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well there seems to be alot of sex questions
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ive always wondered what its like to have an orgasm....but i dont want to have sex with my bf...so how do i without having sex? (link)
find out things that turn you on, really turn you on. and do that. have your boyfriend pleasure you and if you really like it, you'll have one.

best of luck ♥


i feel stupid asking this
but whats cumming and orgasm? (link)
cum is semen or liquids from the vag. it's while and thick and comes out when a male gets happy or a women has an orgasm.

orgasm is what happens when you get sexually aroused and a women realeases cum so that it's easier for the penis to go into the vagina



okay.i want to be part of this.i registered and everything. but whenever i try to do something like answer a question or change my page or whatever it says you must be logged in to do that. how do i get it to let me do something?

- confused (link)
so you have your name and everything? when you go to log in check the "remember me" square, maybe that's the problem. and see if that works. if not, tell me please.

best of luck ♥


thank you for your help!!

i imed my friend, and she said that it was nice to talk to me again. just talking to her made me feel a lot better, and i'm glad that things arent good, but better. i dont think i really want to be good friends with her again, just its nice to talk to an old friend and catch up on stuff :] thanks again! (link)
yeah, i understand how you feel. maybe ya'll will start talking again and some time down the road you'll be better friends. but it's always nice to talk with an old friend. i give you a lot of props for taking the first step and i/m'ing here!



alright, this is kinda long, so i hope you dont mind.

last year this time, i had a wonderful life. i had all the friends i would ever need, and i had this amazing best friend. her and i did everything together, and we were inseperable. then came 9th grade. we were both scared for high school, but when it came, all was great! Then, we started fighting. maybe it was because we were too close and knew everything about eachother? but anyways, over the school year i kinda got over her, actually really fast, and i kinda think she held on for a bit more than i did. but i made some amazing new friends. i only have a few, but they are spectacular. anyways, lately, i've really been missing this girl. she always helped me feel better when i was down, and she always had something positive to say to me when i was upset. i miss her, and i want to talk to her, but how? i want to IM her or something, but what should i say? thanks in advanceeee (link)
everyone loses a best friend somewhere along the way, and it sucks. if i were you i'd just i'm the person and just be like hey. and see if you could start up a normal convo. and after ya'll are talking for a few min. just be like i'm sorry for all of the fights last year, i was wondering if you and icould start to be friends again. and understand that ya'll wont be best friends again, just like that. it'll take some time. but just let her know that you missed her and you are willing to give the friendship anther try.

anyother question? let me know what happends. best of luck! ♥


hey justine
ummm
idk what to do
i mean is it normal for me to think my dick is small?
and is it ok for me to jack off like 3 times a day or is that bad?
and when im really horny..i cum a little..is that bad? (link)
yes, it's normal for you to think your dick is small, it's noraml to be unhappy with your appearance. and yes it's normal for you to jack off and it's normal for you to cum. you're all good son.

have fun


well im like the girl below
except i need tips on how to finger myself
what is a good way to finger myself? (link)
i dont know, i dont do that stuff so i dont know.
you could search on google.com and see what comes up there? i'm sorry i'm no help


I'm writing a goodbye letter to my bf (of 16 months) and i don't know what all to put in it... so could you help me out please.. just give me a few sentences or something.

He's going about an hour and half away (link)
well if you two are staying together.
just tellhim that you'll miss him a whole bunch and that you love him and you hope to see him very often and then things will never change.

and if you'rebreaking up with him.
just be like i can do this long distance relationship but when you come back we'll hang out a lot. and i'll still love you and i hope the best for you where ever you're going.


hey justine
im horny alllllll the time
i mean like alot
is it normal for me to finger myself?
b/c i have like reallly good orgasms
should i keep fingering myself? (link)
hello, it's normal for us teenagers to be horny, a lot. and yes it's normal for you to finger yourself and no it's not bad. it's healthy. yes, keep fingering yourself if you find the urge to. it's alllll good ;)

have fun! ♥


there is like a piece of skin that hangs down like an inch and a half when pulled down inbetween the lips of my vaginal area what is it? should i see a doctor? (link)
it's known as your labia minor, or that's what it sounds like you're describing. but if you are still worried, go talk to your doctor.

but i'm sure you're fine, best of luck ♥


14/F
Ok...well I have had just some discharge over the past maybe 6 months...so all of the sudden it got a little thicker like I'm having more than I used to. So do I wear a panti-liner or what??? And also I was wondering if because it got thicker if I'm going to start my period soon because I have all the signs so?...umm...what?
Please answer need as many as I can get! ;] (link)
yes, i'd wear a panti-liner, they make things a whole lot cleaner.

i think this might mean you are getting your period soon, so be perpaired.

best of luck ♥


okay so i dont have alot of acene and its not bad but its bothering me!! its on my forehead it wont go away! i've tried proactive and it worked for a while but i dont know why its just not working like it used to! any suggestions? thanx (link)
i use oxy pads, they work great. or stridex. both are great.
also if you use hairspray cover your forehead when you are spraying it, hairspray makes you break out.
and if you sweat a lot that could be another reason to break out. so pull back all of your hair when you are doing sports or what not.

best of luck ♥


i have dandruff and i dont know if its that bad but its there. more than a little! any ways i was just wondering if anyone had any recommendations thankx in advace!! (link)
head and shoulder dandruff shampoo works great! i use it when i burn my scalp and it peals.
also make sure you're hair isnt dry, if it is head and shoulder dandruff shampoo will help it as well. and when you go out in the sun for a long period of time try and put suntan lotion on your scalp. i have a spf 30 spray can of suntan lotion in my bathroom and i just spray it on my scalp. it helps your head from burning and pealing.

best of luck ♥


I've seriously gone crazy worrying about my brittle split end/thick hair and I need some advice on what to do from anyone willing to throw in their 10 cents on the matter. Here's my story:

1 Year ago I bought an electric trimmer that I was planning on using for certain parts of my body, not my head until I made a huge mistake by deciding that I wanted to try and shave the hair off my head by using it. So foolishly I did, not to the point that it was all off but their was minimal hair left on my head, I wasn't bald. So anyways what grew in was this brittle week hair that sticks up in weird places all over, can't hold any styles, and is overall HORRIBLE. I've had haircuts, tried using protein shampoo's and conditioners but I think my hair may all be split ends because it's really out of control to the point I almost want to shave it all off.

So I guess my question is, am I screwed for life? This has really been the thorn in my brain for some time now and not ever being able to grow my hair long because it comes out so thick/brittle/ and unruly is really bothering me. I swear I'd do anything to have healthy hair again.

-Evan (link)
if i were you, i'd go consult your hair dresser.. and ask him/her what to do.

what i would say, is shave it all off and it will probably grow back the right way. but have it shaved off for you, and the hair place. then has it's growing in us a good shampoo and conditioner.

and it's summer, so why not do it now right?

best of luck ♥


I just got some hair curlers. (The kind you're supposed to sleep on) I have no idea how to put them in, how long to keep them in, if my hairs wet/dry, etc. Help? (link)
you should do them when your hair is slightly wet. the smaller the curlers the tighter the curl will be. you can put some gel in your hair before you roll them up, and then wait for them to dry over night or blow dry them so they dry faster. when you take them out you can shake your hands through your hair to losen up the curls and then spray some hair spray in it to make the curls last.

fyi i would try it one day when you have nowhere important to go, they sometimes can be tricky.

best of luck! ♥


I am going to the beach and I was wondering what some cute but quick hairstyls would be can anyone help? (link)
during the day at the beach i wouldnt spend too much time on your hair. if your hair is naturally straight, i'd wear it straight. and if it's wavey, i'd wear it wavey.

quick and easy things :
-easy way to get it wavey i would wear it wavey a lot. that's what i do. when you're sleeping if you french braid your hair wet, then let it dry over night, you're hair will be wavey and cute.
-messy bun
-low side ponytail

but at night i'd either straighten it or curl it. depending on the humidity. very humid curly, not humid, straight.


sorry, you didnt really tell me what type of hair you had, so it was kind of hard to answer. best of luck, have fun! ♥


i get my hair cut on the 15th and i was looking for ideas. right now my hair comes about 4 inches past my shoulders and is brown with highlights in it. its parted to the side and has a few layers too. my hair is sort of thin and straight and i dont want it to be too short. any ideas? im always looking to change it up because i get bored w/ it being the exact same. thanks so much! (link)
i would keep the length, but get a lot of layers and then medium side sweep bangs.
with that hair cut you could part it down the middle with the side bands or down the side. and both look cute.

bestof luck ♥


I`m going to be asking this guy that I like out tomorrow or sometime soon, whenever I see him next. I want to look cute / sweet / pretty, you get what i mean. But I dont want to look to sluty or anything! what should i wear? p.s im pale so sometimes i dont like wearing skirts but i kno its summer so yeah..

any suggestions? (link)
i wouldnt go out and buy something that you'd never wear, cause that would just be weird. but i understand that you want to look cute for him.

if this was me, i would wear a cute form-fitting pair of jeans and a low-cut tank or a babydoll shirt with cute bright jewelry and a pair of flip flops.

also, since it's summer go light on the make up and if you can do wavey or curley hair .. most guys thinks curley hair is sexy, and it's more summer'ish.

also, smell cute .. like good perfume =]

best of luck! ♥


my best friend is a twin and i like him, and we're like brother and sister.. and i dont want to ruin that by telling him i like him more than a friend, and i sort of think he likes me but then again we are like brother and sister.. so how can i really tell if he likes me more than a friend? and what should i do if he does? (link)
sorry this has taken me a while to get back to you, i've been busy.

you could ask a friend of the crush, or his twin brother (if i'm reading this question right) if he likes you .. cause they'll know for sure. and if he does like you, and you think that dating him will work out and if/when ya'll break up you will still be good friends, i'd go for it.. it wouldnt let just being friends stop you.

or you can just go up to the crush and be like i've been thinking .. you and i are really good friends, like family, but sometimes i feel like i like you more then just a best friend. and see if he feels the same.

you've just got to see if dating him will not mes up your friendship. and if after ya'll date it wont be an awakward friendship or ya'll will stop being friends. so you've got to think what's more importand.. being best friends with this person for a while or letting him know how you feel and possibly dating him.

i'm sure you'll pick the right one, best of luck ♥


OK well like the other person said (the one who started off saying they disagreed with some weird comments about you, and then went into her question about her friend like calling her out on stuff but in a weird way.. im just trying to get you to see which one im talking about haha)

ok so i feel like i do that alot. Like i call people out on stuff. I don't mean to and I don't like it when I do. Actually I don't usually do stuff likethat. But Sometimes I get really annoyed with like everything about my best friend and it al builds up. It would only last like one day. So I'll ignore how annoyed I am and then finally I'll break down and just say one really mean thing but usually disguised as a back-handed compliment. It's so manipulative and rude and immature. I don't know why I do it and I'm not sure really what I'm asking. But I geuss i just want your oppinion on why i do this? Or what i can do instead? I hope you don't think I'm really horrible. I just wanted to give another point of view in a situation like this. (link)
okay, first off i am very sorry it's taken me a while to answer this, i've been busy.

i know how you feel, i also do this some times. some times i just get so annoyed with a friend that i feel like i have to scream at her to get her to stop. and i do some times. i scream and tell her things that i shouldnt, but i still love her to death.
maybe you should talk to some of your friends, and just be like. hey, i'm sorry if i've been yelling at you, or i do yell at you, things have just been aggravation me a lot lately. and no mater what i say to you, you're still a wonderful friend and i love you.

or when you notice something about this friend just be like. hey, i love you, but could you stop doing ... and then say what you're thinking. cause this is your best friend and you should be able to tell her anything. and it'll only make your friendship stronger if you tell her whats on your mind.

i wish you the best of luck! ♥




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