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Location: new york
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I've only been dating him a week and he asked me at dinner if I would get off birth control and let him cum inside of me! What's crazier is this isn't the first time I've been asked to do that! Why would a guy want to get a woman he doesn't know pregnant?! Just out of curiousity I asked him why and he didn't really have a good answer. He also noted that he wanted 2-3 kids and wanted me to breast feed! Why so specific? I don't know if he's a frequent impregnator or what but he has recent papers proving he is std free and he's really successful.

Well if you ask me I think you should tell him how you feel about the situation. If he has a problem with it tell him you need a break. If you feel it is not worth it then leave him.

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I'm really not the emo type. I'm a cheerleader, age 16 , and I sing and play violin.. but suddenly my dad has been acting like such an asshole to me. He yells at me over nothing. I could be studying silently and he'd yell that I was being lazy and needed to clean. Anyways, I have a swiss pocket knife I took from him when I got mad and never had intentions of using it. One day I felt like shit and he was going off again and I didn't even know what I was doing but I cut all up and down my one arm and I did feel better. However I need to stop. No parents or doctors or adults involved. I can't deal with them. Please help..

Well you have to involve someone you need some help miss I'm sorry but self-harm is a serious matter I should know I've done it before. It might of felt good but one day you can make a mistake and cut a vein (god forbid) and end up dying. don't pay mind to your father I'm sure if you explain how you felt to him he would cut the shit out.

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if you're using a condom does the guy have to stop and pull out before he cums or can he just cum while he's inside a girl?

well no you dont have to but if you feel that the condom breaks then you pull out fast

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Ok so I'm finally in 11th grade so I get to go to the junior/senior prom :) I'm super excited, I already have a date (my boyfriend of over a year) and a dress (it's short so I won't trip on it because I am accident prone lol and it's dark blue so I don't have to worry so much about spilling stuff on it) and all of my friends and I are going to go out to eat before prom and then after it we're going to go hang out somewhere. I've never been to prom, so I don't really know how it goes. I know it's different for every school, but does anyone have any advice so I can make it the perfect prom night? Any thing I need to have that might be easy to overlook? Also, if anyone has any experiences they'd like to share, I'd be happy to hear it :) Thank you!

well i think you should just relax and go with the flow

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Alright, so im a highschool soccer player and i just got my septum pierced the Tuesday after christmas. Well, soccer starts March 1st and i cant have any body piercings in. which hasnt been a problem because eyebrow and ears and nose can come out without closeing. but i dont know about my septum. I need to know where i can but a plastic/rubber septum ring or just a 16G plastic/rubber circular barbell or something that i can fit in there. or a custom place that can make a plastic or rubber one for me. it has to be able to fit ion my nose.
Unless you think i would be able to keep it out for 2-5 hours without it closing up. just for practices and games. I need tips on how to make it work. I'm willing to order offline, of course. and i really need this. Thanks a bunch!

im sorry but what made you peirce your spectrum to begin with? if you knew soccer season was coming up?

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What should I do I'm in love and he broke up with me almost a year ago....HELP!

Well tell him how you feel and if that dont work try to let go

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so i am a young female and still growing and stuff but i know girls and guys get pimples and what-not but i think this is a problem. I thought people get pimples here and there...but on like one side of my forehead i am getting alot i mean alot of pimples and its really bothering me. they are not huge they are actually not even that big or pussy or anything but there are lots on one side and i think its gross. what is happening?! i dont do anything differently for whatever reason from one side of my forehead to the other...i dont know why i am getting these pimples on just like one side...thanks for letting me know AND also because i havent used any acne solutions or anything but if you guys know of products that cure or help acne blemishes, please tell!!! thank you guys!

everyday when you wake-up and before going to bed use a hot wet towelette and wash your face with it no soap or creams just the hot water you should see improvment by the end of the week

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I am 14 and I have had only one girlfriend so far. I am from argentina, and I would like you to tell me (specially girls) what is a good way to find someone I like (there isnt anyone at school who I like), and how to be a good BF if I find someone.
(btw, I am male)

Okay I'm 17 years old so i think i can help you. try finding someone with your interest some one you can talk to about anything someone you can trust, try romancing a girl like that but make sure your studies are good and your parents are okay with you having a gf.... and i hope you treat your girls good... good luck young one

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Okay, I need some advice about my situation. I want to send it to someone so its private, is there anyone who has experience in a long distant relationship?
Thanks

I have its a long story but you can talk to me about it if you like....

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I just graduated high school and i lost ll my "friends." now all the friends i have live 4000 miles away. i feel alone alot and it puts me in depressions. What should i do.

well try to make new friends if you want i can be your friend online and i can help you get started...what part of the world are you in? inbox me at lillyensoto123@aol.com or on my facebook at facebook.com/lolabunny93

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please help, i have a lump in my boob and im 10

listen sweety if you find a lump on your boob then go to your mom and tell her to take a look and if it still looks bad then go to your doctor and tell her to examine you.

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16/f

I was raped over a year ago, but forgot about it or never thought about it, (automatically suppressed it) and after a year of therapy, I'm finally talking about it in my sessions. It feels as if it happened yesterday (as stupid as that sounds) and I've no appetite, I don't care for my relationships with my friends very much (they're all leaving for college in a couple months anyway), and...I've basically become lethargy's best friend. (also, the stress and severe acid reflex is making me puke frequently after anytime I eat any decently proportioned meal)

I used to be extremely fit. Triathlons, cross country, bicycling, and such; however, now more often than not, I find myself crying at random times during the day and or sleeping. I'm neglecting my school work, and I'm letting myself go. (not that I'm fat, but my cardio gone to shit)

My best friend has severe depression and at one point blamed me for his attempt suicide (he didn't pull it off. just a damaged liver), because he said that I was the only one who understood him and that he was in love with me.

My other friend, close to me and my friend with severe depression, a little while ago, blamed me (i'm the only one around now-a-days) for his manic depression and chronic drinking.

My relationship with my last boyfriend of a year fell through in November, and although I've plenty of people interested, I haven't the effort to get with anyone else without having to worry about going numb whenever it comes to becoming sexually intimate with me. Also, my last boyfriend was 19 and although he wasn't the most emotionally stable person, he was at least emotionally responsible. I can't stand my peers. They're confused, horny for their own good, and most importantly, far too emotionally dependent for me to handle right now.

I'm not going to try to kill myself. That, in itself, just sounds... exasperating. I just want this all to stop. My body won't do what I ask of it (hold down my meals) and I can't think anymore. I'm a very proud person, so I find this extremely difficult simply stating that...right now, at the moment and for the last three weeks, I've been and am completely helpless.

I know it sounds ridiculous, but if there's anyone out there who has any ideas, well, they would greatly be appreciated. Thanks.

well you can try anti depressents and try the supressed thing again i know what its like to be raped and going through the whole deppression process and try doing other things and keep going to your therapist.

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