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so the last couple of days i have felt really sad and i dnt understadn why, i think it may have something to do with, something that i honestly shouldnnt care about, and its her life so.... anyways so my bestfriend basically fell in love with this guy for like a year straight she basically obsessed over him the ywent out for like a month but didnt do anything they looked like they were just friends i mean i have a relationship better with my friends the nthey did going out you couldnt even tell they liked eachother.....so she broke up with him, after a while she forgot about him but that was after a year and a half, and she moved on you know everything was good the entire summer last couple months of school first couple months of school this year and now she tells me she lieks him again!!!!!! and it makes me mad because i watched for a straigh year get hurt and it hurt me to watch this happen i love her to death she is my bestfriend and i just cant stand to be around and watch her do this to her self again. she doesnt understan where im coming from when i tell her to, and thing is ive talked to her baout it before so i need other advise instead of tell her how you feel.........she even wrote down things she wanted in a boy and none of those are him even she knows it cause she has said it to me before. pleaseeeee help me (link)
Well you cant do much some people just need to see how things go and wont take your word for it. She is just going to have to find out the hard way all you can do is try to talk to her and reason with her.


if you watch the show 7th Heaven, does anyone know the color of Mary's hair? in this picture:


http://www.imdb.com/gallery/granitz/5215/BeverlyMit_Cohen_10431901_400.jpg.html?path=pgallery&path_key=Mitchell%2C%20Beverley&seq=55


&& ALSO okay does anyone kno any curling iron that can get me curls like that? any particular curler? and do you use hair spray to keep it in? like without the curls coming out after you had it in for only 45 minutes. well thankks in advance! :D (link)
Dont wash your hair for a day.. it helps hold the curls better but just use a wide curling iron and hairspray


There's this guy who i met in my freshie year and we worked on a play together. Well over the summer we saw eachother at a store and he made a few complements that were very sweet. Well now i have a crush on him and he's acting increasingly friendly: He came up to me in the hall and gave me a huge thumbs up just cuz he saw me and whenever we pass by eachother he does a little thumbs up or points at me, even when noone beside me and him are in the hall. Now we are in a new play together and he threw his arm around me and he gave me this whole " eyebrow" thing when we were sitting down. But sometimes he is friendly, though he doesn't do the same things he does for me, with other girls he knows. Is he just being friendly or is it possible he could just like me a tiny bit as something else?
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It sounds like he's just being friendly.. but just look for other things that would make you think he has a thing for you like eye contact and stuff like that


I would Love to be a chorister, I am a girl of 14 years and i live in Kent, do you have any where i could join!!! (link)
Your school probably has something to join like that ask a teacher.


where did this trend originate: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v313/gutefee/image_25179_071004043416.jpg

and is there a name for these shirts? like big text logo tees or w/e? (link)
Ya.. they are called logo tees..



what do you call this type of necklace:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v313/gutefee/imgcfm.jpg

like the rose part? it looks like its made out of something special. i am wondering if theres a name for those kinds of..porcelain or w/e? because i saw a tea cup set made like that and it was gorgeous. i dont know how to explain. does anyone know what im talking about? (link)
its porcelain


Okay well there is thins boy that I REALLY like and he Really likes me but the problem is that he thinks he is so cool and Hott and when he goes to give someone a high five or give a girl a hug than they don't even see him and walk right away. Then he gives me an attude and is very rude to me and I really don't like this and I think im in love with him and I know for a fact that he Likes me so what do I do he is not acting like himself and I miss the old him...:[ (link)
Talk to him about it tell him how you feel and if he still acts this way you need to move on and find someone better =]


Ok so yesterday my boyfriend told me he loved me when he saw me and kissed me and told me he never wanted to lose me. Then today I got a call from my ex-boyfriend his best friend now and he was like how are you? I was like not so good because i wasn't haveing a good day.. why did you call? He's like bill(the boyfriend) wanted me to call but I forget why! Then he hung up the phone..so I call our bst friend Jena and she three ways him and was like do you want to brake up with jazz and he was like yeah! So i was like don't worry about it and hung up. He knew how much i care and he was going to have the one person i hate the most brake us up so i told him to leave me alone and he is still trying to talk to me it almost seems like he still wants to be with me....what should i do because i just want to move on..this is the second time he's made me cry! I mean i love him and always will because he was my first true love but i am not in love with him anymore. Can you help me make sense of it all because i really don't know? (link)
You need to decide who you would rather be and break the heart of who you don't want to be with i have had to do the same thing. You need to sit and talk with them and explain your feelings


can someone recommend a good eyeliner? is this liquid eyeliner: http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b400/hobbit_doll/IMAG0307.jpg (link)
Ya that is liquid eyeliner..

um i use loreal liquid eyeliner it seems to work pretty good.


where can i get shoes like these: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v313/gutefee/1406960843_12d853bb7f.jpg (link)
Try..

alloy.com
zumiez.com
journeys.com


poop at school? I'm sorry this is such a wierd question, but I feel very embarassed if I have to poop at school so I usually try to hold it. It seems like I'm the only one that does it at school.

And, what is a good way to hide it? Especially if theres other people in the bathroom.

What if I have diarrhea at school?

Thanks. (link)
Um..

I dont use public bathrooms because they are gross..

a lot of people try to hide stuff like that..

if you have diarrhea you shouldn't be at school and if you go to the nurse she will send u home.


Im a mother of a 2 year 0ld baby. age 26 weighing 64kg.my tummy is very very big. im increasing weight day by day. Totally worried. Tried reducing food and walking more no reaction.finding very difficult to do my work, getting tired easily doesnt like to do anything. Please tell me a way to reduce my weight, specially my tummy weight. (link)
The best work out you can do is crunches, side crunches, and leg lifts.. they really target the abdominals go get a 18 minute ab workout video.


i want to make a website and webshow like on icarly.com but i dont know how please help i pretty much know how to make the webshow i just need help on how to make a website maybe someone could make one for me and just tell the things i need to know idk lol please help thanks (link)
instead i would try geocities or freewebs they are easier to make


im a freshman girl in college... i need a cute halloween costume that isnt slutty. cute though! any websites anyone knows about? thanks so much (link)
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=CUTE+ADULT+HALLOWEEN+COSTUMES&btnG=Google+Search


okeh. so i was just wondering...is it possible to like hire a hairstylest to do your hair everyday? and if so....where could you find one? and how much would it cost? (link)
Its called a personal stylist... and ya you can get one they are outrageous.. expect to spend a few bills a week.


http://tartecosmetics.com

Have you ever used any of these products? Opinions on it?

Besides that, I'm trying to look for a good foundation for coverage [scars] and just to even out my skin tone [which is a light olive tone] I have trouble finding the right foundation, because i don't have a beach tan and i'm not pale. There's no happy medium. Help? I don't have money to go and try.. you know?

Looking for some good foundation and powder.. good quality makeup that won't wear off in like an hour or two.. Any help? (link)
Try Neutrogena it works really good.


ok so i know this is probably a stupid question or whatever but i kinda want more guy friends just friends cause well girls are just well yeah i just want a few guy friends is there nayway i can go about doing this?? (link)
Yeah.. just don't be shy be really outgoing when you come off shy people may take it the wrong way.


Me and my friend Megan are like BFF's but she critizizes me and everyone(points out random imperfections) and also say stuff like, "You are so fat! You look gross!(then a pause) Ha just kidding." She does this to everyone. And says like "no one wants you here!(then laughs) just kidding". I mean she just is really annoying. I want a friend who is actually serious about things and isn't always criti. everyone and then pretends she never said it. Sometimes what she says really hurts me, even if she says shes kidding. And people that don't know her as well as i do, well i am scared that she is lowering their confidence and making them kindda self consious.

Like an example of her doing that is this:
One day a girl that she doesn't know that well(an upper classmen in h.s) walks up to her and says "hey! whats up?" and she replied "your wieght oh my god, you got FAT over the summer!" then the upper classmen looks at herself then back up and stares at her. the megan says "Just kidding! ha ha" The next day the girl is wearing big clothes and the next day the same thing. A week later she stops eating. Now she's got anerexia. i don't know if megan caused this but it seems that way.

What do i do about her(megan) and her strange ways? (link)
Personally I would just stop hanging out with her. Some people feel the need to put people down to make themselves feel better. I don't understand it but maybe if she loses all her friends she will realize that she isn't acting like a nice person. You could also try sitting her down and talking to her about it if you think she will listen.


=] Good Luck!


okay look i have a homegurl named sona and i been talkin to her boyfriend manuel alot like till 5:00 am frm 9:30 or erlier in the nite time does he really love her like he says he does does he like me to we talked bout how we cant do this to her but i feel a connection with him now what should i do (link)
Nothing if you want to still have Sona as your friend than leave her man alone. He might just be being friendly, since you are her friend and all. I would recommend stopping it while you still can because the last thing that you want to happen is they break up and she hates you. It's just kind of a drama started I had a similar situation and I'm still having mad problems because of it. I wouldn't recommend it find someone whos single.


=] Hope I Helped.


okay, so my parents went out for about an hour so far 30 minutes. i then decided to wahs my hair, but i was too lazy to get into the shower to wash since i had to take my clothes off, etc. and i take at least 30 minutes or so. and then i used the sink. so then when i washed, i used shampoo,etc. when i was done,i thought my hair was fine, i thought i rinsed it right, but then later, i felt my hair ( before i dryed), it felt kinda slipepry. KINDA. so i thought it might have been my hands nowi dryed it. and my eye feels stingyy. it looks like as if i just finished crying. but is it okay if you have a bit conditioner on your hair? is there something wrong with my eye?!? thanks. (link)
If you were wearing makeup it could have gotten wet and dripped into your eye that has happened to me before when i washed my hair in the sink. It burns really bad pretty sure that's what your problem is with that. It's ok to have a bit conditioner in your hair just not too much or it will look & feel gross. I recommend just getting a leave-in-conditioner.

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Hope I Helped




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