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hey yall! whats up! well my name is haley, i am 13, i go to ctms, which is a pretty awesome school bc i have really awesome friends to help me through everything! my best friend moved tho, waAaAaAaAa, and i miss her like no other, but we still hang out all the time and are still like sisters! i am pretty tall, '5''6, brunnett hair, dark brown eyes, and i'm pretty much everyones friend, at least thats what i think, but you know i could be wrong! i have a boyfriend that i love more than anything in the world! and well yah, i hope that you'll let me help you with your problems bc thats why i'm here!
love yall bunches!
xoxoxoxoxo
Haley
p.s.- please please PLEASE rate me, whether its good or bad, i would love to know if i helped or not! thanks if ya do! if you dont, well ok i guess thats fine too, lol! thanks yall!

advice

So I'm 16 and I haven't even had my first kiss yet. I have alot of guy friends but they are all what it sounds like "guy" friends not boyfriends. I'm not a tombboy or whatever..Am I missing something here.

honestly i bet that alot more ppl than you think havent had their first kiss yet, and that means that once you do it will just make it all that more great! just dont go and kiss a guy if your JUST doing it to kiss someone, like i said, make it special!
hope it helps!
~Haley~

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hey, i like this guy a whole lot, and he likes me 2. we are really close friends, so we dont wanna go out cause it may ruin our friendship, but we still like each other. what should i do? its kind of driving me crazy, but i dont wanna go out w/ him either! thanks, hope this makes sense!

well honey, you know what, you cant just sit and wonder about what might come to be, you have to actully do something about it and see! your not being fair to yourslef or the guy if your just not doing it bc your afraid of what might be. plus, even though unfortunetly some bad relashonships do ruin friendships, if yall are THAT good of friends, then with time if it doesnt work out then i think that yall should be fine!
hope it helps!
~Haley~

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I'm a 14 year old girl and i have a guy problem. ok I have been liking this guy for a little over a year now, and he likes me too but we havent dated. he said he is scared he is going to hurt me again but not on purpose, and I dont deserve that, I deserve better. but he said he really likes me a lot, but idk why he cant just ask me to date him. WE'll never know unless we try, can you help?!

well it sounds like you have the right idea, but then again, so does he! your right that yall will never know unless you try, but he just obviously likes you so much that he doesnt want to hurt him. well, here's my advice. as girls, we get the impression that the guy ALWAYS has to do the actual asking out, but you know it doesnt have to be that way! just one day when yall are talking be like come on, i know you wanna give us a chance so just come on! i dont know if i can wait any longer, because i really really like you, and i want to see where things will take us. its the best way to be honest with him, and hopefully give yall a head start with your relashonship!
hope it helps!
~Haley~

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I broke up with my boyfriend Saturday. I thought I only liked him as a friend, but now that I am without him, I realise I really miss him and like him. I think since we barely hang out, I started liking him less. He cried when we broke up. I hope he doesn't hate me. I am going to talk to him tomorrow if I see him before he goes to practice. I want to go back out with him. I was PMSing, so I guess that screwed up with my emotions. What should I say to him to clear this all up and so we can get back together? I'm really bad at doing this, but I want this to work out. Help..can you give me an example on what to say?

the same thing has happend to me before and it sux like no other! all you can do is tell him the truth; that you still like him and that you made the biggest mistake ever. hopefully, since he cried when you broke things off, it means that he really cared/cares about you, and thats always a good sign because for most people its pretty hard to hate someone completly in that short amount of time. if it doesnt work out then his loss! time will heal your heart, it has mine!
hope it helps!
~Haley~

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ok well i like this guy a lot and i think he might like me too but i dont know what i should do to find out! has this ever happened to u? what should i do?

oh yes! this has happend to me BUNCHES of times before! the thing that i've found to work the best is to get a friend, that has a good poker face, to ask him who he likes and find out if its you! i'm kinda goin through the same thing right now infact! but thats another story! if this doesnt work then let me know and i'll try to help you again! but i do hope that THIS helps!
love ya lots!
Haley

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what should i do:
a friend of mine thinks she is fat and isnt eating like she normaly does. she is scaring me and i dont know what to do. condider this ? carelfuly!

well, its not good to not eat, thats for sure. and alot of ppl have some things about their body that they dont like, and sometimes ppl just get the empression that not eating will help that, even tho thats wrong. i mean i HATE my hips and my theighs like no other, and i HAVE not ate before thinking that it wouold help. but what you really have to do is just keep telling her that thats NOT the way to handle things, and if you've done that already then your an awesome friend, and your friend is very lucky!
love ya!
~Haley~

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what do you do when you tink people are just talking about you and you dont know why escapcally one persont that is telling lies. I need help with this even though the girl telling lies is not my friend how do I confront her with this problem. help me!
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well you need to be honest with the girl, friend or foe it doesnt matter! if she knows that she's being rude and doing it on purpose, just tell her to stop and that she's just going to create problems for herself, bc i'm sure that you have great friends that will back you up if somethin dirty goes down, if ya know what i mean *punch* *Ahh*, just joking, lets hope it doesnt come to that! if she doesnt know that theses things are lies, and she's just one of those ppl that spreads lies without knowing it, then tell her that what she's spreading doesnt help on your list of daily problems and just ask her to stop! and remember, if you do think that you need back up, then get some of ur girls to go with you! hope i helped!
luv ya!
~Haley~

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What do you look for in guys?

wow! i so love this question! ok, in a guy i look for someone who i can trust with my darkest deepest secrets, like i know that they wont just say you can trust me, and then go and do the oppiste; basicly someone that i dont even have to say 'do you promise?', that i can just know that i can trust them, ya know? i also look for someone who is funni, sense of hummor is a MUST, if you dont have one then dont even think about askin me out! i'm not one of those super shallow ppl who bases relationships only on looks, but i will admit that i love guys with pretty eyes, or a pretty smile, or both! i consider everything else just a bonus! lol! a guy needs to be able to talk to their gf about anything and be comfertable about it, i mean seriously your supposed to be open with one another, so do it! 1 thing i cant stand tho is when guys dont call their girls and you dont talk for a week! i'm also a sucker for guys that are really random and that can be comfertable running up to you in the hall just to say hi and to give you a kiss or a hug! all of this seems so complex, but its really not if you think about it!
love ya!
~Haley~

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ok well i think i might like my close friend but i dont wanna like him because i think that like if we break up we wont be good friends any more.
what should i do?

idk

wow, thats a toughy. well, this situation could take a few directions. 1)since yall are "close" friends already, it could work in your favor bc yall should already know eachother pretty well, well enough to go out and be comfertable. 2)it could be UNcomfertable since yall have been friends. if yall have JUST been friends for like a year, then it might be ok, i mean its not like yall have known each other since yall were 5 and he saw you run out of your house wearin ur b-day suit(just an example, dont worry!), so yall know each other, but he doesnt know your dark secrets! but if he does know secrets, and he's been trustworthy about them, then i would go for it also because you can trust him. 3) if this is a new close friend, then it would probley be an exciting relationship at first bc yall still have stuff to learn about one another. 4)(and last) if he's just your everyday close friend, and you've had feelings before for him, and vise-versa, then i say go for it! obviously if this isnt the first time then you have legitament feeling of VERY strong like, maybe even love! if it was me, then i would just go for it! make yourself happy! but if your ABSLOLUTLY not sure that you like him, then wait and see where things take you. but if you just dont WANT to like him, then dont let your wants get in the way of relationships; you cant be afraid of the future! i mean who knows, yall could make a really great couple!
love ya lots!
~Haley~

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ok heres wut i have so far.... broken heartsville, lovers and friends, let me love you, my boo, 21 questions, drop it like its hot.... oh and one more thing why am i comitment- phobic ?

lol, hunnie i know you so well that i can almost tell you EXACTLY why your a comintment phobic! lol! you dont want to get hurt, and you have been before; it causes you to put your heart out there, and then at the first sign of something going wrong,you take your heart back! you just have to leave it out there for once, and i think that your doin an awesome job at this point, with this guy! but anyways, songs.... he likes anything by moughumery gentry *thats his fav country artist*, whiskey lullubye, over and over again, and i'll have to get more later!
love ya lots!
~Haley~

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hey haley!... uh ok i need help is that thing a good idea for a gift for * * * * * *? and if it is will u help me find out wut songs he likes i have 6 so i need like 10 or so more! thanks homita! lyl! God Bless!

yes sexi number 1 (lol, codename dont ask) of coarse i will help you! i think that ****** would LOVE that gift! just tell me what songs you already have and i am SURE that we can find somemore that he would love to hear!
love ya babe!
~Haley~

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