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okay well i shave down there and it grows back really fast. like in a week! is that normal or what? is there anything i can do to prevent it? and i also get those little red bumps and sometimes the hair is not always completley gone! any tips please? thank you. (link)
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yes its normal, the red bumps are just from irritation try shaving the oppostie way of the growth
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i have this bed head stuff i used to scrunch my hair, it always seems to get frizzy when i put hairspray in it, but i have to otherwise it won't hold.. what can i do to it that'll make it less frizzy?? (link)
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use anti-frizz stuff or try a strong holding scrunching gel or moose
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Alright I'm a 17 year old male. I met this girl through a friend of a friend basically. At first it was rather awkward cause I'm a really shy person but she isnt. Then we got to know eachother rather well and became good friends. But I love this girl, shes so great. I've told her this and at first she started ignoring me. Then she was okay with it. She never said she loved me back. She just said it was okay If I loved her. So I started being more nice to her. I baught her lunch for a month,I pre-ordered the new Ev CD for her (she's a HUGE Ev fan), I gave her a necklace too... then she suddenly started ignoring me again. She won't even talk to me anymore. Some of her friends claim I freaked her out because I baught her stuff but... I was just being me. Being nice. I just wanted to see her happy. Anyhow, she's talking to me again but its not like before. It's only a hello here and there. So What do I do? (link)
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your a really sweet guy, she is probably afraid of commitment or just thinks of you as a friend, and doesnt want anymore then a friendship from you.
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hey guys, what are some good song about a really good friendship. i want to sing a song for my best friend at a talent show but I have no idea what to sing!! She and I are so close and I luv her a lot. (sisterly don't worry) So please help me. If you give me any songs I'll rate you a 5. (link)
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I turn to you by christina augulara, or you raise me up by josh groban
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Does anybody know any good places to download music other than kazaa and limewire. I use to have limewire but my dad reformated my computer and it won't let me download it again. Any help is appreciated. (link)
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watch music videos on launh.com or mtv.com or use windows media player if you have it, but other then that most things are illegal
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Does anyone know any nice places to get Cartilidge earrings.. also, do you buy the cartilidge earrings by themselves. or do you buy a pack of 2 like i want small hoops but i duno where i can find em. thanks (link)
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nice jewelry stores usually do it
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here it goes: i like this guy and i think he knows and 2 of my friends say that he likes me back... but theyre just guessing anyways i dont thin so.. anyways...he was talking to me on the internet for like 2 weeks constantly and then for some reason he just ignored me and wouldnt talk to me, but like in school hed look over sometimes and um then he came and sat by me when there were plenty of seats to sit down at.. and he chose to sit down next to me... im confused and i dont know whats goin on? any ideas (link)
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he likes you!
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There is this guy that I'm really interested in and I think he's into me too. we have only one class together at school and we never hang out when we aren't at school and he doesnt have my s/n email or number...should I give it to him? or should i wait til he asks for it (he is kinda shy)
is he the guy for me?
please help ! (link)
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yea just try to become friends with him first, talk to him and give him your number and sn.
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Sorry it's long, but please try to help.
This might be confusing, so if it is, sorry. But this girl I've known since 6th grade,(I'm now a freshman, grade 9) Brittany, and have had classes with since 7th, and became friends with this year, well her mom had a tumor in her eye. And Brittany's mom had it removed about a week ago. And she had to have her head shaved because they were doing surgery going through her head. Well, lately Brittany has been getting upset a lot in class, and I want to try to cheer her up, and make her happy, but her mom might be dying because the surgery didn't go to well, she's recovering, but not the best way possible, so I have a few questions.
1.) What can I say to her to comfort her, she knows I give advice, and a lot of times she asks me, but when it comes to a personal friend, it's hard
2.) This really weird teacher that none of us like who is a lesbian (not saying that's bad, but... it's weird w/ what she's been doing) Well, she, w/o Britt's permission, told the whole class about Britt's mom, and Britt ran out crying, and we didn't know how to comfort her. And then that teacher gave Britt her cell phone number, and was like call me, and don't leave a message, keep calling until you reach me, so I was wondering, is that okay for a teacher to do that? None of us like her, and Britt said she asked 2 teachers about it, and they said it wasn't normal, but Britt does tend to over exaggerate, or lie about things (she's really popular, and does whatever she can to boost the popularity, I didn't like her until this year b/c I always thought she had a perfect life and was concieted, b/c she's really rich and stuff, but now that I've gotten to know her, I've realized why she acts that way.)
3.) We're only 14, and freshman in high school. I don't associate with her that much outside of school, unless it's at a game, or if we see each other at the mall, like I don't invite her to the mall with me and my friends, but if we see each other, we talk, and/or walk around w/ each other. So please, help me try to comfort her, and is it right for that teacher to be doing what she's doing? What can I do to help, or what can I say. Also are there any gifts I could give her for x-mas that might make her feel better, or might make her laugh, or smile? I'm not trying to be weird, or act gay, but it's been so long since I've seen her smile, and it's been so long since I've heard her laugh. She's cut her wrists in the past, and I don't want her to use self-harm again, and I'm afraid about with what's going on with her mom, she might go farther than just cutting her wrists.
Oh, and about the whole teacher thing, we don't know how that teacher found out, Brittany didn't say anything to her, we figure she must've overheard Britt telling one of us. Please, any help would be appreciated! And if you're one of those people that like to leave sarcastic, or rude advice, I could do with a good laugh, so make it funny. Thanks in advance for all the help. And again, sorry it's so long. (link)
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my dad had and died of cancer so i kinda know where she is at. Everyone takes hard situations differently. Dont ever try forcing stuff out of her, but i think she really does need to talk to someone, and you might be it. Maybe one night have her over and hang out and just do fun stuff... go to the mall or the movies or to dinner and have a buunch of fun, try to take her mind off of everything, then if she feels like talking then she will talk to you. The whole thing about the teacher, well i dont really know but it doesnt seem right. Hope i helped a little.
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I'm going to be a barbie for halloween... what are some good ideas... (hair, outfit, makeup) that would go with that? Thank you! (link)
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i was barbie for halloween last year! i had a tiny bright pink short dress and a long blonde hair with bangs wig i wore fake eyelashes and a ton of sparkly pink make-up good luck!
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Does anybody no some good stores that sell some basic cute shirts or does anybody have a good shirt that would look good on me i have blonde hair and im tall (link)
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blondes look great in pastels especially pinks! try shopping at abercrombie, american eagle, hollisters, wet seal, forever 21, rave and places like that
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Hi ! Well i was wondering what would be a good hair color for me to go with this fall/wonter i want to go darker but i don't want it to wash out my face ya know ?? So like my skin is like a creamy natural color not to light not to dark..and my eyes are greyish/hazel !! Yeah..right now my hair is Light Ash Blonde !! Thanks !!!! (link)
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go brunette! blonde is going on and brunette is coming in now! dont worry about your face fading out, it most likely wont do that if it is the right shade, jsut ask your hair dresser for some advice on what shade.
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I have medium blonde hair and I want to dye the ends purple. Now, I'm worried that this will look bizarre and I'll have to cut it. So, I'm thinking about buying the temporary dye. I have two questions. First, do you think what I want to do with my hair would look weird, or do you think I would be better off putting a few streaks in it? My hair goes about halfway down my back. Second, what is a good type of dye that will wash out in one or two showers? The water at my house is kind of weird (It has a lot of chlorine in it) so I need a dye that won't react with the water and make my hair look weird after I wash the dye out. (link)
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you can do it if you want, but the un-natural look is quickly going out right now. i suggest that if you want to get your hair colored then use a natural color (maybe 2 or 3 shades lighter then your natural color) everyone is going brunette now also though so if you think it would go with your skin tone and eyes then that might be good to, i dont suggest purple becuase you maybe not like it in the end, but if you want to try it out then buy temperary color that washes out after your first shower you can find all different kinds at drug stores. if you like it then you can get it done pernamently, i suggest you get it done perfessionally if you get it done pernamently reather then doing it yourself, becuase it is easily messed up if you do it yourself. i dont suggest using kool-aid if you get that idea, my friend did that one time and her hair adventauallly turned from red to and ugly brownish.
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Hey ok the new school year starts this monday and im scared bout making new friends cuz last year i told people i was christian (im not afraid 2 share my faith) so they all thought i was weird and stuff...and i dont cuss so instead of saying a bad word id say like crap or freak or whatever and they'd make fun of me..i still want ppl to know im christian this year but im scared i wont have friends! i know what i did wrong last year id tell people that Jesus loves them jokingly and they got scared so yea not gonna do that but even if i tell them that im a christian they might reject me..so what do i do? (link)
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thats always a tough one. If you really care about your faith and you dont want to lose it, then it sounds like these friends arnt good for you and your trust in god. the best (even though its the hardest) thing to do is drop these friends and find ones who share the same belifs as you. It's never easy, but if its for God, then its the way to go. hope that helps!
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