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Hey...Im sabrina.
Im 18, I may be young, but i have been through many things i thought would never in a lifetime happen to me! I try to give the best advice i can, so feel free to ask me anything!
*Bri*

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my friend lies about everything she makes stuff up all the time and its starting to buyg me. its getting hard to just ignore it. like, if i tell her how i guy likes me, she has to tell me how some guy ive never heard of likes her. or she just lies to make herself seem more interesting. shes honestly the biggest liar ever.

what should i do? its getting hard to trust her..

Well Ive kinda had something like this happen to me recently...just on a bagger scale.
For me it was'nt that hard of a decision...but i had to let her go.
you just need to ask yourself how good of a friends she really is.
thats what i did and honestly she was'nt.
we still talk and are nice to each other...we just dont hang out.
and to be honest ive been so happy and drama free lately!
so you kinda just need to ask yourself is it worth staying friends when you feel like this all the time?
Hope i helped at least some.
keep me updated! :)

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My friend and her boyfriend had sex and I dont know if he came on the bed or not. A few days later she had a sleepover and I slept in her bed. Is there a chance I could be pregnant? My period is late and I'm kinda worried cause' I'm only 16.

Ok as soon as the cum, or sperm hits the air its dead...completely.
you are perfectly safe lol
nothing to worry about :)

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Thanks for your advice! It helped but the thing is today i found out he is already "talking" to another girl that he has liked for a while. :(. O well, i hope i get the next one.

Im sorry :(
but hey theres goa be another amazing guy to come sweep you off your feet lol
:)

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17/f
I met this guy at a party i went to friday night and i thought he was pretty cute. I told my friend that and she told him. He said i was pretty but he also liked someone else at the moment. Yesterday, one of my friends asked him why he didn't talk to me and he said he didn't want to talk about it. Today, i told a different friend to tell him that i thought he was cute but i didn't know if i liked him or not because i didn't really know him. He just said "okay." He never talks to me and i really want to get to know him. I don't know him because i have only met him briefly at the party and it was really quick and i thought he was cute. Well i don't know what to do now because i can't just go up to him and start talking because i don't know if him and i have no clue what i would say. I want him to come to me first but he won't. I am trying to get stuff started between us because i really think i would like him. Two guys this year that i thought were cute, i told them and they don't react which puts me in a bad position because i don't know where to go from there and it's really awkward. Should i not tell the guys i think are cute that they are cute anymore and get to know them before i tell them or what? please help! Also, what do i do about this guy? Going up to him and talking to him would be extremely weird or writing a note because i don't know him and it would be awkward but he's not doing anything either. Does this mean he might not like me? Help with all my questions please.

Ha i know this situation all too well.
But thats just how most guys are in high school.
I think you should kinda get to know them more...just talk to them a little more.
umm na dont write him a note, but if you see him at another party, or just see him sometime say hi...and maybe stop for a second and ask how his day is going or something small like that but dont seem clingy, and maybe that'll get him thinking about you more...
hope i helped even a little.
keep me posted!!!!!! :)

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well im 13,female,i just lost my virginity..i just wanted to kno the kinds of changes will happen to my body.?

You wont have any changes really...
you might change emotionally..like the way you think about sex now, but your body should be fine :)
just be safe!

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im 17 years old and pregnant. i just moved 900 miles away from my boyfriend and he came to visit me over the summer and thats when it happened. my mom doesnt want me to get an abortion because she doesnt believe in it. and my boyfriend and i know that were not ready to supply for a kid. so, my only option here would be adoption right? the thing is... i cant even imagene doing that. has anyone else been in my position? i mean i know i have to do whats best for me and the baby but giving up someone like that just seems impossible

I have had so many friends go through this.
And your going to need a strong supprt system.
But ultimately the desicion is yours.
have you talked to your boyfriend about what he would like?
I think the hardest thing to do would to carry someone inside you for 9 months and let it go...
but dont let someone pressure you into making a desicion you dont want.
From my experience, all of my friends have kept the baby despite what thier parents said...and now they could'nt imagine their life without their baby. And there are so many people helping them out finacially and in every way.
hope this helped a little...
Keep me posted!!! :)

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First of all, i'm 18 years old (female). I haven't had a serious boyfriend in over 2 years. that's not the problem. anyways, i have dated a lot of guys. usually, girls like guys who open the door for them, compliment them, call them baby and stuff like that, and want guys who won't just use them for sex. ok, i hate all that. i hate talking on the phone with guys and i hate when guys will do anything for you. it seems like i would rather have sex with a guy that will use me instead of dating a nice guy. whats wrong with me??

Alright..i pretty much know exactly what your going through. Im almost 18 myself and find myself thinking the same way.
Theres just so few "good guys" out there and the bad boys are so prominent these days that it just feels natural to settle for one.
but my advice, and from experience, dont settle!
It starts out so fun, but then it just leaves you feeling empty...and wanting more.
Even thought you might not be attracted to them at first, try dating someone outside your style, like a good guy and see where that takes you.
:)

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