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I don't know if this is the right column for this or not, But if it isn't please forgive me.

Okay, I am a 14-year old african american female. I am nicely shaped and everything, okay, I haven't ever had problems with my skin, I guess I was just blessed, but now I see that I am getting blemishes and breaking out, can someone help me? Like some old remedies or something not something That will make my face have spots but just something to clear it up by next week. Thank you and I do rate high. (link)
sorry to hear um clean n clear helped for me!hope i helped rate high please


i need help what should i name my new puppy? like cute names. its a girl puppy (link)
cleo, minney,shara,sguar,jen,Nemo,princess,champion,
champ,sport,trapper,hunneybun,cookie thats all i can think of hope i helped rate high please


what can i use to make my pimples go away? (link)
3 words Clean n clear hope i helped rate high please


can you run with ur ipod on? (link)
if you put it in your pocket or something or run with it in your hand! a i pod holder would be a good idea tho well hope i helped rate high please


does water help your voice? if you want to sing (link)
i know Warm Salt Water does, gargalling not drinking ,i know my dads a docter!rate high please


my friend told me jlo died? omg is this true? (link)
No don't always believe what everyone says
rate high please


hey

my ex and i have gone through a lot and well i love him but he says im wasting my time trying i dont know what to do.should i just give up or should i keep trying (link)
What is your heart saying never Give up you can't change how you feel but they say don't waste your life wating for someone! hope i helped


i need some websites that have html for anime music and graphics. it has to be anime ok! thank u for helping! ^O^ (link)
um www.mtv.com www.launch.com www.games.com were theres really fun games for if your bored and its safe!
hope that helped


Im a female, and im about 5"10 and my boyfriend is only 5"7...this makes me feel uncomfortable all the time. is this weird? (link)
No many girls are taller then boys in middel school in high school they shoot up! if not don't worry its not whats on the outside its whats in the outside


OK...

My friend has been seeing her boyfriend for just over a month now. For two weeks they didn't even hold hands, they were so shy, but all of a sudden they kissed in the cinema and suddenly they are 'so in love' and on the same day as they kissed, they went to third base.

Last week, they had sex (in the WOODS!) and my friend is pretty sure she is pregnant. However, she is sayign she is 'bored' of her boyfriend and wants to 'move on'. I'm sorry but this is so stupid!! You don't sleep with someone you're 'bored' of and never really liked in the first place!!

She also wants an abortion.

First of all, I am angry at her for the whole 'oh I'm bored with you let's shag!' thing. I am also REALLY angry with her about the abortion because I am really against abortion in about 90% of cases, this one included. She wants to kill her own baby because she thinks she'll get 'bored' with it too, and because she made a mistake. She is 'making up' for that mistake with murder.

Now, I'm her friend and I am SUPPOSED to stand by her whatever, but this puts me in a HUGE dilemma because I do not agree with what she's done and what she is planning to do (split up with her boyfriend, have an abortion, not ever tell him she got pregnant). I'm really really angry at her right now and I can't talk to her, but I know she really needs my support at a time like this. How can I push my anger aside, how can I ignore my own stance on abortion and help her?

I need to stand by her...she needs all the love and support she can get, even though she doesn't deserve it. I was very tempted to slap her and run off when I found out but I realised that it's not my place to forgive or condone or accept or hate what she is doing, just to be there for her.

Please help...how can I get over my anger and resentment at what she is doing and be there for her? And don't just say 'talk to her' - if you have to, help me out on what to say!

Thanks for any help and sorry for the length. (link)
Wow thats a lot of writing DOn't let her get in
abortion ask her why she is being a killer tell her many people ARE KILLING to have a baby give it to a place i totally agree with you i am against abortion too! sorry thats all i got hoped it worked ( please :(rate high)
Ok. Sry but here's a little more. Well, first of all, you shouldn't be ashamed of telling her to not get an abortion because, if that makes her feel weird about it cuz you said something, then that gud cuz then she might change her mind. And if that makes her not want to hang wiht you as much, that could be ok cuz you don't need a bad influence, but you could still help her as much as you could. ok, if she doesn't want to be pregnant, than she shouldn't of had sex in the first place. If she just dosn't want a baby, it's her fault that she had sex so she is should have to go through wiht it and just give up her child for adoption. but whatever the case, abortion is not the answer. salso, it's not like she has had a sonagram or someth9ing so she doesn't know if for sure that she is pregnant. also, some babies die beofre they r born on their own. look up some books for her to read about symptims for being pregnant, is here smelling sence WAY better, is she enjoying thing that she used to hate a TON?... there r a lot. Well, hope that helps, and if you have ne more questions, always here.
Sry that this answer was a long one like the question.


Okay here is the scoop. I have a friend "Tory" who is pregnant. She didn't tell me her aunt did because her grandma kicked her out when she found out that "Tory" was pregnant. Her aunt wants me to talk to her but I can't bring it up until she tells me. But then again I don't think she wants to tell me because It is like a competition thing between us in her eyes, she always compares things. But I don't look at our friendship like that. But anyways when she tells me what can I say to make her feel like I will be there for her, which I will but I still don't know what to say Please HELP (link)
this is Big and scarey If i was in your shoes i would ask god God is always the there to help
Hope that helped and pray God bless you


Ok sometimes i dream things that actually happend. Like onetime i dreamt that iwas in a yard talkin to 2 grls and there were ducks.... then on the 4th of July we went to my Aunts house and we went to the neighbors house to talk and they had ducks and there was 2 girls and it exactly like my dream. I always dream stuff like that nothin important just things that happen. Does this happen to a lot of ppl or just me? And if its just me does that mean im phsycic or something? PLz help i rate high! (link)
when i was 11 i had a dream my cousn died a week later she died i was scared at first but know i think of it as a gifted from God!


Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex and i bled on him, we thought that it was jusy my period coming because i am late...but it wasnt my period. He said that it could be possible that i contracted a std from my previous relationship or i could be pregnant. Im not sure what to do or what to believe~Im going crazy because i dont have anyone to talk to about this and if i do have a std he'll probably leave me...and i dont think that i would want to live without him; i'll be better off commiting suicide. (link)
ok thats gods way saying don't have sex before being married! and killing yourself is NOT the answer go on with life if he dumps you hes no good anyway take this as a lesson and go on with life also take to someone if you no one to talk to then with it in a dariy!




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