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Age: 15
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so i was in the doctors office and i was reading this magazine called more or something like that
and it said what is it like: listed a bunch of random topics and one was to give birth to your own grandson. of course it really meant a womans daughter had lupus after 4 miscarriages so they planted the fertilized egg in her but this made me wonder.. could somebody get their own mother pregnant?
i would think you could but i wasnt really sure (link)
As long as it's her son doing so yes. However thats just completely wrong.


This is probably a bit of a weird question but I just wanna know. I am 17/f and have slept with three guys. I've been in relationships with all of them (all 3 of them were virgins before me) and I didn't personally regret it until a few weeks ago, when I was telling my friends how many people I slept with and they were shocked, and said I should regret it. Well, should I? Should I not sleep with any more guys, or maybe wait a while before sleeping with the 3rd guy (my current bf) again? (We've only had sex twice and both times we were pretty drunk, we've been together 2 months.) This might seem stupid but it's something that has been bothering me a lot recently. Btw, I've always used protection too, and would never have sex without it.

.xo (link)
Personally- no I would not consider you a slut.

But there are a few tips I want to give you-
1. Only do it if both of you want to and are 100% sure of it.
2. Actually be in a working relationship.
3. Wait a while before you do it with someone the first time. If not they could be using you for sex.
4. And of course as you said- use protection.

Keep your sex life on the downlow. It's not something other people need to know about. And remember its up to you weather you go through with it or not. Sure you can have fun with it, but don't start getting too crazy expecially with a bunch of guys.


Does anyone know where i could get the dance steps for push it to the limit by corbin bleu i know it sounds wierd but i need it (link)
Check on you tube. They have everything. And I think I've actually seen it on there.


Okay my boyfriend was like can i finger you ?? and i was all i have to go but the thing is what is fingering??? and were should he (finger) me ??
Thanks in advance! :) (link)
Okay, it's pretty simple- fingering is where a guy puts (however many of) his fingers into your vagina.


so this guy recently gave me his number, and we go to the same school. weve talked for a little bit online and what not and i really want to text him, just to see where this goes. any ideas on what to say. I mean i no the obvious "hey wats up" but, idk anything else? what should i talk about etc. he doesnt have my number yet do i kinda wanna text him just so he has my number. (link)
Just start a simple conversation. Then maybe hint about hanging out or something. Texting is a very simple way to talk- its great. Just keep the conversation flowing and things should go smoothly.


is there a limit to the amount of photos you can have on photobucket? if so, what is the limit and will anything happen to your old pictures if you reach said limit? i basically keep my life on my photobucket. i have around 500 pictures on there, so i have no idea what i would do with myself if anything happened to them. thanks! (link)
You can upload up to 1,000 images. No you will not lose any pictures you will not be able to go over the limit however.
Once you get 1,000 images- just make a new account and start uploading yet again.


recently my best friend had her first kiss,
and told me it was kinda awkward because she didn't really know what to do.
I've never been kissed yet, and I started thinking about it, ahhh what are you supposed to do?
I'm sorry if this sounds incredibley stupid..
is it a natural thing? Something you just learn to do with practice? (link)
Yes it's completely for your first kiss to be awkward. Infact most people's are. You'll get used to it after the first few times though, don't worry. Eyes closed when kissing is a good thing- dont freak out if your eyes are open though- its just different. Good luck.


I am a professional costume wearer. By that, I mean I have been an elf, a giraffe, a moose, T-Rex and a character for a major hamburger chain. I am presently a character for a major cereal company. Once I am in costume, I am not allowed to speak.

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Adults and older children think nothing of hitting me, kicking me, pulling at parts of my costume, and trying to knock me down. One 12-year-old even tried to "head butt" me while his father looked on and encouraged him!

I am in costume for about an hour or so before I can take breaks. It gets hot and sweaty inside these costumes. I have a limited field of vision and can't see many of the oncoming attacks. Even if I saw each one, I would not be able to say anything to stop or deflect these random attacks. What I do is have a paid "helper" walk beside me. This is now discouraging such actions by adults and children.

Any advice to get the kids and parents to stop the abuse? (link)
A] I think you can actually sue people for the abuse. So you could make a sign saying 'do not harm in any way. violators may be fined.' or something along those lines.

B] As someone else mentioned- let people know there is a real person underneath the costume.

C] When someone else is wearing a costume such as your own and you see someone abuse them- walk over & make it a point to say something. Maybe people will begin realizing what it's really like.


okay im sortof freaking out a bit.
my friend alex gave me a condom as a joke.
obviously im not going to use it, i'm too young.
so i hid it in my purse.
i woke up this morning to my mom looking around my room!
i think she was about to read my diary or something.
but now i'm SO scared she'll find the condom.
i didntg know what to do so i opened the condom and threw it into the road.
but now what do i do with the rapper?
wont they find it in the garbage?
aah! please help! (link)
Unless your parents snoop through your garbage, no i doubt they will find it. Just make sure its not in view. But if you are still super worried about it rip or cut the wrapper up in little pieces before you throw it away and they shouldn't have a clue.


15/f
how long after a guy pre cums does he actually ejaculate? because i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and i know he didnt ejaculate in me because he pulled out and jacked himself off for like 20 seconds before he actually came so im just kinda worried about pre cum. (link)
I'm not completely sure. It probably varies between different guys. But Im sorry to say you can still get pregnant from pre cum. So you might wanna get a morning after pill or something. Good luck.


I want to entertain in the field of singing. I'm not after fame: I actually wouldn't welcome it. I just want a bit of recognition for my ability and I'm yearning to inspire others with my voice as I have been by hearing other singers. Where do I get my start? (link)
Just have fun with it. Kareoke at weddings, parties, ect. School or town musicals. National Anthem at sporting events. Town festivals. Walking down the street- who knows someone important could hear it.

Good luck.


I have an interview tomorrow morning to be a tennis instructor for a girls jewish camp. The man on the phone told me it would be 12 kids at one time. My dad says do not accept minimum wage ($7.15 an hour or something like that) He said $12-13 an hour is fair because its so many kids at once. Do you agree with him? How would i go about letting the guy know in the interview? I was planning on telling him how i've played tennis from 7th-12th grade for the school and how i coached t-ball so i can handle a lot of kids at once. I think i should ask how much i would get paid an hour..and if he says 7$ an hour what should i say? My dad says i should tell him i wont do it for less than 10 or 12 an hour.
Other tips on what to wear is also appreciated. Would you wear sporty clothes or nice clothes like dress pants?
18/f
thanks! (link)
Okay first off, the girl below me said minimum wage is around $5, however that is not true, in my state it is also $7.15. Telling the guy about your experiance is a really good idea. Although asking for the extra money could turn into a problem. You could say your dad does not want you to take the job for a pay of less than $10 an hour. But remember the final decision of wheather you take the job or not is your own. And having fun is what a good job is about.
As for the clothes whichever you feel is best. Since it is a job at a camp extremely nice clothes are not needed. Maybe a tennis skirt and a nice shirt?
Good luck.


What do you wear to a wedding?
I don't think I have "nice clothes". I don't have a dress either.

I want to dress up nice for the occasion but I'm poor.

Help? (link)
A cute shirt and skirt are perfectly fine. A dress you have from a previous occasion is also fine. If you have nothing and can't find anything priced right to buy, try talking to a few friends and see if they have any clothes you can borrow.
Good luck. But remember people aren't really going to be remembering the clothes you wore, but the fun you had.


polo shirts with aligators on them..what does it mean? where are they from? is the store expensive? (link)
They're from Lacoste. And yes there are expensive.


wuts "oven chips"? (link)
1. French Fries
2. Potato Chips made in the oven


Please help i want my period to start im 13 how do i?
thanks in advance. (link)
You can't do anything to start it sooner.
It just starts when your body tells it too.
Don't be in such a rush;
Once you start it; You're just gonna want it to be over with.


what does it mean to dip?

**i know it has something to do with tobacco** (link)
Its chewing tabacco [chew]. And a dip is the
piece of it someone puts in their mouth.


Theres this really cute boy a year below me in my school. idk much about him, just that he plays the trombone and sometimes i see him but idk his name or anything. Like, how do i just get him to talk or notice me? (link)
To start off just say hi and smile when you see him. Make eye contact.
Whenever you feel comfortable with it go over and talk to him. It's really no big deal although you may think it is.
Just start the conversation with something simple. Hey. Whats up? You're pretty good playing the trombone. blah blah blah.
Good luck.


15/m
I really want tattoos..and through the last couple of years i got three tattoo designs that mean so much to me. I don't think i will regret them, but other people have started saying..you'll change so much, you won't like this..Anyway..on my left forearm..i want the word "imagine" written in OldEnglish font style thing. On my lower back i want the words Carpe Diem tattooed (latin for seize the day) and i want 4 stars tattooed (dif. sizes) on the back of my right shoulder (i can't think of a better place..can you?).
All these tattoos mean so much to me..they are really personal..should i accept that most people will never understand why i want them and get them done anyway?
What do you think? do they sound utterly stupid..or meaningful..any opinion counts
thanks. (link)
It's your body so its up to you. I like the ideas. The only thing I would do is wait until your at least 18 to get the tattoos. I know a lot of people who have said they're extremely glad they waited until they were 18 to get one. Your body can still grow and stretch out the tat. Cute ideas tho.


For the summer.. I want to cut and dye my hair..... But theres a problem... my hair is reallly thick and I want to cut it shorter.. like a little below my shouders(right now it is middle of my back)... would that make it look thicker? or what are some hair styles? My hair is really dry and corse and just not the type of hair a girl would want.... what are some ways to make my hair look not at thick.... and i want some crazy laires... any ideas on anything...
and since my hair is so corse and thick would it look good dyed? (link)
You can get your hair thinned. They make special scissors for it. Just ask about it at the salon. As for the layers thats basically all up to you. But you could add more and get them thinned out or whatever you like.




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