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This question has been bothering me for quite sometime now...

If someone is depressed why wouldn't they want to reach out and get help?

Thanks

They dont think they can get help. Their alone and not really wanting to open up to somone.. That's one of the main causes of depression. Not having somone to talk to.

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Ok so my bestfriend is going through depression and I feel so bad cause honeslty Ive realized that he doesnt smile that much anymore but it never hit me like that cause hes always just like im tired and stuff but anyways he told me yesterday that hes going thru it again so ive done some research on it cause i want to be able to help him get thru it. I didnt know him the first time he went thru it but I know that means since he had it once he'll be able to get thru it again. Anyways Ive gone a bunch of websites and they all basically say the same thing like it takes medication to get past it and stuff... I need to know Is There Anything I can Do To help Him? I cant find anything on how others should act around someone with it. Please If u have any ideas help. Ive googled it already and found some stuff but i need to know more...

Okay, Well it does take medication to get past it. But you can do somthing if you really want to help him. Tell somone you trust,(a teacher,parent,Counciler)about your friend. So they can give him the right things he needs to get passed his depression for good. He probably has Anitexy. You can also help him by talking with him and telling him. That you are there to talk to.If he gets the message that he actually has somone there to care for him, He might not feel as lonely and alone. Try and get him to open up. Im not saying force stuff out of him, Because that wont help it nor will he talk to you lol. So just sit him down. Spend some time together somwhere and start a conversation. Dont make it akward,comfort him.
You said you googled it. Well i did to just to kinda find out some stuff. I dont know if youve been to this website yet but i thought this one kinda told some Facts about why, how and who gets depression.
http://www.depression.com/causes_of_depression.html
http://www.psychologyinfo.com/depression/

This other one tells about treatment and what depression is.

Sorry if i didnt help that much. I tryed

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Heyy,i just want to know....

is there anything i could do to stop split ends from the straitener? or any srpay to put on befor/after straitening hair?
thanks! :]

I use a spray it by the brand CHI. Its a spray that you put in after and before you straighten your hair.. it maintains the frizziness and keeps the straightner from making split ends.

Its called Keratin Mist.. It was 12.00 at ulta or any beaty supplies store

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dude someone just asked a really mest up question on my account about being fat and wearin tight clothes,it wasnt me, what should i do?

Just delete it and forget it.. and move on.. Theres really nothing you can do..

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people and there fake questions these days pshh!

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Alright so my bf and i have been going out for about a month. && i like him a lot, i have never met anyone like him. Do you have any ideas about what i should get him for Valentines day? I am really stuck on this :[

thanks!!!

Wow ive asnwered alot of these kind of questions.

-Teddy bear
-Chocolate
-Balloons
-a card
-flowers
-picture frame with a picture of you and him in it
=D

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HEy yall in a few days im getin a ipod nano and i have some question

DO you think its worth the money??
Ill rate high

Its worth the money.. But now if they had ipod minis still. I would go for the ipod minis. But sadly they dont. So go for the ipod nano. It doesnt hold much. So pick what songs you want wisely, If your really into music.than i wouldnt get a small GB. They scratch but its all good.Just get a cover for it and it solves the problem. Other than that its worth the money =)

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ok i am not one of those girls who cares about there wieght but i was just wondering is 127 over wieght even if i am really really muscular and i am 5ft and 8in o and i am 13/f
i rate really high

Nope your not over weight at all!!!!

=D
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this is going to be my first valentines day with my very special boyfriend. he's not a romantic type of guy. he's in to rock music. This one band he likes released a new cd and i was wondering if that was a good gift for valentines day besides a valentines day card and rose?

deffinatly go with the CD.. Nothing better than saying i love you with alittle music eh?

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Well i've liked this girl for awhile. I am planing to tell her how i feel on Valentines Day. Are there any ideas how I could tell her? Also, are there any gift ideas?

Thanks in advance!

P.S. - We are both 13, and she is kind of a silly person if that helps any...

A card, With some of the feelings you feel about her. But make it a funny card. With a serious note at the bottom. Maybe some flowers to add to the card. Balloons.. haha sorry i kinda just thought of that. Chocolate!! A big plus! chocolate roses. Make a card useing the sweetheart candys and make it funny =D haha.. Kinda of loserish but i would be like flatterd if a guy did that to me! Everything else everyone has allready said.
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alright i know everyone will be like ohh hollister and stuff but does anyone know any CHEAP stores you can get legginss for not that much..cause im like a shopping addict and want them so bad but my mom refuses to give me more money cause i spent to much last time so i have to buy them but i only have a little..so does anyone know anystore you can get them for under like 15 dollars? ill rate 5 for help!

You could get them anywhere for a okay price.. I got mine at hollister their pretty expecive. So you could go to Target or wall-mart. They would most likely be in the sock section. You could also buy some thick stockings and cut them .. Thats the super duper cheap way.

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is limewire illegal?

yessureee!!

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I have problems focusing.
During class, if I am not talking to the person next to me I fall asleep. I ALWAYS talk, no matter what. All my teachers write in my comments that I talk to much, I just can't help it I get so distracted and bored easily.
Also, I can't focus on one thing at once, if I do I end up frustrated and stop working, or start like flipping out because I don't get it.
I was wondering....do I have ADHD?

I dont think you have ADHD, and Talking has nothing to do with that.. I have the same problem with the talking.. All my teachers hate me because of it and i dont have either ADHD or ADD. But you probably have ADD. If you cant focuss on things, Or you get frustrated than i would have to say thats ADD. But im not a professinal so i wouldn't know for sure. So i would tell your doctor and get tested for it.

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is it bad to charge your battery every day??

thanks

Its perfectly fine =D
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I have green eyes, pale skin, brown hair, and freckles. Does anyone have any good make up ideas? I have heard that brown eye shadow is good, but anything else? I don't like to wear bronzer because it makes me look fake.
Thanks it advance.

Darkish colors, Stay with the Greens and blues. Some browns and golden colors as well. If you use the golden colors.. Apply it very softly and lightly so then it dosent look fake.. yeah i know what you mean by the bronzer. You could use a powder that tones your skin down. It works like a bronzer but its not for a certin color skin. You just apply it after you do all your other makeup .

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OK so on saturday is this semi-formal dance at my school and i dont know what to do with my hair. It's about 2 inches beyond the shoulder, really thick and reallyyyyyy frizzy. I could straighten it, but its gonna be hot in the gym so it wont stay. I can jut put it up into a pony or bun. But if i get it done it has to be something wickedddd simple because it's not like fancy. I have noooo clue what to do, and suggestions on how i should have my hair would be AWESOME

A ponytail, and then curl it into spiral curls .. The curls will keep the frizz down.

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I know it's normal for teens esp. girls to go through this phase when they try on a million outfits just to go to the grocery and end up with something they started with 10 outfits ago. Today I had to go to the mall which is important but... I ran up n down the house half naked looking for clothes...n there's so much and I picked some and then 2 minutes later I don't use it and I use some other one! What to do what to do...n then wen i get something it's so simple and I realize I'm tired! Gosh what to do n how to stop this? How do i decide what to wear without tryin sooo many outfits?

Haha i used to do that all the time.. Somtimes i still do lol. You could lay your clothes out ahead of time. Or even lay out some outfits you think would be cute , on the bed or floor and then try on about 3 and pick from those. So your not pressuring yourself to look better.

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I have a coupon to Baker's shoe store for $20 off a purchase of $50 or more. If i buy $55 worth of stuff from that store .. do I get the $20 right then? Making the bill $35?

Yep, You would probably get 20$ off your purchuse!

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Hey okay well i am wondering what are some things I could do to make my good features stand out and make me look prettier? I know a few things but what can I do with my face/hair/body, etc. I use makeup and I know how and all that. If it helps i am sorta pale, brown hair, and hazel eyes. Make-up tips i guess, etc. Just ways to "accent" my prettyness if you get what im saying. Sorry this is confusing but ill RATE! Thanks in advance!

You really want to bring out your eyes. Use a medieum dark brown eyeliner. I wouldnt go to dark. because then it will stand out to much and wont show off your other features,Eye showdow maybe somthing a little light. a light pink, cream colors. Then with black masscara. On both bottom and top eye. A bronzer would be good. Your lips maybe A glossy pink lipgloss..
Your hair, If you part it a certin way, Part is another way. Try diffrent hairstyles. Experiment with hairstyles.

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i want the donnas "take it off" for a song on my myspace. where can i get it so its not a big box but the little music player thing?

Click on music, at the top where you can go to home and stuff, Then press Band name, and then type donnas and then press the song you want and then press add and then you have the music on there =)

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Sorry if i wasnt much help!! =( But thank you for rating me a 5!

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When a guy says "will you go out with me?"

What are you supposed to say? Just yes?

Were confused!

Thanks in advance!

yes if you like him and no if you dont like him..

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