I know this girl, who is just about most amazing person ive ever met. shes so smart and funny and beautiful etc. but shes too far from me. and im lost as to why such a person would come into my life for no reason...
Maybe you should wait and see until the future comes and if it's meant to be, you will meet up.
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I know this girl, who is just about most amazing person ive ever met. shes smart, funny, beautiful, and possesses countless other great attributes. but shes too far from me. and im lost as to why such a person would come into my life for no reason...
too far? too far isnt impossible unless you live in america and she lives in china
i suggest you... see each other if shes so great
and im sure she came into your life for a good one, not to bring your hopes down
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I have this friend. Well really he is just someone in our group where we have a hi and bye conversation. He likes my best friend. She likes him but shes afraid to go out. I, being a good friend, wants the best for her, so I help her to get together. No matter what she doesn't want to go out. So I just left it alone. I sort of like him. But I know for a fact he doesn't feel the same way. Should I let him know or forget it because of my friend?
no. haha, if i were you, i would try to convince the person you like to go out with you because your friend wont go out with him. haha, this sounds a bit scheming. but if you dont want to do that, then i dont know what to say. i can give you the negative side- you dont really talk to him (hi&bye)- so, why go out with him? positive- get to know him, talk to him more, ask him to do something on the weekends. see a movie, and while your getting to know him, send him hints you like him.(touch his arm, flirt a little) and umm, time will tell what willhappen.
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My parents asked me what I wanted for Christmas and my mind drew a complete blank. They said nothing video game related and thats all I really want besides an iPod but they are too expensive. I asked for a Montreal Canadien jersey and that was $100 dollars so now all I am getting that I asked for is boxers. Does anyone have any ideas of something not expensive that I could ask for? less than $80.00. I am also a 14 year old boy
money, giftcards. easy, simple.
=chynna
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I'm 13, and there's this guy that I REALLY like. I told him, he doesn't like me back, but we're still friends. There's a dance in 3 hours, and I'm not sure whether I should ask him to slow dance. I mean, we slow danced last dance, and I'm afraid that I'll look like I'm desperately trying to "win" him when I'm not, especially considering the fact that he knows that I like him and that he does not like me back. Do you think I should, or would I just look like a loon? If not, could you give a good reason?
ask him casually. just be like "you dancing with anyone?" "can i dance with you then?"
yeah... uhm... goodluck.
=chynna
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I want to raise enough money to buy a nano iPod but many places you have to be 16 to work at. My friend told me that to work at McDonalds you can be 14(my current age) Does anyone know if this is true?
P.S-I know there food is the worst for you but I'm working there for the money.
well, you dont have to work anywhere corperate.
try washing people's(you know)cars, chores(hah), helping your mom/dad/grandparents/gardian whoever with work, cleaning their house?
i saved up alot of money too. good luck
=chynna
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i know this is long but please, HELP!!
okay here goes..
im 13 and a girl. i really like almost in love with this one guy at my school. last year i had every single class with him, it was like heaven. this year i have no classes with him, at all. the only time i get to see him is at nutrition and lunch, if hes in the same place i am. last year i could kind of tell he liked me but this year its hard to tell. if i pay a lot of attention to him, he becomes interested, ill try to move where he is and stare at him in a very "im into you" kind of way. but sometimes its kinda of hard to tell. i really dont feel comfortable confronting him face to face, and i havent even told my friends that i like him. how can i tell if he likes me??? I nees some other solutions then ask him straight forward, please!!!!
well, start hanging out with him more, thats for sure. then kinda give signals hinting you like him, for instance "hey i missed you"... and asking him who he likes. stupid stuff like that, eventually, you guys will end up getting on the subject of "oh i like you" and whatnot.
p.s. if its hard to talk to him in person, do it online, it makes it easier i guess.
=chynna
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hey .. i have a gf , and i feel as if she doesnt care about me as much as before or w/e , but then i really really feel as if i'm in love with this other girl , but idk whther or not she feels the same for me , she's liked me before , but i just am not quite sure if or not she does now , i really know she's the one for me , i love her with all my heart but i dont know what to do , i need help ASAP !! thanx
well, first consult them, then consult yourself.
also decide which girlfriend would be better for you? which do you see more often, blah blah blah.
what is this love feeling?
im not sure your in it, because its blind, and you dont realize what you love until you loose it.
=chynna.
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Hey...I like this guy who i've known since 2nd grade and we have been tight ever since..he is in my p.e. class and we talk a lot..people say he likes me and i like him to. he seems shy to open up. he stares at me in p.e. too. he flirts a lot as well and i flirt back. what should i do? should i tell him and make a move?
I'm so confused!!!
just ask him straight out if he likes you.
tell him that..umm... you think hes cute.
hope that helps, chynna.
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Hey, im a guy.
Ok. My girlfriend said that if i stop smoking for a month, shed have sex with me and, being a guy, accepted. Well. The end of march came around, no sex, now it is about a weed and a half into april and all of a sudden shes started to shun me kinda. I havent actually said anything about the pact we had because i didnt wanna seem like i was rushing things. But now im wondering if she just wanted sex and was using cigarettes for an excuse. whatever way, its hurting our relationship and i need some help
well, i want to say that what your girlfriend is doing is pretty fucked up. if shes starting to shun you, i dont think its a bad idea to ask her. talk to her about it, and see whats up with her. its not cool that shes doing this.
well, thats my opinion.
-cha cha (chynna)
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It's cruch help again! your advice seems to be working so far. We are still walking to classes together and partially hanging out during nutrition and lunch. I've been trying to get into his mind meaning, figure what he likes and what he wants to see, and so far that seems to have helped. We seem a lot closer and i kind of notice him trying to show off for me in a lot of our classes( he'll make eye contact with me before doing his little act). The only problem is, he still hasn't asked me out. Should i ask him out yet, or wait a couple more weeks and continue doing what i'm doing, just to be on the safe side? HELP..AGAIN!
just wait a little.
see how he acts
seems like he likes you, but to be sure that he isnt being a "player" for instance, if he likes someone else or if he even has a girlfriend you dont know about.
wait till he asks you, unless you trust him enough
i hope this works out for you!
-cha cha
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I guess that helped, but now i need more. Yes, things are easier said then done, but he is really loud and judgmental. I'm just worried he'll make a big seen and then after that mock me. I did concider asking him who he liked today but what if he gets suspicious? But my heart jumped in art when i heard him mention my name to these boys at his table. Anyways, do you still think i should try to hint him? MORE HELP!
try and flirt with him, and see how he responds
try being a little more "close" than usual.
hey, keep me updated and ill help you too!
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i have always liked this kid matt & he likes me and we would be perfect for eachother -- and he said we will prob go out we just need time to develop... so what should i do? this kid dave likes me a lot.. should i tell him about matt and only like matt? or wait till i know we are gunna go out? i have no idea what to do!
tell him you would love to stay friends but you have your eye on another guy, and tell him not to be hurt.
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I know whenever you ask someone what to do if you have a major crush they say, just go for it and ask him/her out. Well... there's this guy that I've had my eye on for about 6 months. I reeeeeaaally like him and I'm pretty sure he likes me. We spend a lot of time together during lunch and nutrition, and walking to classes. My friends don't know I like him but think he finds excuses to hang out with me. I would really like to be able to go out with him or at least tell him how i really feel, but what if he doesnt feel the same way about me?? I'll be totally humiliated and not to mention, he has a huge mouth and would tell ALL his friends. Therefore causing me suffering 8 hours a day! Should i wait for him to make the move, or take the iniciative and go for it (risking my huge rep)?
HELP!
well, this depends. on alot of things.
first, do you truly really like this guy?
if you like him enough, you wont mind if he tells all his buddies and you'll be humiliated.
i guess i would say, go for it, but i know that things are easier said than done.
maybe, you can ask him what he truly thinks of you. also, ask him if he likes anyone.
well, good luck!
hope i helped,
chynna.
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It feels like everything I do doesn't make a difference. I always feel like screaming and running away. I feel like running away from my problems all the time, but I know I will never get anything solved if I do get away. What should I do when I get down like that? Also, when I feel like running away...I feel like killing myself, too. What should I do?
ive felt like that many times before.
the only thing to do is get out your anger with something...
find out something you love to do.
people take out their feelings on lots of things. they arent always the best ways but here are some examples:
some people eat, or dont eat.
they cut themselves
they play sports
they play instruments
they clean, or dont clean
they...
talk or dont talk.
act happy on the outside but are really sad on the inside.
i hope you feel better because i know how hard it is.
dont run away. it wont get you anywhere.
trust me.
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i really like this boy. and were friends...but im not sure of how to get him to like me. i mean...i dont know what to do. i need help. how can i get his attention? how do i ask him out. let alone, tell him i like him?
well first, see if he makes any kind of sign he likes you- like flirting, being confortable with you, and whatnot. if your his friend, you should know weather he likes another girl or not, right?
if he doesnt, a good way too ask him or something without him freaking out is pretty easy,haha ive said this before, but i think you should hold the following conversation:
you:hey can you give me some advice?
boy:sure
you:i think i like my friend, but i think that if i tell him, ill freak him out, what should i do?
yeah... uhh... if he or you get into the subject of you guys together then go for it and ask him.
one thing ive learned is that guys like girls with confidence.
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Hello, I'm 14 and am a Freshman.
Recently I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 weeks. We have been getting along great except for one thing. I have been cheating on him. (I know I hate myself for doing so)
It all started when this guy I was friends with told me he liked me. I felt really bad for him because he always got picked on. So I told him I liked him because I did at the time. And after a week I started going around secretly after school kissing the guy every day. (I had to make stupid excusses for my boyfriend)
Today I stopped because I knew it was getting way out of control. ( I couldn't believe I was doing this to my boyfriend!!! And yesterday I almost french-kissed the guy! It turned out feeling terrible because I wasn't comfortable with him and it was his first time kissing a girl that way!) Today I wasn't late so I went outside and waited for my bus. Me and my boyfriend were having a great time playing around! But the guy I stopped kissing got mad at me because I wouldn't kiss him anymore and now started crying because I'm with my boyfriend. (I know how the guy feels, but don't I have a right to be with my boyfriend!) I feel like I am limited to what I can do with my boyfriend becuase I want to kiss him, but the guy is aways around to see and I don't want to hurt his feelings anymore!
Please help! I wish I had never cheated on him and I don't know what to do so the guy wont be mad at me anymore...
iam sorry, i know this probably doesnt help, but you really shouldnt have done that in the first place, i mean, seriously, would u like it if that happened to you?
well, sorry for the lecure.
chynna.
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Um...there's this guy at me school who I like. He's really popular, but he's SOO nice. Everybody likes him, I think. Anyway, I can really see us together, and I can really see us falling in love, you know? But the thing is I know he likes this other girl (which I'm fine with, despite a small twinge of jealousy) and I'm afraid he wouldn't like me because I'm not really in his group. I'm kind of a loner, but all my friends are his friends too (heck, everybody is his friend lol) and I was just wondering...how do I make him notice me? Not that he doesn't now...but, you know, I want him to get to know me. Know who I am. How should I go by this, without truly flirting? I don't want to make him uncomfortable.
13/F
talk to him alot, become better friends then now.
hope i helped,
chynna.
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Like the title says...
This is just an opinion thing. I'm curious as to what you all think. I'm turning 17 in 5 days, if it matters ^_^.
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and I still feel like I have a crush on him...
Lol I mean, I get nervous before picking up the phone and dialing his number...I get butterflies in my stomach when I see him...I hear his voice and I smile...
We're totally in love, and all that. He's told me he feels the same way, though not quite as strongly as I do (the "crush" thing, not the love thing.) Is it weird that I still have a crush on the guy I've been with for almost a year?
its called love :-)
its like the same feeling you get when you have a crush
haha, i hope this helps,
chynna
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OK so i'm at a new school and like i made this one fried ... lets call her susan. So susan invited me over to her house for halloween with some of her friends too. I don't know for sure but i've heard her friends talking about doing drugs and all (not planning it for halloween but talking about it in like the past sence) I'm pretty sure Susan doesn't do drugs or anything but i do think that she drinks. I don't do any of that stuff, nor do I want to. Do you think I should go to her house and take the chance? PLEASE help me... i'll rate EVERYONE!
go to the party and if you see anyhting you dont like/ you feel unconfortable leave.
hope this helps
--chynna
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