HEYY im THE RACK !!
im 16F and livin it up in Rhode Island. I love to just kickback and relax. I think i'm pretty mature for my age and have a interesting view on life.
iv been on this site for years, but i just made this new column. so i've prolly given you advice before, i love giving my opinion, i love helping ppl with what they dont know, so feel free to ask!! =]
Location: Rhode Island
Age: 16
AIM: THEE RACKK
Member Since: January 3, 2010
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Can someone please tell me how to let a guy know you want to kiss? I don't just want to grab him and kiss him, that is what I want him to do to me! So how do I get him to know that I am ready for him to kiss me. Alot. :) (link)
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get really close to him, cuddle, or just lightly peck him and he will continue from there. dont be afraid to kiss first!
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Ok so whenever I am with my boyfriend my hands are all cold and clammy. Is there some way to fix this? Sometimes it happens while I am at work and the last thing you want is someone with cold sweaty hands bringing you your food, right?
Please help! (link)
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my hands are the same exact way !! haha just always freezing cold, with a touch of wet. or sometimes they manage to stay completely dry just still freezing. other times they are really hott, there is no normal. lol only thing i can say is live with it, or use lotion so at least your hands smell good too and you'll have an excuse to why they are wet.
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I've had a crush on my English teacher since the beginning of the school year. She's really attractive and smart. I've been flirting with her pretty much since I saw her and she finally started flirting back with me.
I was staying after class so she could tutor me some. I'll admit I was purposely failing things so that she'd request I stay after class for extra help. One thing led to another and the last few tutoring sessions kind of became make-out sessions. I pushed her to do it with my flirting though.
Last friday we actually had full-on sex. We didn't use a condom either so I'm slightly concerned about a possible pregnancy issue but I don't know how the hell to bring that up to her! It was the best sex of my life but I know it was wrong because she's my teacher. I want to be more than just her student or her sex buddy though and I'm not sure if I should pursue this into a relationship, remain sex partners, or let it die and try to forget about her (doubt that will happen).
For legal reasons I won't say my age or hers but there is quite a span between us. She, obviously, knows my age and I know hers. I keep getting erections in her class now and can't stop thinking about her. I am wondering if I should even try to quit school so that I can be with her but that just sounds absurd to me for some reason. I feel so confused about this whole situation now.
What do I do? (link)
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Well i suggest you end it, but if you are over 18 then theres really no problem, it will just effect your ability to focus.
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So, I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a 8 months now and we have been having sex for the past 4 months. One night I was playing around with him and called him, "Daddy." The next thing I know it was leading to sexual play and, of course, we ended up having sex. It really surprised me because he didn't tell me anything about wanting to be called Daddy. He never brought it up himself since then either.
I've called him Daddy a few more times since then to see his reaction and it really seems to get him going good. I know that I hear songs where girls are calling their man "Daddy" and "Papi" so I'm not freaked out by it anything. It's actually made me curious if this is really common or something!
He's a REALLY good guy and I don't have any reason to believe this is any more than some simple role playing. Should I talk to him more about this or leave it be? I mean, if it's a common interest for men then there's no reason why I should ask possibly-embarrassing questions, right?
Has anyone else encountered this or is "into" this sort of thing and can shed some light onto it? Is it an odd practice that we should discuss and let die off?
I want our relationship to be strong and fulfilling in all ways so I'm just wanting to know if this is something I should inquire more about, I suppose... (link)
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haha yeah i liked a guy who loved to be called Daddy.. some tell you they like it and others secretly want you to but dont say anything.. its all about a control thing, they feel more manly, and also when the girl says it she doesnt say it in some little kid way, its said in a sexy way, so its a turn on. If you know thats what gets him going then keep doing it, because its not strange or anything. =]
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17/f
My ex had given me a promise ring two years ago and I had just recently found it. It's gorgeous (he did have a lot of money) and I like to wear it alot. However, I have a new boyfriend and we've been going out for almost a year now. The ring has no sentimental value to me once so ever. I just think it's pretty. Is it wrong to wear it now that I have a new boyfriend?
Please give me your opinion. Thanks :D (link)
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lol who cares, just wear it! if its a pretty ring and that is your reason for wearing it then go ahead. just dont tell your boyfriend who gave it to you. =]
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so im 16 years old & live in MA, and i have a terrible sleeping dissorder and i can never go to sleep, pills dont help me. but when i smoke weed i have no problem falling asleep and staying asleep. i also have bad back pains. i was wondering if it was possible for me to get a medical marijuana card? (link)
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lol definitely not for sleeping.. medical marijuana is used for hiv/aids, cancer, multiple sclerosis, glaucoma, chrohns disease. And it is not allowed in Massachusetts.
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I am really interested in studying abroad but have no idea where I would want to go. I know places that would be good for business or architecture, but what about math? (I am a math major.) (link)
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Whereever you are from, pick a college that has the option of studying abroad, and they link you with other places or even that same college, because the school I want to go to has studying abroad and actual profesors from the school go with you and you all learn there. So look into colleges near you first.
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Im making my own graduation announcements because theres three of us graduating at once and to get us all individual announcements would be pretty costly. My only problem is im not sure what to put in them. What usually goes in announcements? (link)
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Well you definitely want to thank people at the end, such as professors, and family or friends.
Sum up what you have learned, not literally like "i learned about physics" but what you have learned overall or what you have gotten out of it and kind of relating it to life. get what i mean? Mention what school and/or whatever has done for your future. And possibly stick a good quote in there from so and so and continue with that. =]
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can someone tell me what college life in philadelphia is like?
is the city somewhat similar to new york city? as busy?
is there something like canal street in philadelphia? (link)
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" they both influence alot of areas around them, both have a good nightlife with a good bit of things open 24 hours, both have thriving city cores, good public trasportation, traffic problems, parking problems, good job field, and similar weather. The differences I heard are that Philly has more real rural type areas around it, slightly cheaper prices, less diversity, more crime per resident, better to have a family, center city is like a small manhattan but just not as good, philly is a nice city but not world class like New York "
Read more: http://www.city-data.com/forum/philadelphia/283667-truth-about-philadelphia-vs-new-york.html#ixzz0fGR3ThQ3
I was thinking about going to college in phili and seems fun, because if you are not the kind of person who wants everything as busy as new york but still busy, then phili seems like a good place.
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okay so i like this boy brian. i want to talk to him more without seeming clingy or annoying. i'm nervous to text him unless i've been drinking. i need some help! (link)
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Well if you get nervous to text him, have your friend take your phone and text him for you.. then you can get your phone back and continue conversating with him. Guys dont like drunk texting, so if its obvious your drunk then you probably shouldnt text him, you might say things you'll regret. As long as you dont text him every minute of every day and just play it cool, you wont seem clingy =]
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what are some cute things couples can do for valentines day? Me and my boyfriend have only been together for less than a month so we don't want it to be like expensive and all that.Just cute and casual and spontaneous.We're both 17 and I can drive.So any suggestions? thanks! (link)
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I think its cuter to rent some movies and watch them together snuggled up on the couch. Get some snacks and just relax. =]
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lately, i've been missing a LOT of school because every time i wake up for it im extremly sick to my stomach, like i'm going to throw up. i have a feeling that its either from anxiety or lack of sleep the night before, both which can make me sick. anyways i have school in a couple of days and im freaking out, i cant afford to miss anymore but im so afraid i'm gonna be too sick and freaked out to go. and no, i am not pregnant or any other kind of phsyically ill as far as i know.
my question is, does this happen to anyone else? and is there any way i can help it? sleeping pills dont usually help me so its pretty hard to get a good nights rest, and i dont know how to fight the anxiety even though im on Buspar for it.
anything will be reassuring, thanks.
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I pretty much have the same problem, i sit there at night thinking about how i have school then next day and everything I have to do. You need to just relax your mind. My doctor told me slow down my thinking, drink hot milk before I go to bed, and you can try Equate sleeping pills, you dont need a prescription, its like buying tylenol, and if you take like 2 or 3 it helps.. i know you said they usually dont help, but I tried a lot of things and that was like the one thing that made a difference, so its worth a shot. What would be better is the prescription ones, if you are 18 and over. Your diet can also affect your sleep patterns as well, so definitely dont have caffeine or snacks before bedtime and drink soda less in general. Tell me how everything goes. =]
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hi there
well my husband and i were talking and he happened to bring up the lack of romance in the marriage on his part. im not gonna lie, he isnt really the romantic type at all. not that it bothers me, ive become more accustomed to it that i dont even know what to do or even to tell him what to do when he asks how he could become better at it. he feels a bit insecure about it, i can tell by the way he talks about it. he says "no wonder you're so unhappy" and stuff like that. so when he asks me what he could do better i dont really know what to tell him.
my question is, well, how can he be more romantic?
without making him look whipped or anything cause if it does i believe he will have a problem with it, this im not sure but he brought it up jokingly. how does a man be romantic? what would a man do? (link)
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Flowers every now and then are nice especially when its not a holiday, if your the type of woman who likes flowers. Him cooking dinner occasionally, when you come home from work and finding that will be very cute. Massages are good too, and I think it is the little things that a guy does that make him more romantic. For example, bringing you out to this fancy restaurant and giving you expensive jewelry, and feeding you all these lines, may be very nice, but in my opinion its not as romantic as a nice home-cooked meal, a more thoughtful gift, and things like that.
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I don't know whats wrong with me but I can't feel it when i have orgasms. Or i'll barely feel it. I know i'm having them because sometimes i'll even squirt. My whole body shakes and then i just kind of relax.. but i dont feel anything. Is there anything i can do to make them feel better? (link)
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There are vibrating condoms.. =]
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Raven-Symone was on the Wendy Williams Show today and she said Wendy embarrased her on her radio show by asking her when she was 15 if she was a virgin in front of her parents. Does anybody know her answer? (link)
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the first person was kind of rude to you, i think this site is for any logical question you may have, wether it be opinions or facts.. I personally dont know the answer, sorry, but I thought you should know the first person was rude and feel free to ask what you want to know =]
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14/f
Lately, my life has been extremely boring. I really want to take up something to do with my time.
I am not at all into sports so that's out. (I used to do karate and I was good and got to black belt but I quit because I didn't want to do it anymore.)
And well, I like more of the artistic things like music, writing, and art.
Here are some of the things I'd consider doing: dance (break dancing/ hip hop), guitar classes or keyboards, writing class, or an art class. I'd even do gymnastics (for like learning to do backflips and stuff).
So how should I spend my free time? Which do you think is the most rewarding? Any other suggestions? (link)
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Do something involving your body, then also do something involving your mind. I like kickboxing, very fun and keeps you in shape! And you feel safe knowing you can kick someone's butt who tries to attack you. Gymnastics sounds very fun too, and much easier if you are short.
You can look up different things that you are interested in and then focus on one that you want to know more about. I like looking at different things involving astrology and have gotten books on it. Or Dreams, I like investigating and deconstructing my dreams. So pick something that you can do long-term research on.
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Last season on American Idol during Group Week, Adam sang Some Kind of Wonderful with Michael Sarver, Matt Breitzke, and Jesse Langseth. But my question is this: does anyone know what their group name was? Thanks. (link)
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I believe it was the Dreamers..
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Hey, i sorta have small boobs and I wanna know if there is any way i could make them larger with out gaining any weight in other places. Also, without getting surgery. :/
Thankss (link)
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look up beauti-full which is a pill for breast growth and it is way cheaper than surgery, it is said that in 3 months your cup size can increase 1-2 cup sizes and if you continue taking them they will increase, but they wont keep growing if you take them for years and years obviously. but look it up and see what you think.
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hello im 18/f im 5'6 and i weigh approx. 145 pounds. Im not fat but im not skinny. I want to get in shape and i recently just joined a gym and im going to be working out there a few times a week. I've tried looking for some simple, not super strict diets. I need to start eating healthy and not fast food all the time. But its hard not to because im constantly on the go. I've started drinking more water than soda. I know eat healthy foods etc. But is there a more specific diet i could follow? Any information about being/eating healthy and working out would be greatly appreciated.
I do rate!
-Ashley (link)
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i'm exactly the same size.. lol.. completely eliminate soda.. my cousin lost like 50 lbs in 6months by just eliminating soda, but they drank ALOT of soda. and Drink a lot of Green tea.. its increases your metabolism and you lose weight faster. i buy home workout videos, but i dont feel motivated just at a gym or by myself. so definitely get a workout partner.
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Hi!
I was wondering what currently the driving age was for people. I have heard so many different theories. I live in MA. I heard that at 16 you could drive, and at 15 1/2 you could got to drivers ed and earn a permit, but then just recently I heard that you couldn't even enter drivers ed until you were 15 nine and nine months. So, if you actually understand what I'm trying to explain, would you please tell me what the current policy for the age someone is eligible to enter into drivers ed, earn their permit, and are able to drive by themselves?
Thank you!
-Sky
14/f (link)
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go to drivers at 15 and 10 months, at 16 you get your permit and at 16.5 you get your license
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