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female,20 2 children eldest 2 youngest 7 weeks,differant dads when i drink alchol i get violent not al the time just when im stressed my partner over the past 4 weeks my partener has broken my finger n given me a black eye on both occasions he has said sorry and it will never happen again. he has taken my eldest son on as his own. i dont want to be a single mum with 2 children by differant fathers but i dont want to be a nervous wreck either i feel low in myself he alwys puts me down telling me im ugly and fat i just dont know which way to turn the violence only happens when we are both drunk please give me advice

You have a distinct animal right to do whatever is necessary to protect you and the health of your offspring...This is abuse, you need to get help and get out... Ive lost an aunt to abuse... he said he would stop.. but it was too late... You dont desereve to be pushed around and for your sake and your childrens you need to leave to make it better...If this only happens when you are both drunk, and IF you want this to work you need to get counseling together.. do something before its too late.. please its not worth it..good luck.. wish you all the best

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ok well theres this girl that i've been inlove with since like 7th grade now im goin into 11th well we r friends now and we've gone through so much 2gether and we almost went out so many times but something always gets in the way she said she liked me a number of times but shes confused and she said she doesnt want to ruin our friendship she has gone out with 2 of my friends n both times i warned her about them and told her she would get hurt but she wouldnt listen and both times she ended up getting hurt i really like her alot and i would do anything 4 her i've tryed everything and im good friends with all of her friends, we always have fun when we hang out and stuff and she invites me over sometimes 4 dinner and stuff and i hang out with her and her family her mom and everyone loves me but still she wont go out with me what can i do i dont uunderstand why she wont go out with me she even said she liked me im so confused

If she said she liked you, then obviously she has feelings for you.. maybe they arent the same kind of feelings that you have for her.. i think she feels that she really likes you but she doesnt wanna loose you if u 2 were 2 get into a relationship.. i think your doing the right thing so keep it up.. dont ever, ever give up on something you love... *good luck*

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Ok, there's this guy who I met through my friend. She had a sweet 16th B-day party, and this guy was invited. I think he is her cousin's best friend. Anyway, I haven't seen him since the party, but lately, we started IMing on the computer. I got the screename from my friend. And he sent me all these emails telling me that he likes me. I like him back and we both wanna be in a relationship. The only problem is, my friend likes him to. He's told her that he only likes her as a friend and she knows this. I told her about everything and she says she doesn't mind and she thinks it's cute that we like each other and everything. I just don't know if it's right. Should I go out with him? I'm sooooooooooo confused. Lol. Thanx a bunch.
Btw, I'm a 15 y/o female.

iVe BeEn iN thE saME sitUation before.. my friend got very upset with me and then got over it.. what your friend is seeming to understand is that the guy likes you and not her... i know you might feel like your doing your friend wrong but sometimes you gotta think about yourself sometimes too.. if he likes you and u like him then try it out.. remember to stay close with your friend she will always be there and guys come and go.. but i think you should go for this guy..

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