please read it"...


Yeah im 14 1/2 and I have had sweaty armpits for about 2 1/2 years now , and it still hasnt gotten any better! I have used almost every deoderant and anti-perspirant. i have also tried prescripted stuff. My mom thinks i sweat when im nervous. But that would mean i would be nervous everyday. I just got my period a couple of days ago too. Please Help Me!

Thanks, (link)
maybe its just a sign with your period and stuff. I am 13 and i sweat just everyday to. I just put on deoderent between classes when i can. Good luck. xoxoxo
-arielle


MY BEST FRIEND has turned into a real jerk. Me and him loved each other and he just turned me away. He tried to kill himself and that really got me worked up and i guess i said a few things i sholdn't have but i miss him and he's sending me these e-mails that r insulting me and saying he's glas i'm out of his life. What should i do? (link)
restraning order


Ok heres the deal....I like this boy and I thought he liked me. It turns out he likes my best friend and is going out with her. Well today me,my best friend,her boyfriend(the one I like),and my other friend were at my friends house. We were in the dark in her room for some reason and her bf got up and so did all of us and he started saying "hugs" and started hugging all of us with his eyes closed. One time when he hugged me his hands went a little lower (not my butt but my hips.)He hugged me like 50 times more then he hugged his own girlfriend.He hugged me all the time and I know he could see who he was hugging. Then I said sumthin to him while I was sitting on my friends bed and he came over and like tackled me so I was laying down on her bed. He also tackled me alot through the rest of the night.I used to think he likes me and now I dont kno wat to think. Everything is so confusing.It seems like he likes me but if he did why does he go out with my best friend and tell her he loves her and stuff?It drives me crazy because I REALLY REALLY like him but I guess im happy for them because she is my best friend. Does he like me or not?¿ If he doesnt then how come he always flirts with me and if you just met him and his gf(my best friend) you wouldnt even be able to tell they were boyfriend+girlfriend. You have to like make him just put his arm around her.
-lost and confused
*I RATE HIGH* (link)
Read mine, its called "body image"
Ok well from PERSONAL experience here you can't assume anything untill after he has actually said to your face "I like you." and if that takes to long then just straight up ask him, and if he says no and your embarressed just say "yeah because someone told me you did" or something. Just DONT ASSUME! good luck!
-READ MINE-


i have a friend that has recently become bi. she always tells me that i look hot, and she always comes around and slaps my ass. it's starting to bother me. what should i say to her? becuz i cant take it for much longer..! (link)
Dear Person,
Somehow you have to get it across to her that you are only interested in men. Slowly get on the topic that she is bi and then thats when you ask her. What to ask her? Well just think about what you would say to yourself or someone who you really love dearly. good luck!




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