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my school's not working for me. i cry every day on my way to school because i hate it so much. it doesn't have anything for me. cheerleader and thers no squad, no friends. i noe wat school i wanna go to... tuition is cheaper, i hav friends, thers a squad. wat way could i convince my mom? ty. i rate high

tell her EXACTALLY what you told us, thats the best advice i can give you. She will probably understand.

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On here I just read that guys have their first kiss before girls. Ive had my first kiss but only for a dare though (that sounds sad but it was with a really hot guy i'm into so its ok really) . I just wondered why guys have their first kisses before girls?

well if guys have their first kiss, its usually with a girl so wouldnt the girl have their first kiss too?

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does anyone know who came up with this quote; Inspire me, Intrigue me, Indulge me.. with your mind then your body ?

Thanx.

I think it could be Willian Shakespear but then again i could be wrong

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okay well me and this kid really like eachother like we were talking online last night like all night & it was like really cute cause he kept like telling me how much he likes me crap and i really really like him too. yeah sounds great but last time we liked eachother like nothing happened we just stayed friend. like i really wanna go out with him but like i never ask guys out. i think its sooo weird and like creepy. haha but like i dont know what to do to like get him to ask me out like what to say or what cause ive basically told him that i want to be with him and he said he was like in love with me so please help just like tell me what to do so he like gets the hint and asks me outt haha ill rate highh

ok wow you say like a lot lol anyway I think that when your with him bring up that conversation you two had because hes probably thinking what you are. Guys are afraid of rejection also. Let him know that you like him, but if its hard to talk to him in person talk to him online. Ask him to something casual with your friends maybe. Obviously he's crazy about you just let him know you feel the same way and things will work out for the best.

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im 13/f about 5'2, 5'3 ish i think ?
anyways i weigh almost 100 lbs and i think thats too much. im not even big, so idk
is that normal for my height/age?
thanks

Actually you are slightly underweight, but not too much. Don't try and think youre heavy because loosing more weight could be dangerous. You're fine =)



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My problem is that I'm like head over heals(in love :-P ) in a girl in my classe and I don't know what to do, and I don't know what to do beacuse of a few reasons
*She is a really good friend of my & I'm afreid that if I tell her it could kill our friendship
*She is curentlly dating someone

please help me....
what should I do?????

Well since she is in a relationship I don't think you should tell her for many reasons.

1) You will most likely ruin the relationship shes in because her boyfriend might get jealous, mad ect. If that happens she most likely wont be too fond of you.

2) Your friendship will become extrememly akward


In my opinion I think you should just wait untill things are over with them and be her shoulder to cry on. When the time is right flirt with her, don't scare her away.


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i am 15, 5'8 and i weigh 125-130. i feel so fat. can you tell me if i am over reacting or what i could do to lose 10-15 pounds..

Well you pretty much weigh as much as me and I'm 5'5, I dont want to be conceted but people tell me I'm thin, you are underweight if anything and will look way too thin if you lost 10 pounds. Stay the way you are. You are overreating, yea 125 pounds sounds like a lot but it really isnt. Your fine and it couldnt hurt is you put on a few.

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GRR!!!
I have ance all over my face and i am SICK OF IT.
All this week I have been using Differn and now my skin is red & flaky! I HAVE A PARTY TO GO TO AT 5:30 AND I WANT IT BETTER BY THEN.
HELP!

Using too much of an acne product tends to dry out your skin which is why it is red and flaky, try putting on some moisturizer it should help.

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hey thanks for answering, and for the advice, but how could you be so sure he was checking me out? thanks again

Well im not sure but from what you told me it sounded like it because of how he was staring at you and grabbing your waist. I could be wrong because I havent seen you guys together he could really like you. Guys are way too confusing

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i like this guy at work and we talk a little bit here and there, but i find he talks to the other girls more then me. The other day he scared me by grabbing my waist and laughing. He's never done that before to me or anyone else. What can that have ment? Thanx in advance, this guy really confuzes me, because he always looks at me for a long time likes hes lost and when i ask what? he says something random, like i didn't know you were working today. lol, just any advice on this guy would help thanks

hunny this guy is CHECKING YOU OUTTT lol idk if that means he likes you or your body but try talking to him more and see what he really wants

good luck =)

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well, there is this guy in my school, he left a note in my desk that says 'I love you' on it. I know it was him bacause he was lurking around and in my desk when I wasn't looking. We are both are the shy type, so it would be kind of hard to talk to him, you know. I kinda got his little brother's sn, but it doesn't really work on my messenger. So the big question is, what should I do? I'm kinda waiting for him to make the first move.

Well the way i see this is that he did make the first move!! If your 99% sure its him you should approach him and ask him if he sent you that note. Hopefully this will lead into a discoussion with him. Talk to him and try to be his friend, eventually things will go for the best.

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i have acne marks on my face..well i have them on my cheeks to be more specific..i wish they could fade away..is there anything that can help me?? or is there anyway i can hide them?? is there anything that can permanently remove them..i used be a confident girl but now because of this i have lost my confidence and dont like the way i look..i want to get rid of this prob..

Hey you should try some products for acne. Personally I use biore (spelling) before i go to sleep and then like 10 minutes after i put on olay mosturizer. It works great. If you are wearing any foundation or face powders wear a moisterizer underneath because if you dont the make up seeps into your skin causing your acne.

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okay so its been a over a year and a half and im still having flashbacks about when i was raped at a party and they dont seem to be getting any better. i think in the past week i've had all my teachers come up to me and ask whats wrong and some even went as far as to tell the guidance department. my friends have also been telling me that i have been "zoning out" and i dont hear a word that they say to me. i mean im not trying to look upset (in fact im trying to look happy) but its just so hard with the rape like repeating over and over again in my head. i cant sleep anymore and im even starting to fail some subjects in school. i thought that it was supossed to get better since its been so long but it seems like its getting worse. maybe im just over reacting and should just try somehow to get over it already but its just so hard to forget. i dunno?

whats should i do to try t get rid of these especially during school
thanks

ps. im already in counseling.

Hey well first of your not in anyway over reacting. Getting raped is an extrememly scary thing that will be on your mind most of the time untill you talk to someone about it. It's good that your in counseling but are you fully communicating with your counseler? Try telling her that it is always on your mind 24/7 and ask her ways to help. Talk to other people you know who are close to you like your parents of friends. They usually know you the best and can help you get through times like these.

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how do i make my hair grow faster?

hey i read in a magazine that to make your hair grow everytime you shampoo it you should massage your scalp if you want it to grow, and also make sure your getting a trim every 6-8 weeks to keep it healthy, because if its not the rate at which your hair grows will slow down.

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I've have gotten 20 pounds overweight in the past 3-4 years and am now deciding to go on a diet and exercise plan. I'm asking if you think this plan is safe and sounds effective. Usually I don't eat breakfast but I am deciding on eating say a granola bar for breakfast every morning instead of nothing, or maybe a glass of chocolate mouth. I plan on skipping lunch since I dont really like school food anyway. I've heard skipping lunch can cause you to gain weight because you overeat but I think that if I don't eat a snack when I get home from school and limit my dinner portions and servings (small portions not tiny but you know, and one serving) then I will not overeat. Then for exercising I plan on doing crunches for my stomach and squats for my legs. I'm also going to lift canned food items to help build my arms up a little more.
Does this sound effective? If not is there another way you suggest? And do you know anymore exercises that are good for stomach, legs, thighs, arms, or anything (just any plain good exercises). Also, I may join a gym for 15 dollars a month, would that be better than exercising at my home. And if I exercise at my home what is a good recommended time? After dinner, before dinner, at night, etc. etc.
Thanks beforehand for any advice!

ok first of all dont skip ANY meals, its unhealthy, you just have to keep your meala proportionate or have 5 little meals a day instead of three regular sized ones, and a gym isnt actually "better" than exersizing at home unless you have no equiptment, and dont over exersize if you dont eat all of your meals, just keep your snacks healthy and eat right and dont skip any meals!! Pack a lunch for school!!


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how do i add someone as my favorite columist

you go to their coloumn and click add as favorite or add column something like that haha you'll see it its wherever they put they're info


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I am in desprate need of a new AIM screen name. Any ideas? If this helps..
- my name is ali
- i like x's, xO's, x3's and things like that
- i like to dance
- i like words like crazy/i/ii, baby/i/ii, dance, and other words like that.
- my fav. songs are lose control, be my escape, like u,

please help!

I love these questions!! kk hope these help!!


excrazililhunyoh
x0HugsndKisses0x
dnclkeno1swachin

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Alrighty .. well i have curly/wavy hair and its poofy! lol ! and i have noo idea how i should wear my hair for the first day of school.. i always put it up in a bun or a pony tail and i wanna try something different .. do you know any cute hairstyles for curly/wavy hair?? thanks! i rate high for a good answer! xox- NicOlee

Ahhh!! ok i have like the SAME EXACT hair!! ok well i usually put it up also but heeres somethings you can do,


here are some i HIGHLY recomend


1. Scrunch it, get l a looks like super stong hold or something like that and put that in then get aussie sprunch spray and put that in and scrunch ur hair, flip it up and down or use your hands it comes out great!!


2. Straighten it, (if you have a straightner) first blow dry it straight but not like every detail then use the flat iron and maybe put some heat protection in it


ok here are some others,


1. low pigtails
2. a low ponytail to the side
3. Half up half down
4. braids?? maybe lol


Well thats all i could think of Hope I Helped!! =D

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I'm a seventh grader and I was just wondering whether or not i should try out for the Baseball team or the Soccer team? I'm 4.7, 75 pounds, and i'm excellent as a goalie. But I love baseball just as much. What should I do??

I rate High!!

well i say soccer so my opinion would be soccer BUT i know this isnt the best advice but soccer and baseball arent in the same season so why dont you do both lol


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i have an xanga and i found some cute icons to add to it, but how do i add them? thanks a lot, i rate

well for the icons you really just copy and paste them into your blog its really simple lol but i dont know the code for the hearts, sorry


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