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when i was like 1 year old i had this friend and he was like my best freind ever. well we moved and i never saw him. i am 14 now (girl) and i get to see him soon. I really want to make a good impression...so what do i do?

yu should just act like yurself! i mean yeh yu could put sum makeup on and wear yur best outfit but yu should let him know who yu really are... and if he doesn`t like yu- that`s his loss.. good luck!!

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Ashley,
my friend ashley lives in MA but I live in Sarasota Florida?????? Can u guess who i am? Should i come bak to MA soon? i am really confused??(lol)

O ya, and my brother is taller than me...( hint hint)

lol hello.. mike? i know yu just miss me soo much! cuz i`m just so cool! lol juss kidding!!! hope yur havin fun in florida!!! talk to me online sometime!!!

p.s. i`m not conceited! i was just joking!

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dear ashley,
i ma having lots of troubel with this boy that i like!. we both like eachother alot but the only problem is that two of mi other friends like him as well.....so hw said he wanted to ask me out to another friend but he said that there is only one problem we live to far away.....but then he said he wood ask me out in 5 months cause that is wen he can get his license. but if my parents ever found out that we were going out they wood FLIP OUT!!!! and then also if i go out w/ him mi friends wood hate me too!!!

WAT DO I DO!?!?!?!?!

alright.. this has happened to soo many people before, including me.. and it`s really hard to deal with! but the first thing yu have to do, is talk it out with yur friends.. yu don`t want them to get mad at yu or anything but yu need them to know whats going on and how yu feel for this kid... THEN.. yu have to talk the kid yu like and tell him that yu really like him but yu don`t want to hurt yur friends in any way.. that way he`ll know what yur going through.. and to deal with yur parents.. just don`t tell them!! tell them that he is a really good friend of yurs.. then once they get comfortable with him and think he`s a good kid, drop the bomb and tell them wuts really going on.. don`t tell themy u lied about it.. just say that he asked yu out! hope that helps a little.. good luck!

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Hi, I am 10 yrs old, going on to 11 later this year and I weigh over 110 ponds!!! I think that I am fine with that but my dad, mom, sis and bro say that I am fat. How do I deal?

hey.. no offense to yu but many people have been asking me about their weight.. and every time i read their letters, i realize that there is NOTHING wrong with what they weigh!! that weight can easily be taken off by just running around or sumthing! but to deal with the family, just ignore them!! no one has the right to make you feel self concious and/or fat! especially when you aren`t! so next time they call yu fat just remember that it`s your body to make fun of.. not theirs and that what they are saying shouldn`t affect how you feel about yurself! hope that helped!

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I really like someone, but they're just a friend. Should I tell them or just stay friends until I find out that they like me?

well.... why don`t yu do a mix of both of these things! if i were yu... i would just be myself but hang out with this person more and more and show her/him that yur a really cool person! give her/him little hints that yu like them! (such as flirting!!!) and then once yu think that they like yu as more then a friend, tell them how yu really feel..

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need help
person i like is best friend
don't know wat 2 do

oo.. i know just what this feels like.. yu really want this person to like yu back but on the other hand.. yu don`t want it to damage an awesome friendship.. but if i were yu, i`d probably hang out with this "best friend" and just show her how awesome you are until yu finally know she likes yu back.. once yu think she likes yu, tell her how yu feel! say something like.. hey ____ i think yu are an awesome person and i don`t want this to hurt an awesome friendship but i wanted yu to know the truth... blahdy blah..

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hey, im going into a new sports team, but feel nervous that i won't be as good or even good enough as everyone else. what should i do?
~intimidated

hey! i know EXACTLY how you feel.. this is happening to me as we speak! but all we can both really do.. is try our bests, be ourselves, and have fun!! if we show everyone how into the sport we are and how much fun we have while doing it, they`ll start to thin that we are better at what we`re doing..

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hello askingashley,
my best friend and i have been friends since we were about 6. we've done everything together and i used to be comfortable telling her everything.she betrayed me once and i lost trust in her.im starting to get it back, but we never really talk anymore and i feel like now shes just a regular friend. what do i do to get my best friend back?
:o(lost friend

ooo... i know just how that feels... but lately, i have been getting mii friend back... and in order to do so... i just talked to her and hung out with her more and more! if she didn`t call me, i`d call her.. if she didn`t IM me, i`d IM her... it`s just those simple things that she wouldn`t do that i would do instead... these tiny things just made our relationship stronger until we finally had full trust in each other again.. hope that helps ;o)

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heyy, i need help. what would you do if an incorrect rumor was spread around about you and everyone treated you differently?
- - rumors

well... it all depends on what the rumor is.. but to deal with any rumor in general, i personally would tell someone the truth... i`d tell a bunch of people over and over again until they finally understood that what they thought was true, really wasn`t... sorry i can`t help yu anymore.. if yu need more advice then please tell me what the problem is and then sign again..

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im 11 and i way 120 puonds. its really hard for me to keep up a normal body wait especially in the summer. all my friends are skinny and ive been really self concious lately. is there any way that i can loose15 or 25 pounds by september??
thanx

hello there... first of all, i want to tell yu that there is absolutly nothing wrong with that weight! and secondly, you should never feel self concious just because someone is thinner then you!! you should always be you and never care what anyone thinks! but to answer yur question - there are quite a few things that yu could do to loose weight. just start by taking a simple run everyday!! or work out a little here and there! or yu could always dance or do a sport or sumthing! and swimming is always really good for yu and yur weight... so don`t worry about what anyones saying... and i hope i helped =o)

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how do you know all of this?

i`m just smart =o) just kidding... i don`t really know for sure but all i can do is give someone my advice and hope that it helps..

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if u have any ideas on how 2 helop me lose weight please help im agr 10 turnin 11 on sept 12 weight 120 can anyone give me like workout ideas and stuff


thanks jess

hey there!! there are soo many things that a kid can do to lose weight... you can run, dance, do a sport, practically anything that makes your body do physical work.. and also, there is nothing wrong with your weight so don`t worry! i hope that helped a little!

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Does a clean room improve your health?

this may sound a bit odd but a clean room can only improve your health by getting rid of unwanted germs, dust, etc.

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