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heyy, im Rachel and im 15 w/ blonde hair & blue eyes. im a sophmore at RMHS [soon to be junior!].
i LOVE meeting new people & helping people w/ problems, so ask away!!



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advice

What do i do if i find you extremely attractive? and i want to go out with you?

me?
wow. umm...thanks, i'm just not ready for another bf for a while though...=\ i'll talk to you more about this..whoever you are, in private

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hey!well to start ive never really been very outgoing. theres this girl who ive known for a few years and i like her and know her pretty well.shes nice and fun to be around and we have a lot in common, but im not sure if she really likes me the way i do her. im a little shy to ask her out because im afraid she might say no. can you give me some advice? Please Help!

hey! well first off, ya gotta take it slow =) you dont want to rush into things too fast, because later on you might realize that it was a bit too fast, and you wish you had gone a little slower. but i think that by knowing her for about 2 years and liking her, thats cool!! i think you should wait just a little bit, flirt a little and see if she flirts back. and then, when ur sure that you want to start a relationship with her, and when ur sure that you're ready, go for it!! and if she says she doesnt like you like that, then keep it as good friends!
hope i helped, good luck =)
rachel

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K i'm very close to my best friend. Well today she asked me to go to prom with her..so i told her i would tell her later so i could get to class. Then later that day my crush Denise from 9th grade she also asked me to prom so i told her the same thing. I need advice which 1 should i go to prom with...my best friend Maydel or my crush Denise?

hey! hmm...wow....thats a reallyyyy hard decision, and one that i cant make for you =\
i mean if i were in your position, i would go with the crush, because don't you think it would be somewhat aqward for you to go with your best friend? but thats a decision i cant make for you...but you could tell them that you want to think for a while, or...another option is that if you choose one over the other, tell the other person that ur not going with that you will dance with them, to make them feel better. and if you choose not to go with either one, then you can dance with both! but yeah this is a toughy!
hope i helped!! =D lyl, rachel

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this is aways a problem for me to ask i guy out or wait for him to ask. last year i liked this boy but i thought he should ask me cause it was a boy thing. then in the summer when i was going to 7th grade in one school and he was going to another he told my friend if i had asked he would have said yes. so this year i liked this boy and i asked him out he said no i think i should have gotten to know him better. so what do i do the next time i like someone ask or don't ask?
sorry 4 being so long

hey! well i think you should get to know him better and just stay friends for a little while, and then as you guys move on a bit, flirt a little and then make sure you really like him..and then go for it =)

hope i helped! good luck =D

my aim is RachBayb08 if you want to talk sometime. later

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okay most of my friends think i should break up wit my boyfriend causwe we neva talk or c each other.he dosent even go to da same school.well i still lyk him but i no i need to break up wit him.but the thing is he might come to our school but hes not sure yet.the wierd thing is that i want him to come to our school but i wanna break up wit him.lyk i dont wanna be wit him cause he treats me badly but i want him to come to our school.i guess so if we break up dat mabe later we could go out again.but i also feel really bad cause dis guys lyks me and i kinda lyk him cause he always flirts wit me but den my friend told me dat my boyfriends friend lykes me and she wants me to go wit him but i dont lyk him and i dont no him very well.im so confussed,i dont no wat to do ?

hey! well first of all...i think that if you think you need to break up with him, do it..and then later on, maybe you guys can go out again when/if he comes to your school. if he treats you bad...thats not a good bf that you would want..so thats a reason to break up with him, and the guy who likes you..i think that you should get to know him better and wait a little while to go out with him because if your bf (who might be ur ex) finds out you broke up with him and are going out with another guy..thats gonna be dramatic. so...if you really feel you want to break up with him, then do so..and wait a while to go out with that other guy...and then for the guy who you dont like..be his friend, and get to know him..and maybe if u guys like each other later on..there could be a chance for you guys to go out...hope i helped! (i think i know who this is..not sure but i might)

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hey rach, yeah...i really like this girl, and ive been like walking her to her classes and home and stuff, and i really like her, but i dunno if she likes me, cuz iam kinda the only one that really talks to her, cuz all her old friends diched her, and i really really like her, but i have a lot of problems...and i think that if she gets closer to me, she'll find out everything and not want to be my friend, or anything else, what should i do?

hey! well i think that if she cant understand that you have problems and stuff...then she's not the right one for you. and if she understands you, then thats good!!! because then she can comfort you and talk to you about things...and then if she has problems of her own, then you can help her with hers..and comfort her. and like i said..if she doesnt understand that u have problems then maybe shes not the right one for you. hope i helped!!

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What's better... a lie that draws a smile or the truth that draws a tear? i was just wondereing cause i really dont no da answer.

both hurt when it comes to reality and it hits you in the face... but..im thinkin...truth that draws a tear, because even though its gonna hurt really bad...and would make you cry, the truth is always better because then in the long run..with a lie...it hurts more because ur believing something that isnt true...and if u find out the truth, you know whats right...and even though it might hurt, there isnt a lie behind the whole thing

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I've got a friend and I haven't known her very long at all. She's been there for me so many times that I can't help but want to return the favor to her. She's such a great person... yet she has some problems and I kinda forced them out of her. I kinda feel bad for doing it... but I really care about her and I knew something wasnt right. She's under the impressions that because she vented to me our friendship is ruined or something. Yet, I dont feel that way at all. I see it as our friendship is just getting closer. (Did I mention she's a bit stubborn?) What can I do to help my friend see it my way and do you think what I did was right?

Thanks In Advance
(Might want to think about it before you answer hun... if I wasn't obvious enough.)

i know this is about you and i charlie...so....before i start...."(Did I mention she's a bit stubborn?)" --->true true. anyway, im really glad that our relationship got closer, and im not mad that u forced it out of me...im thankfull...very. because i had been keeping things in for so long that i just couldnt take things ne more, and i think that if u hadnt done that..i dont know where i'd be right now...and im so glad that we've become closer because of that ((apparently)) and...its alright. i thank you so much...because i vented stuff out, and that helped a lot..because since i had been keeping things in and bottling it up, i was so stressed. i dont know, i cant explain how much that helped me..it made my night. last night i was able to sleep for the first time in about a year, knowing that i had finally got some of my thoughts/problems out. so..it wasnt a bad thing at all. thanks so much charlie...

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Hey, I need, some help, all the time i get this achy feeling, i never have any thing to do. it seems like all my friends are slipping away from me. My mom is all stressed out, and i can't get anyone to listen to me. My ; classes used to be easy, but now they are hard. I'm sooo confused, please, what should i do?!?!

Life is tough..and i have to say that straight out. because from my experiences, life sucks sometimes! i've been through a lot of this stuff..and sometimes you just need to vent. find something that works for you to vent when your angry. like...scream into a pillow (i do that sometimes), listen to music, go outside and take a walk (i do that too), or...maybe u just need someone to talk to. find a friend that you really trust and can talk to that person about things. it helps just letting out everything and telling someone, because otherwise..if its just built up inside, then thats a stresser!!! well i hope i helped, good luck! :) my aim is RachBayb08
*~*rachel*~*

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Ok.

I really liked this guy*i mean REALLY liked* i told my friend...but the night that i told her i found out he liked her...and then the next day i found out she likes him! so now their going out! i feel betrayed...i mean...i cant help it...she PROMISED she wouldnt hurt me. i dont want to sound selfish!

hey! well your "friend" doesn't seem like a very good friend :-\ i think you should just let things go with ur friendship between you and her and i know its hard because the same thing happened to me...so i know VERY MUCH how you feel and i am sooooo sorry :-\. but life is tough..and i think for now, just stop being her friend for a while til she comes around and realizes what she's done. and until that time..move on to someone who's worth it :)
hope i helped, you can email me sometime or IM me.
email- re.dewoody@verizon.net
aim- RachBayb08
honeybuns530
much

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ok, so heres how it goes:

i have been friends with 'jenna' for 4 years. i am not really sure if i like her any more. i dont want to be mean to her because she is very sensitive and nice. i really DONT like her :( thank you very much...

Rebekah

hey! well why don't you like her?
...thats all i can say for now because i don't know why u don't like her, but if you get back to me on that...then i'll answer :)
*~*rachel*~*

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ok i really like this guy his a year older then me and i think he's really hot, i don't really know him that much and im to shy to go up to him and start a convo. What should i do write a note, what???

confused

hey! yeah go for it and write him a letter :) then when u feel comfortable enough, u guys can talk and have a convo. get to know him and be good friends and then if he likes you back, GO OUT WITH HIM!! lol :-D
hope i helped, good luck
much

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I Like this girl name Brittany and im not sure iff she likes me because she mite be dating my friand. But I never liked any one before so i kno she must be the one! what should I do?

hey! ask ur friend if she's going out with him. and then if he says yes that they r currently dating, or going to, then maybe being just friends for now is good!! just keep talking to her and make really good convos with her and just be awesome friends :) now if shes single..and she likes you, then go for it! but yeah just keep talking to her either way, and sometimes its better just as really good friends..because then u cant mess up ne thing if u guys were to go out. good luck! hope i helped, you can IM me if you want to chat or talk more about advice. --RachBayb08 or honeybuns530
much

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im kinda shy not as bad as i used to be but id like to be more outgoing with people i dont know! i don like anyone rite now but i still wanna b more outgoing incase i start to like someone. well anyway i wanna kno if anyone has any like tips for becoming more outgoing. thnx

hey! yeah i used to be the same way. i was really shy, and then i just started hanging around some of my friends' friends and then we started talking..and i just learned to be myself around other people and more outgoing...that might work for you!! i hope so :-D hope i helped, you can IM me if you want..RachBayb08 or honeybuns530
much

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ok, i just transferd to a new school, but in the same town, because im a lil behind on my highschool credits, well i really like this girl, shes my age, and uuuuuunbelievably gorgeous!! not to mention funny and pretty dang smart.well, i flirt with her and she will flirt with me back, not to mention even when i dont see her coming she will walk up to me in the hall and like playfully nudge me and keep walking and just grin. but then again, she doesnt give me a whole bunch of attention in class, so my question to everyone is, what in the world do i do now? should i go for it, or just leave it be?

hey! ....girls flirt a lot lol but it sounds to me like she likes you...maybe in class she just doesn't want to make it so obvious infront of her friends (or who ever's in her class) that she likes you...but yeah i think you should just keep flirting and maybe after a while, or whenever you're comfortable, go for it and ask her out! hope i helped,
~*rachel*~

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One of my guy friends embarresed me a lot by accident . He made something different sound like i think about sex 24/7 . What should i do when pple ask me about it / tease me ?
Thanks ...

hey! i think you should just ignore them when they tease you if you really know that you don't think about sex 24/7--when they ask you, say that u dont think about sex that much and that ur friend made it into something different and was just joking around. hope i helped! you can IM me sometime if you want..RachBayb08 or honeybuns530
much

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I'm 13/f, and I've been really sad lately. I'm in 8th grade, and for a while I had a lot of excitement in my life; I had my bat mitzvah during the summer, and I've been feeling that my life has been dull. I had been sad about my friends and guys, sad in general, especially at night. One night, I got so sad I cut myself...
I'm feeling depressed and I don't know what to do:(
-what do i do?-
*depressed

hey! u really shouldnt cut...it doesn't help at all!! trust me...but yeah if u want to talk more about this, u can IM me because i think it would be better talking one on one...so just IM me
*RachBayb08*--is my sn
much

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yeah.. i was just wondering how are you going to have an adivce page when you suck at life.. and please dont delete this.. i reallly wanna know.. cause you have absolutly no friends.. and why would people ask you for advice?
thanks so much hun,
Stacie/MD/13

i have no friends?....what r u talking about?
--and also..i love to help people because knowing that i have some of my own problems, i like to help others...
and how do i suck at life?

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hey i've heard this before but im not sure what it means. GIVING HEAD? please help because some ppl talk about it all the time and im ont sure what it means. thanks.

hey! "giving head" means to give a guy a blow job...which means that u suck his dick..yeah
hoped i helped, you can IM me sometime...RachBayb08
much

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hey this guy i dont really like asked me out and i said yes cause i feel bad and ive gone out w/ him before.. i cant say i dont like him cause thats kinda mean.. so i dont know what i should do.. ur probally gonna say i should be honest w/ him and tell him the truth but i cant
help

hey! well i think that you should just tell him you want to be friends. and then you guys can be friends without having to go out...hope i helped! u can IM me if you want..and if i know u then u can IM me ne way!! lol---RachBayb08
much

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