Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Occupation: Student
Age: 19
Member Since: September 18, 2004
Answers: 66
Last Update: July 22, 2010
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So my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time last night. i've heard that girls are supposed to bleed the first time...i mean, it hurt, and he was in all the way, but i didn't bleed. is it normal for some girls not to bleed? or like, next time we do it, will i bleed? just curious.
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I bled the first 3-4 times. I also think the horseback riding thing is a myth because before I was an avid horseback rider for 10 years before I lost my virginity lol.
It just depends on how you are built in there and your hymen etc.
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So When I"m doing anything with guys my vagina gets soo wet (ew) is there anyways i can not get that wet and do guys find that grosss ?
HEEELP PLEASE (: ? (link)
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Guys looooooove it! end of story lol
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i'm 17, please don't ramble on about if you think i'm too young for sex...i've been with my guy for over a year and i have that amazing connection with him. i feel like i'm ready to have sex with him but i always get doubts...i think i'm always going to get doubts though until i actually do it and get the "first time/painful" thing out of the way. the doubts have absolutely nothing to do with him or not trusting him...it takes me a lonngg time for me to even be close to trusting someone but he has my life in his hands and i know hes loyal. so are these doubts about like it hurting and pregnancy normal? i'm just scared i guess...i get ridiculously wet though so i should be okay right? (link)
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To put it bluntly my first time did hurt really bad. BUT, I would not have changed it for the world because it was with someone I truly trust and love and the emotional connection and act of giving that piece of me to him way overpowered the pain. I guess you just have to make sure that he is the right person.
Advice: Use a condom and even if you do get really wet I would still slather him with lube, I mean, why not? lol
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ok so we did exactly as the package said, fully erect, place on top, pinch top and roll down... we start rolling down and it gets all tangled and doesnt go on propperly it just sit in a bunched up mess half way down. when we do get one that gos on propperly it's fine, its a good fit. we'v only used "mates natural" condoms though. would a brand change help? or am i.. too wide? so to speak. (link)
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My boyfriend and I use Ones condoms. We've used trojans and a couple other brands and ones seem to work best for us. I would also try putting a very small amount of lube on your penis before you put the condom on and then have a little bit of lube on your hand while you roll it down, it seems to help it go on more smoothly.
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So October 12 is going to be the one month anniversary for me and my boyfriend :) I'm excited, but I was wondering if anyone could give me some ideas as to what I should give or make him to celebrate? Any ideas for how to spend the day together, like what to do?
We live next door which means we get to see each other a fair amount of time, so we haven't exactly been on an official "date" because we just hang out at each other's houses. But I'd like to do something a little special. Thanks! (link)
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I personally would not buy him anything. If you have not really been on a real date why don't you go to dinner and a movie or bowling or a zoo/aquarium. Try not to celebrate the little anniversaries because it makes the bigger ones a little less of a big deal. I celebrated my 6 month anniversary with my boyfriend but from now on will probably just celebrate on each year to keep it really special.
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Hoookay....so I've met this guy online (this was almost a year ago) and we've decided we are going to meet eachother in person for the first time...(We're meeting in a VERY public place, and I'll have someone with me and such) However, I think it's possible that I might really, really like this guy! I know I won't know for sure until I actually meet him, I'm still scared...though he's seen my picture and told me that I'm pretty, I'm still not entirely confident about my looks (Particularly my teeth...) and I'm worried about saying or doing the wrong things, yadda' yadda'...so I guess what I'm asking is for advice from anyone who has met someone online and then in person...thoughts? Suggestions? (link)
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I met my boyfriend online and we have been together for 8 months and are very very happy! I talked to him for 2 months before I met him in person. I would definitely say just be yourself and relax, it's supposed to be fun! Since you have been talking to him for a year you already know you get along and your personalities match so the very worst thing that could happen is that there is no romantic chemistry and you made a very good friend! Good luck, I am sure it will work out great!
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