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I am 15... and i have been helping my friends with their problems for years...their problems consisted of pregnancies and breakups to failing a class and not doing well socially.

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I was to easy
and i gave a guy what he wanted.
Yeah, he pretty much used me and screwed me over.
He said he hated me for a good amount of time because everyone found out about what we did.
After a good 5 monthes, he told me he didnt hate me anymore and he was being nice to me again.
I like him alot, and i always have no matter how mean he was to me.
And I know he doesnt like me like that, but i'm pretty sure he would want to do that stuff again and the thing is, i dont want him to use me and screw me over but i really want to do that stuff again too.
We havent really talked in about a week, but im just so confused
help? please

If you want it go get it..have you heard of the term fuck-buddy?

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Last time my boyfriend and I got together we did some risky things, but I didn't have sex exactly. He fingered me and I touched myself. I'm almost sure neither of us had anything on our hands. Now, its getting near my period and its different. normally, my breasts get very tender and that hasn't happened yet. Normally I'm very regular about this. I've been getting some slight cramps, and again that doesn't happen.

Does this mean something? Could I be pregnant because my period isn't happening as it usually is? Or am I just having an off month?

Him fingering you and you touching yourself is NOT going to get you pregnant...i say do it..it feels good and you like it...go ahead your just havign an off month

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does fingering feel good? also my friend gave this guy a blow job and she said it was awsome. is it really that good?

Ok... yes fingering feels good to people who like it...but him rubbing, touching or licking closer to the clit feels ALOT better..and if you want to give your b/f a blow job you need to see for yourself if it really IS awesome because everyone is different

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14/m
Ok so me and my gf were having sex and i thought that i could hold off from cumming but it was so good that we couldnt stop and i gizzed in her, and i wasnt wearing a condom. Could she be pregnant?

It depends on her body and yours....and you cant control that so you always need to wear a condom unless you both want a baby

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ihad sex about three weeks ago and he used a condom. But i usualy have my period either the 20th-21st of every month and this month i missed it.

*im pretty sure the condom didnt break but when he pulled out the condom was like half way off.

so my question is should i take a test tomorrow ( which is kinda what i was planning on doing ) or do i just wait?

thanks

Take the test as SOON as possible...you wouldnt want to find out the hard way

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I kissed my friend just a pop kiss in front of guys, do guys think thats hot?
Also do guys get hard off of fingering a girl?
Just wondering.

OK...First, was your friend a girl? And yes guys think that is sooo HOT...and the more your into it the more they are into it..andyou can include them....as far as guys getting hard off of fingering you...well you never know unless you try right? They might depending on how into it and you they are....

Hope you get some pleasure out of this

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So there was this guy that I liked for awhile last year because he's nice, funny, and not obnoxious and immature, unlike most guys I know. I really liked him, but then I kind of made myself stop liking him because he had a girlfriend and I barely got to see him. Well this semester, he's in one of my classes and I realize that I do like him again... and I think I may have a chance with him because I make him laugh a lot and we are really alike, and I'm thinking this is a great opportunity to become his friend and maybe that will eventually led to something more than friends. but the thing is, I'm terrible at flirting, I feel weird when I do. So how can I, like, flirt with him and maybe get to know him better? Btw he's really shy and he isn't really flirty so yeah, I know this sounds really cliche, but how can I get him to like me and know me better? Sorry, I know this is an annoying question but you gotta know, I'm terrible at flirting and I kind of am nervous when I talk to him. Help?

OK....i have the same problem....go up to him and ask him a question about the homework or something..then start up a convo..and the g/f doesnt matter..they wont get married so get to be his friend and then when they break up go for it..

Good Luck

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ok, so i'm 15/f and i have never gone out on a date, been asked out, kissed, asked to dance, anything. I'm pretty -sort of, not extremely outgoing, but not totally shy either, i can be a bitch sometimes but overall i'm nice, i'm kinda crazy acting though, anyways I think my problem is confidence, i think that the only way anyone would ever like me is if i were amazingly beautiful and skinny, is this true? i think it's hurting my self-esteem because everytime i like someone i think, well they can't possibly like me back because i'm not as pretty as so-and-so.
what should i do?

Hi,
I am 15/f and i have never been kissed either..so, i know how you feel. Its not because your not pretty enough or skinny enough. Maybe the right gy hasnt come along yet. When you are near or around your crush act flirty and if you have a class with them wear something that will make them notice you...

Trust me it works for getting asked out...the kissing thing is all up to you

Good Luck,
Neverbeenkissed

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theres a guy had a crush on me in like september..i think he still likes me cuz he like flirts with me and stuff but not as obvious as he used to so i just want have someone else's opinion if he still likes me.

If you like this boy and give him the attention he gives you go for it. You will NEVER know how he feels unless you ask...its worth a shot....

Good Luck,
Neverbeenkissed

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Hey my whole entire family treats me like iam a baby even my cousins and everybody it's not just my mom either i'll give you an example like the other day when we went to the skating rink my cousin told my 14 year old and my 15 year old cousin to look after me like iam a little baby and i know how to skate really well so it can't be becouse i can't skate could somebody please tell me why they do this and how can i make them treat me like my age.
please help me.

Are you the baby in your family and not with the cousins? If you are maybeits just because they care about you and they want to protect you..or maybe they arejust arrogant. Look, i have been treated like this my whole life. Now i dont know you but maybe your a little immature for your age...act older and youll be treated older.

Good Luck,
Neverbeenkissed

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ok so i wanna start by saying that i would NEVER cheat on my boyfriend.
ok dont get me wrong i like my boyfriend a TON,like i makeout with him and would do anything for him.
but sometimes i get the feeling like he doesnt like me even tho he says he does.
and sometimes he treats me like im stupid.
i didnt realize this until one of my best friends pointed it out.he told me that he really likes me and is always telling em how lucky my boyfriend is.
i hangout with him at him house and we have SO much fun,its almost like were going out already.
but i havent done ANYTHING to cheat on my boyfriend.
my question is,should i breakup with my bf for my best friend who would treat me better,or stick with my super hott amazing boyfriend that i could try to fix things with?

Ok so here it is...yes your best friend might treat you better..but he might not be your best friend when you break up...give your boyfriend one more shot and then decide if its worth losing a friendship for a couple of make out sessions..good luck..i hope you do what is right for you.

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