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I'm Heather and I can only be myself, I'm sorry if thats hell for you. I hate writing about myself. I've been through hell & back with my own life, I can come off as a bitch, but the honest truth is I'm saying what I think, being honest & truthful. 13 year olds coming on here asking about how to spice up your sex life, go play with some barbies. Girls wasting your time coming to ask if your pregnant, go get a damn EPT test instead of wasting others times. On the other hand, I am almost 100 percent positive I can help you with anything. I'm almost sure to answer the same night also.Oh, and I also don't care what you guys rate me. I'm here to help people, not be rated. You can either listen to my adivce, or go get some different advice.
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15/f
(before we get started this guy does not seem like a player or like he just wants me for sex. Just seems kinda confused you know)
I have feelings for this senior, at one time I thought he might like me too. (ie..We never talked and he threw a paperball at me..then he picked me for his group and sat right next to me, he had his arm touching me the whole time and everytime he said something to me he looked me in the eyes. And he would nudge me with his shoulder or his leg. And he was teasing me and laughing with me. Note there were two other girls in the group. One sitting on the other side of him and the other in front of him.) But anyways i thought he might have had feelings for me too and you can see why. But then he started to kinda drift off and he wasnt talking to me as much. (He had a girlfriend the whole time, but when this "drifting" began to happen i heard they had broke up) And he would occasionally talk to me. One day he was sitting in the corner alone staring at the floor and i said "what is wrong with you cj?" and he started to mumble under his breath, and i said "yeah i heard nothing you said" and he began to smile and said good you werent supposed to. And i said ok then and began to smile and laugh back. But then i heard that they never did break up. And everyone is telling me i should go for it and ignore the fact that he has a girlfriend. But I couldnt do that. I would hate to think how i would feel if that happened to me. I am not the kind to steal a guy from another girl, whether i like her or not, i just dont feel its right. But i really would like to get to know cj if you know what i mean. But he has college and basketball, and the girlfriend. My friend said that we should write a note between each other talking about how i feel about him and his girlfriend and what she thinks as well (my friend) then stick it in my binder and when he checks it for our class then he will see it and read it (because everyone loves to read notes). (mind you this note would be between me and my friend talking about me and how i have a thing for him). What should I do?? I know he is a senior and everyone says seniors want freshman for their body. But we grew up in a small community and it just isnt like that with most of us. If that is true it is the senior girls and freshman boys.
What should I do about all of this
PS his girlfriend is a cheerleader and im not, i know that most jocks like cheerleaders, but i have this feeling that there is something there between us...And the other day we was sitting at the computer at school and he was looking up car parts and he seemed really concentrated and i was bored and all i could think to say was "whatcha doing?" (he would reply something) and "im sorry but im really bored" (and he replyed its ok)
i think he might be confused but it seems like sometimes he shuts me out...its driving me nuts
Give the guy a chance ; the girl won't do anything to you the worst thing is she will hate you and do stupid stuff and stare at you. Ask the guy for his number and text/call him; Play hard to get. The things he does sure does seems like he likes you, so take the chance. But also remember, guys do want girls for sex most of the time inless their serious. & no, not always seniors want freshmen for their bodies. But when he leaves in a few months , do you really think he will stay with you ? Pass him notes, message him, text him, call him, get to know him before you take this chance. It doesn't matter if she is a cheerleader or who isn't. If he does that, it sure seems like either he's a major flirt or he likes you. Just have a normal conversation with him. If he shuts you out, it isn't worth your time. Best of luck hope I helped ! [ ♥]
im so sick of wishing i was HER everynight. i cant take it . im sick of wishing i was dead thinking i was dead and crying myself to sleep . shes so much prettier skinner popular then me shes good at everything and shes so HAPPY everything is just perfect im like a raggaty ann doll in a damn barbie world next to her ......
Stop wishing you were her. Find wonderful things about yourself, everyday. Look in the mirror EVERYDAY and find something different, that you know is good and you like about you for that day. You never know how peoples lives are at home, no one does besides them. Maybe she is just a good actor. Don't think that. Everyone is special and unique in their OWN way , maybe you just haven't found yours yet. I'd be glad to talk to you through a website person to person, Let me know. [ ♥ ]
ok help me out
i had sex with my boyfriend about a month ago
no i'm not pregnant . but he told me yesterday he found out he has an std while he had sex with me . im to embarrsed 2 get tested and im not tellning my mom i have no way to drive myself but i dont wanna die in 20 years or give my kid an std what do i do who do i tell plz help heather !!!
Well, You more than likely have an STD. Please go get tested, for some they aren't for life inless you let them go. If you know who you boyfriend had sex with before, let them know to. If your scared to tell a parent, what about a trusted teacher to drive you their and home? You have to tell your mom, your mom will be upset but she will be their for you! If you don't want to "die in 20 years" Please go get tested somewhere local with someone trusted [your mom!] SOON! [ ♥ ]
my family is rele low on money . i always wear designer brands and i cant not buy them becuz of my popular level at skool . where can i go thats cheap
Okay, Just because you wear designer brands doesn't you make you popular. Help your family out instead of being stuck-up, serisouly. Go to a locall thrift store or good will or salvation army. Even E-bay is cheap for somethings. What's wrong with getting things that are'nt name brand that look the same and probably last the same- for probably about 20 dollars cheaper for clothes and probably 50-100 for purses and such. [ ♥ ]
ok im 16 and i releeeeee want a baby like i wanna have sex just to have a baby how do i get my mind off having a baby or should i have a baby
No. You're in highschool, 16 you're only a junior tops. Just wait until after college, or when your married. Babies are cute and fun but then you have to remember ; how to buy clothes toys and anything else the baby needs; then clothes for when the baby grows up and most juniors don't have the best jobs yet. If you think you're ready and the guy wants to be a dad, then fine. But remember how much a child will cost you. If you aren't in parenting, take it next year where you get a fake baby who cries and everything, then see how you like it. It isn't all fun. This is only my opinon though. [ ♥ ]
u dont know me but i have a big problem im in slower classes and teacher with extra teachers . my close friends are all in advance classes and they call themesleves stupid around me and i feel so stupid. their sitting in advanced classes and passing tests . im sitting here in pre everything and flunking everything. i cant seem to remember anything for tests . teachers dont beleive me that i study and once i heard a teacher chuckle at my test when he gave it back to me. how do i tell my friends to stop saying thyre stupid when they have stright a's , never had an D or F in their life and then how do i tell myself im not stupid i just have to push myself and everything. then my best friend is amazing at soccer and she keeps telling me she wont make the team how do i tell her she will make it instead of me shes so annoying she calls herself stupid and she has stright a.s and shes rele good at soccer. im so sad i just hate being me.. nothing i do in school is good enough.... i love your adviceyou have like 3 pages in a few weeks.
I know I don't know you, and that's fine. I have the same thing going on with one of my friends right now. First off don't think your stupid just because you take slower classes, I'm in two myself and they aren't stupid. People don't get that. We do the same stuff, the teacher just explains it better so we understand it more then them. Don't take it offensive when your friends say that. Tell them to be quiet, you don't want to hear about it, or if they are annoying you that bad, walk away. Go find frieinds in your classes. I can't help you pass tests, but why don't you stay after with your teacher and study with them? Most will take the time for students, not all, but most. I do the same things on test,
I'll study and as soon as I see it I will forget everything. But most homework you do out of class and in class, covers you for the test. Tell your friends, let them know your sick of it and it bothers you when they do that. Or even walk away so you don't start drama. You aren't stupid. The only reason someone has the right to call you stupid is because you don't try, or you give up. No one is really "stupid." They just don't try as hard as they can/should. Just push yourself harder. Come home study for about 30 minutes, have a snack then DO the homework. If you have questions, call a friend or 2. Ingore the friend, it seems like she just wants attention from people, and that is what she's getting. Don't put yourself down, run your butt of during tryouts and show someone you CAN do it. If you make it be pround for you, not her. If she makes it and you don't, tell her congrats and don't feel down about it. Everyone is good at something. As long as you try your best, you're perfect in school. Thanks , hope I helped![ ♥]
this girl is really mean to me. & at school she's in my 5th period health class & her and her friends talk abt me.. and she bugs me in the h allways & calls me a bitch & threatens me and i told my teacher but my teacher said there's nothing she can do tht goes on outside of the classroom.. and she harasses me on facebook.. is there any wya i can block on facebook? & wut should i do with her bothering me at school?
To block someone on facebook - you can go to privacy and click limited profile and type her name in. hide your wall and everything. [un-check whatever you want to hide, she can't contact you anyway with that.] & the teacher saying they can't do anything about harrsment is a lie, go talk to your conuslar about switching your health with another one of your elevctives. And tell the consular about her also; thats suppose to be reported asap. The hallways, if your in highschool their is always two different ways to get to your classes - avoid the way she takes. [ ♥ ]
do you have aim ?
and if u do can i have ur sn
I'm not on a lot anymore . But my screen name is
Oakvillexshorty [ ♥ ]
okay well last year i was rele depressed inside but i was always real loud and hyper but i take anti.depressants now and every1 asks why im so quite but still funny and not up for anything rele how do i tell them i take pills 2 make me happy but the pills make me rele slow and quiet
.. Tell them the truth. Their isn't anything wrong with taking pills. And most pills do make you feel really lazy and drousy. If they think something different of you for that, they aren't true. & You'd be really suprised how many kids in your school take those. [ ♥ ]
im in 8th grade and i have a younger bro and my mom JUST told me about 30 minutes ago shes pregant with twins im so pissed. 2 girls but im so mad at her i meanim in the 8th grade i dnot want 2 babies 2 come home screaming 2 when im sleeping or doing homework but i dont wan t to hurt my mom im so upset and mad right now
To be honest, their isn't much you can do if your mom is having two babies, your mom and dad and younger brother [depending what grade] is probably thrilled. Why don't you want two little ones? They are really fun when they grow up [2-3] They only cry at home for about the first month; then they get use to everything. Don't hurt your mom; when your pregnant your really emotional. You should be glad for her, or at least act glad. Best of luck. [ ♥ ]
so theres this guy that likes me and i dont know if i should go out with him or not cause like idont know if i want a b/f becuze im always scared ill get hurt again from my x's that i use to have it just makes me not want to have one plus i like to be single but always wish i could be a b/f...hes a very nice man and stuff i mean not hte cutest but hes nice and seems like a great guy but goes to a different schoool.....idont know if i should or nott what do u think?
Take the chance. If you think he is a good trustful honest guy, give him a chance. Let him know if he is going to hurt you, just don't like you anymore because you aren't up for that. It doesn't mater if he is the cutest, it counts of how he acts towards you and how he would treat you. I would give him a chance. [ ♥ ]
u got ne good songs over a break up but pissed off about the break up like rockish kinda
I don't want to be in love- Good Charlottle
i need an idea for an aim sn with soccer in it spell soccer - soccer scr or sccr
[yourteamnamehere]xsoccer
[yourschoolhere\xsoccer
soccerbabe[yournumberhere\
ilive4soccer
soccerislife[yournumberhere]
whoailovesoccer
soccerislife[yournumber]
bamilovesccrx[yournumberhere]
soccerstar[yournumberhere]
[brandnameyouplayfor; ex puma;adidas;nike]xsccr
soccerfreak[year.you.were.born.or.number]
soccerlovin xx
soccer xx passion
Hope I helped. [ ♥ ]
i miss my best friend
she died in a car crash about a year ago
i cant take it ne more im crying so hard still
i havent gone ne where since she died and i dont eat plz i wish i could just bring her back !!
I'm really sorry to hear that. First off, start going places. Get things off your mind; hang out with other friends and think of the good times with her. Vist the grave once a week if she was burried; and plant flowers. Don't give up and start to hurt yourself; or think anything bad of yourself, always remember she's watching you in Heaven. Don't give up and always remember, other people love you. [ ♥ ]
me and my best friend are fighting and like we havent talked for a while.. not like 2 months or a week or something..but for us its been a while cause we are always talking..but it makes me really sad when we dont talk and like it may seem to other ppl that i am having a fine day but on the inside im crying and need my bst friend back to talk to because shes the main person and its hard for me to go through the day.. how can me and her talk? i want to talk to her but i always amke the first move and im scared to cause she might just ignore me or something and i dont want that...help
If you're in highschool it happens but if it's a best friend don't let them go. Why do you act fake not fake but I mean why do you act fine but sad on the inside? Why not talk to another close friend you have. Most highschoolers have text messgaing, try that at first but also remember if you're both mad it probably will get deleted. Just give it time, everyone makes mistakes. Talk face to face, or even through a computer. Both of you have to explain why you're mad and how to fix it, or nothing will happen. Don't always make the first move, it isn't complety up to you. & If she ingores you [I don't think she will if she is a best friend] Keep talking or walk away, She will probably follow. Best of luck; hope I helped! [ ♥ ]
he keeps presuring me to have sex i want to save myself until im married how do i explain ??
Stright up tell your boyfriend you don't want to have sex. If he pressures you, leave him. Tell a trusted adult that you don't like what he is doing. Don't give in to a guy, most just want to use you then spread rumors about you. Just tell him no, you aren't ready. [ ♥ ]
Heyy, Heather. (:
Your pretty much the best person ever.
I couldn't imagine life without you.
Vajayjay advice giver foreverr.
And I'm your pornstar shaver?
Hahaaa. ily.
Hey Alison
Your pretty much the best 8th grader alive
Right back atcha and damn right
so go shave below the belt hahah
I love you chicka. :] [ ♥ ]
ok my dad wants me 2 have his old car but its so old and crappy but i got about 4 grand saved right now and my mom said behnd his back that she would buy me a new one because i was upset i would have to drive that but my dad would be mad at me because its my first car what do i do have my dad mad at me and my mom or drive a cxrappy car ppl will make fun of ? your advice is amazinggg...
If it's your first car, take your dads old one. Nobody makes fun of people for the cars they drive because most peoples first cars aren't good anyways. If you got a new car where are you suppose to get money to pay for the car payments? Save that money for college, or something useful. Or save it for when your in college and you want a new car. Buying a new car when you already have one, will probably make your family arguee. Just stick to the old one, and build up for a new one because 4 thousand won't buy you that nice of a car either.
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whats field hockey ? if im good at golf would i be good at it ?
Lol, field hockey is a girls sport and it's played on grass/turf it's like a hockey stick but the end is shorter. Go to google & type in field hockey sticks. And theirs about 12-14 girls on the team and it's really fun. If you're good at golf you'd be amazing at field hockey. Just have a hard hit. Try out for your local school and see how you like it. Try out for forward if you play golf would be my best guess.
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You are so super awesome!
Haha, thanks Kyle :]
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