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hey i asked a question about the chi straightner. i think im going to buy it off ebay but everyone said it cost like 100 bucks and on ebay the cheapest i can get it is around $12-14. they're only one inch irons but i dont care. i just want to know what kind you guys have. theres a whole bunch of different styles: pink, white, black, gray/red, and stuff like that. and what else kind of characteristics does it have? i just want to know which one you guys have specifically so i know its not a scam!

thanks again!

Oh hey! Sorry this took a little while to get an answer to. Mine is the red/grayish black colors. And it is 1 inch ceramic plates! Make sure you get the ceramic plated Chi, it'll help keep your hair healthier, & not get burned or anything like that. I've never even heard of pink or white Chi's so I wouldn't get one of those. Try the red/gray, or black! Those are your best bets, and good luck girl! :]

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I used to be best friends with this girl.Then i started to like her and all was going well in our relationship.Then stuff happended and we had a big fight.Its been months since then i just want to be friends with her. I stopped liking her. a week or two ago i said sorry and we both "forgave" each other and all seemed very well. days later, i talked to her and she started shutting me down.
What more can I do to be friends with this person again?Do I just leave her alone?

Just give her some time. This question is so weird for me, cause someone just did this too me, hah, and apologized like last week, seriously. But I guess I'm more forgiving than she is. If she's shutting you down, she probably hasn't completely forgiven you, and that's alright. A little bit of time might help her out, and when you do talk to her don't be too pushy or anything. Just ask how she is, etc, like a casual converstaion. Eventually she should forgive you & if she doesn't, after you apologized and everything, then she's not really worth your time. Good luck.

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are chi straightners good? like really good? i'm trying to find a new straightner for this school year. i'm free for experimenting but i have to use my own money so i want some backround information before i buy it. and what's the average cost?

oh, and if there are better straightners that are like out-of-this-world (and under 40 dollars please), i'd like to hear about them too. so far i used conair and remington but they're not working as well as i was looking for.

thanks a bunch!

Ah, Chi's are SO good, but pricey. Mine cost 160 dollars, the price is probably lower now but idk. Anyway, Hot Tools are SO good, as well. And they're usually exactly 40 dollars, here's a page of all the kinds Hot Tools has http://www.folica.com/Hot_Tools__318_1.html Good luck! :]

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There is this guy named Thomas that I really like. We are pretty good friends, and he's really nice. He's athletic, funny, nice, cool, fun, kinda cute, and everything I want. But I have recently realized that I like him more than a friend. I'm almost positive that he likes me, too. And when he is driving down the road, he makes a point to stop his truck, just to say hi, and if I'm walking past his house, he comes out side, sometimes in just boxers to say hi, and give me a hug. But there is two problems, #1- He is 16 and I am only 13, and #2- He has slept with half the girls in our Jr/Senior High School. What do I do???

signed,
LeeAnna Sears, 13, Girl

Aw, he seems sweet. Well, if you like him just keep talking to him & such. If the thing about him sleeping with the girls bugs you, then don't get with him. If it doesn't, then get with him. I doubt he'll pressure you to sleep with him, but if he does & you're not ready, just say no. He seems like he likes you to me, so I'd just keep talking to him & try to become more than friends. :]

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next month im turning 16 and i want to have a really sweet party. I live on a lake and i have a big back yard, i just dont want it to be a lot of people just standing around not having any fun...soo what are some good ideas to make sure that people are having fun?

Ooh, I'd make it a swimming party. And maybe have a bonfire or something going on in your backyard! Definitely have food & drinks in your backyard on tables & such so no one will go hungry. When people are done swimming, or just getting some food, have some music going in your backyard so they can be dancinggg and having fun. Haha, happy early birthday. :]

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what can i say to my boyfrind if he being a real bitch to me

Just say "Don't talk to me like that". In a bitchy tone, too, so he gets the point, haha. But I do like the one the person below me said. :]

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What are some good ideas to do on a date.
For like tongiht, a normal friday night, kinda warm out side. But nothing too expensive?

Ah, miniature golf is so so fun! I'd try that. Or even going to a local park, and just talking & spending time together. Or you could meet up with friends & spend the night with them. Have fun. :]

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Hey Shannon, first off, girl you're gorgeous, stunning, perfecttt. Haha. I kinda have 2 questions for you, sorry!!

1. HOW do you get that body? I have been trying to find a work out plan forever, could you help?
2. Where did you meet your boyfriend & if it was at a club how do you get into clubs? I mean I know you were 17 last time I checked so how do you get into clubs? I have to get into a 21+ club on Saturday, and I was wondering if there are any tricks to getting in or not? I'm only 19.

THANKS love

Aw, thanks girl. :] Alrighty.

1. Haha, well I don't do much. My metabolism must be really fast, because I honestly eat a lot, and it just never shows. I don't really exercise, I dance a lot, so maybe that helps haha idk. A workout plan, hmm. Maybe do 50 crunches in the morning, 50 in the afternoon, 50 in the evening. You could try long power walks (about 30-45 mins) or running for about 20 mins.
2. I met my boyfriend at a club, actually, hah. And yeah, I'm 18 now, but all last year when I was 17 it wasn't that hard for me to get into clubs 18+, reason being..I had connections haha. And I still do, though they aren't needed as much. There's not really any tricks to it for me, because I'll get in any way with my connections, but I always see lots of girls like kinda flirting with the person that's letting people in (if they're under the age limit) & it sometimes works. Just look really hot & flirt with whoever is letting people in, or try to get a connection! I hope it works for youu, have fun! :]

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I got my hair cut about a week ago and its as short as i've ever gotten it... it is up to my chin... i just got 8.5 inches cut off... it is short and has some long layers in it this is the picture i showed my hair dresser that i wanted http://i7.tinypic.com/21aiws3.jpg
the only thing is my hair wont have that peicey look... is there anything i can do to get it that way? i have tried straighting it and putting ALL sorts of products in it... also, does anyone know of any cute hair styles i could do??

thanks sorry its so long!

Here are some picture I found of short hairstyles that are cute -

http://pics.worldofautographs.com/samaire%20armstrong%20the%20oc.jpg
http://www.askmen.com/women/actress_300/pictures_300/samaire_armstrong/samaire_armstrong_150c.jpg
http://us.movies1.yimg.com/movies.yahoo.com/images/he/photo/movie_pix/mtv/mtv_movie_awards_backstage_2004_photos/samaire_armstrong/mtv2.jpg
http://images.askmen.com/top-99/2006/pictures/samaire-armstrong-pics.jpg

& Here's a how to, on how to do hairstyles for short haircuts -

http://www.seventeen.com/beauty/hairguide/spc/0,,625851_684112,00.html?iv_arrivalSA=1&iv_cobrandRef=0&iv_arrival_freq=2

Sorry idk how to do that one look you asked about, but I've always wondered about it, hah. Good luck! :]

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ok well i like this boy, cant forget the, nvm. i've tried telling him & myself that i hate him. didnt work. tried saying sorry, sounded desprate. what can i do? did i screw up to badly? please&thankyou

Welll...I barely understand this question, but I'll try to answer it. Hah, um you didn't screw up THAT badly. Telling him you hated him probably didn't help the situation, but saying sorry did!

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how do you make a guy like you give me some pointers!!!


guys what makes u like a girl?

Mm, by being yourself. Depends on the guy, really. You could be outgoing, or shy depending on what they like. Just be yourself, don't be too whiny/bitchy/annoying & I'm sure they'll love you. Be chill. :]

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i'm normal, i have some love handles and a little belly, but i'm not fat. does that mean im not "hott" ?

No way. I like normal sized girls better than skinny skinny girls. I wish I was fatter, actually, haha but from my pic you can probably tell I'm reallll tiny. Curves are fine & hot, you're probably gorgeous.♥ :]

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my b/fs in the navy and has been gone for a long time and he comes back on sunday does any1 have any sexy/fun/cute ideas i could do for him....

Aw, navy guys are so hot. Just surprise him with something. Like, he might be tired when he comes back so maybe you could watch a movie & just be together. Or you could take him to a movie, or miniature golf. You could just sit and talk, that'd be nice. I'm sure as long as he's with you he'll be happy. Have fun & good luck, girl. :]

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i'm not sure if this goes under this category , but i saw this stuff in a magazine ( seventeen i think ) it's called "Model in a bottle". it said it was like hairspray for your face and it helps keep your makeup on. well i was wondering where i can get it?

thanx in advance
&heart's; kayla

I've seen it at CVS/Walgreens, and Target. :]

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My friend and I are having an argument over what makes people "Punk" She says its how the person dresses/what type of music they listen to. I say its how they act/what they do that makes them labeled that way. I get labeled punk alot cause my friends and I do crazy things & get into trouble alot, but I wear hollister/abercrombie and no one cares. Whos right?

Really, it's all of those things. A punk could be someone who does crazy things, etc, but they could also be someone whos clothes/music choices make them seem punk.

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I just watched Justin Timberlaike's new music video and I don't, for the life of me, understand it. COuld someone please explain it to me?
'Sexy back'

Yeah, I saw a little bit of it on MTV'S Making The Video. He said the video is basically the meaning of the song. The video takes place years later (the future) and he's trying to bring
'sexy', the kind that they have in the future I guess, back to the current year.

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do guys like shy girls? guys opinions would be helpful. thankss :]

It depends on the guy. Some think shy girls are hot, some like the more outgoing ones. As long as you're yourself I'm sure they'll like you. :]

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Okay I'm 15/m and I recently meet a guy 18/m. We're both gay. I wanna ask him out but I'm not sure if he's to old for me. He also thinks that sex isnt a big deal so I'm afriad if we get together he might fuck people behind my back. He doesn't think sex is somethign couples should worry about, so I think thats the kind of thing he'll do. Help?!

If you think he's going to be doing that..and you're okay with it, then yeah ask him out. It might be hard to have a relationship with the age difference and all seeing how he's either already graduated, or this is his last year. But go for it if you really like him.

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16/f

okay so i lost my virginity yesterday but it didnt hurt. i just felt pressure and when i got fingered there was more pressure than before. my friends told me that when they lost their virginity that it hurt but i dont get why it didnt hurt me. any suggestions?

You're probably just more pain tolerant than your friends. :] No worries.

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Fort Macon, (historic place, used to fight in many wars, located on the beach on North Carolina)

Growing up, I always noticed that the floors were brick. While vacationing, my dad figured we should go since it had been newly restored to its "original" stand point. That and we hadn't gone in 3 years. I noticed the floors were wood.

When Fort Macon was used in the war, was the floor brick or wood? I really would like to know.

Websites would be helpful.

I've tryed searching it and can't find anything either. :/

Thanks, any help would be appreciated. =]

I don't know for sure, but I found this site http://ils.unc.edu/parkproject/visit/foma/guide.html which says, "These rooms appear as all the fort's casemates originally would have in the 1800s. The windows, doors, shutters, wooden flooring and ornate trim have been duplicated exactly from copies of the fort's original plans." So I THINK it means it's first floors were wood, but I can't be positive. I'm sorry.

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