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Ok, so i'm married with kids. married for 8 years. i don't know why but one night i just went to check my husband's cell phone. there was a picture of a girl in there, very low cut shirt showing the bra. so a few other pics were just of her face and of her kids. i also saw he sent pics to her of our kids and even 2 pics of me. so i confront him about it and she happens to be his ex from more than 10 years ago. he says a mutual friend gave her my husband's number, which had to be true because now his calls show she was the first to call. he says he just wants a friendship with her and even told me he send her pics of me. but i told him it really bothers me because at one point in his life he loved her. and that a friendship is not possible. he says it is. oh and another thing is, that in his phone he put her number under his name, which right off the bat shows he's trying to hide it. she lives almost across the country so i know he's not sneaking out to see her, but he is definitely taking calls from her as well as calling her several times a day sometimes, even though it's never more than 5 minutes. when i asked him if he would talk to her in front of me he said no. because he doesn't have to talk to anyone in front of me because some conversations are private. i have been though cheating situations with boyfriends in the past, but i'm married now with his children and i dont' know if i should just give this some time and see where it leads..or i might just know already and not want to admit it. can anyone please let me know if you've been through the same or similar or just looking for some outside advice. thanks.
This is a very difficult situation. I feel that it is wrong of him to not want to talk to her in front of you. I mean i dont want to say anything to make you guys divorce but at the same time 8 years is a long time and my fiancee and i talk to everyone in front of each other. If he cant talk to you in front of people he shouldnt be talking to them at all. I think that he needs talk to her in front of you or not at all. Give it some more time see how it turns out. I hope that helps
16/f
okay so.. let me start of by giving a little background. okay so this guy, let's call him A has liked me for pretty much 2 years. like he hooked up with other girls during that time and had like 2 girlfriends that each lasted for like a week, but in the end he stopped/broke up with them because he still liked me and it was bothering him. during almost 1 year of this time i had a boyfriend. i didn't have that much interest in A yet. but we became really good friends because he was good friends with my boyfriend, which he isn't anymore so i don't have to worry about that. anyways, i broke up with my boyfriend last summer. all this year, me and A became closer and closer friends. people like to say i led him on, but i was just flirting. and we used to talk to him on the phone a lot. i know i probably shouldn't have done that if i didn't truly like him but the thing was i did a little.. i just liked a few other guys also. that was the past though so we just try to forget about it. so basically now i actually do like him a lot. and he knows this. and he also still likes me. he was apparently going to ask me out.. he like wrote me a song and everything and burned it on a CD but then apparently i said something mean to him and he broke the CD. we're okay now though. we're like best friends now. we talk on the phone every single night, text eachother all day, etc. basically we really like each other. so anyways, a few days ago i hung out at his house by myself and we just watched tv and stuff. we didn't really do anything that sexual but i took his phone and so his hand was like under my shirt rubbing my stomach and legs and he was like whispering stuff in my ear, like he did this to try to get his phone back. and it like really turned me on. this has a purpose i promise.. ha. so then yesterday i went to his house again and i was really tired and just in pretty crappy mood. to make this short, we made out, he felt me up, etc. but i like wasn't into it at all. like i wasn't turned on at all. is this probably because i was tired and not in the mood to do stuff like this at all? because if i'm really not attracted to him then basically i'm just leading him on again by doing these things with him. so i want to know if those reasons could have been why i didn't like it as much as i thought i would.. because i honestly have wanted to hook up with him for like forever. thanks so much!
Well okay. When you are in a bad mood or not feeling well things that would turn you on dont turn you on because your either thinking about them or you just block it out. I think what you need to do to be sure about your feelings are try it again when you are prepared for it and feeling up to it. I think that you could possibly just of not been into i thtat night so my suggestion is try it again and see what happens. If your still not turned on then you probably arent feeling him. if you are it could turn into more
Its my b.fs birthday very soon! hes turning 20 and i dont need to know what to get him for his birthday, but what to do on his birthday, like date wise. Hes very sporty and loves baseball but theres no games going on in his birthday. I want to do something special and different. His parents are also gone on his birthday and he never gets a cake, so i was planning something with that. Thanks so much! anything and everything is appreciated. Guys i want ur answers too
A good thought is maybe bring him somewhere romantic. I mean you know a cruise or ferry ride can be very romantic. Or you could just make him dinner and then give him cake. Also you might want to look into dinner at a fancy resturant or a bubble bath and then cook or anything like that.
Good luck i hope it helped
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So im really worried about it hurting my first time. I just started using tampons and feel like im really tight and that my hymen is probablly really thick. Can anyone give me their personal stories about their first time and how it felt/if it hurt/if you bled.
Also what are some ways i can stretch/slowly break my hymen so it doesnt hurt. thanksssss
Well.. I was a virgin until i was 16 and it didnt really hurt at first. I was tight too, as is everyone. I think that a good idea is start off slowly. You know masterbate normal, maybe go from one finger to two. When you get with that person have them finger you with one and then when you are ready with two. Now its going to feel tight and you will probably have to guide it in and probably he may have to push a bit, but its only pressure you will feel not pain. and if it hurts you maybe consider using a lubrication. You may also want to just give it some time. Also you need to be relaxed. Maybe some sort of foreplay should be used before jumping into intercourse. I hope that this helped
hii im a f/17 and i have been dating this guy on and off for about three years. i love him very much, and we feel that we will be together through out college. The thing is all we have done is make out, because i originally believed in abstinence. But now i really feel ready. Before we have sex, we want to have oral sex. I need to know how to give a blow job. Is there any website i can go to and learn how? Nothing pornish, but a demonstration would be great. thanks.
Im f/18 im engaged to my fiance who i dated for 4 years previously. For the first time actually a few nights ago i gave him one. you want to use your hands first, then maybe ask him if he wants it. Then all you need to do is put up your hair(if its long) he may grab this later, put your mouth over it as if it was an icepop. then move up and down slowly at first. then maybe you might want to move your tounge up it as you pull your head back, maybe you want to go to the top when you need to breathe and flick your tounge on the top. As long as it feels natural, dont stay let him push you down for a long time only until you feel comfortable. and remember only do it because you love him not because hes pressuring you. i hope it helped.