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F/16
One of my guy friends REALLY likes me. I know this because he talked to my best friend about it. Anyway, he really likes me, but he seems obsessed and i don't know if i REALLY like him like that, and we have kinda been flirting. How can I tell if i really like him like that and if i should let this continue or not?

if your not comfortable, then heckkkkk no. never let a guys liking for you take over your thoughts about him or your comfort zone. a boy i became best freinds with last year told my best freind at the time that he wants me and wants to have sex with me and all, and i wasnt comfortable with that so i started giving him signs that i was pissed off that he liked me like that and said those things, so i ignored him, and when he talked to me id give him alittle additude, my friend later told him that i was made that he said he wanted to have sex with me and that he liked me. so maybe you could do something like that.

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I'm 13 and i'm a girl. i like this one boy in my grade. Everyone thinks that he is, well, weird because he has big ears. My friends think the same and i don't know if i should tell them i like him or not. I think he's really sweet because he's always nice to me and to none of the other girls. some of my friends even think that he likes me. Should i tell him and my friends that i like him or should i keep it to myself?

well...i dont think its right to judge someone on ears. my ears are big, well im not like ugly, but he doesnt really seem ugly. but like i would get a little defensive when they make fun of him, tell them that hes sweet and that he never did anything to them. and not to make fun of him. they will probably get the hint. but if they continue, it means they are basically not listening to you. so then i think it would be good to tell them that you sorta have a crush on him. a good time would be like at a sleep over or when your all hanging out.

don't bring it up randomly like 'OMG I LIKE...', maybe when they are talking about guys they like or embarrising times when they liked someone, well embarrising. you can say you liked _______, and if they ask when, say 'i do ... now'.

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I'm a 14 year old female and I've been dating a boy for about 4 months now. And I really like him. But my best friend in the whole world whoes like a sister to me keeps hitting on him and flirting with him in front of my face. I really want to keep my realtionship with this boy but cant if my best friend is going to be doing this. So what do I do?

There are a few things id need to know first. does he flirt back? have you confronted him? her? and do you think shes hitting on him intentionally, or is she just being friendly.
but id deffinitly confront her, like ask her like

"heyy, are you flirting with him" and if she denies *which most likley she will* tell her something like "why are you being overly freindly to him. i mean hes my boyfriend and your my best friend and all."

and then you can talk to your BF about it too. i mean if you cant talk to him or your bestfreind about anything, than what would the point of having one. you know.

and then take it from there
dont yell at your friend or call her any names or anything. because that will just make it worse. trust mee. its happened to me before.

good luck.

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there is a guy at school im friends with. we hang out alot. but ive only been friends with him a few weeks. i like him alot but dont know how to let him know. i dont want to be too straightforward. i dont want to go into the "friend zone" sometimes he asks like he likes me. but im not sure. i really dont want to just go and tell him that i like him. what should i do?

there are probably 3 ways you can find out
a. you could hang out with him and one or 2 of your other freinds, and then during the 'hanging out thingyy' your freind could ask him like 'do you like her, you seem like you really do'.

b. you can find a few signs, he will flirt with you in public and alone. sometimes if someone doesnt really like you that way they will only flirt with you public because they think its only playful fun. or friendly. and if he touches you anywhere like on the hand or hair or face, not by accident but just like, randomly.

c. and finally, you may not want to, but it would be good to ask. if your freinds with him he may understand. just exagerate it. say like "these girls, they told me you like me, and i wanted to know is that a rumor, or the truth."

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my bff said she hated my boyfriend and called him a pig, and that he should basically commit suicide. I told her to stop but she wont, and then at his party, i saw her get on him and start kissing him. I confronted her and she said 'i told you he was a pig'. he said that she just got on him and he couldnt get her off. so i'm kind of split down the middle. why would she kiss someone that she hated? and if she was proving a point, why the he11 would she kiss him, because thats basically making him cheat? and i mean, she was on him, its not like he got on her. what should i do???

well my opinion, is she liked him, and wanted you to break things off with him so she could get him, but since you wouldnt, she would make you believe he cheated. i don't think he had anything to do with it. I just think she probably liked him. ask him if he thinks she likes him, (even when she was being mean to him) and then ask her. if she lies she wont look you in the eye and she will get alittle agressive in her answer and it will come alittle as an additude, and she will figet or twirl her hair or move around alot.
and then ask him if he kissed her/enjoyed the kiss, and basically he wont look you in the eye, or he will get aggressive too, or he might lean back and move his neck alittle. (sign of stress)

hope it helped...

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i am having a party this saturday and my ex (whom i am in love with lol) is going to be there. and i was just looking for some tips on what i can do to make him want me back. i really care about him and i really want to get him back and i know he cares about me but i really want to try to get him back.
15/f

during a song with some of your freinds with you, go towards him and start dancing, not necessarily like 'on him' or noticable, but dance near him that he'll probably be like 'dannnggggggg'. and then if you feel he's watching you, start dancing alittle closer to him and maybe, just maybe, he will make some sorta move.

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i am a fifteen year old female. the boy i have been making out with recently wants to step up our relationship. he wants to finger me which i am totally ready for and excited for. the only concern is that i have a lot of pubic hair, so i wonder if he will be grossed out. should i shave it for him? Thanks.

i wouldnt use a razor because razors cause pumps, but you should use maybe nair or something that will get it off, other than shaving, since it will create stubble and bumps.

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i'm a 14 year old girl. in october, i went out with this boy for 2 weeks & then he broke up with me. we didn't talk for a while, but then we became sort of friends again. well; lately he has been calling me & we've been talking A LOT.

he keeps asking me if i'll have sex with him (not right now, but in the future), i just keep telling me "maybe". well now it seems that all he wants to talk about is sexual things. like, eating me out or me giving him a blow job.

i don't know what to do! i haven't really done anything with him..just made out & he's felt me up. that's all!

p.s. he's always telling me that he loves me, and that i'm beautiful. sometimes, he's so sincere & sweet, but sometimes i think he's bullshitting me.

help!

honestly? i think he is just using you for his own 'needs.' i mean he broke up with you, probably because you wouldn't do anything sexual with him, so now he thinks that your a little older, that you will do it. but i dont think you should do anything like that with him. he seems like a pig. no offense, but he does.

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