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I'm 17 and i've been through a lot for my age.Anyone can talk to me about anything and I will always be here for you!!!
Any questions will do ...I can take anything.
I will never judge you.If i do not know the answers i will try my best to research it and find the answer for you. i will never say i know something if i don't...i'll always be here for you!!
E-mail: froggytunes13@yahoo.com
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LagunaBabe
mmkay. so i have this friends shes like my sister and she just got a boyfriend i like him and all btu hes way too out of control he'll try and get me in to stuff like getting high and getting wasted im just not in to that stuff. shes says she loves him and is thinkin about "giving hersefl" to him and i think hses too young. not to mention shes flirts w/ every guy in sight, shes changed i dont know if i can still call her my friend anymore,i dont like who shes become. what should i do? (link)
this would be a good time to have a talk with her. now that doesn't mean that she will listen to you .but if you two or as close as you say, then she should listen to your advice. the best thing to do is to talk to her. ask her what will happen if she gets pregnant??tell her what she thinks is love is really lust. because it is. there's a 65% chance that you will find love in high school.or anyone in that matter. a girl is way more mature than guys.so what she thinks is love he probably doesn't think it is.


Well, for starters, I'm a freshman in high school (15/f). I like this guy in one of my classes, and he's really nice and we talk and all, but my problem is that he's a junior. I'm not worried about him using me or anything bad like that. I just don't know if he would consider going out with a freshman. Should I still go for him, or give up before I start? I'm probably going to go for him anyway, I just wanted to see what others think. (link)
listen, i'm a junior. but when i was a freshman, my first boyfriend was a junior too!!! it's all in the way you carry yourself as a person.have some confidence. after all age is just a number these days. you may have trouble staying with him..when he goes to college. that's what happened to me. but as long as you have trust in your relationship, then it will all work out.


I am 13/f.
5 feet
136 lbs
and i really want to be an actress/singer either on broadway or in movies or commercials. i can sing and act but iv nevr taken a dance lesson (i CAN sort of dance, with time) my family doesnt hav a lot of money, so iv only been in school plays and 2 plays at my local theatre. any good tips about how to be a star? (link)
wow...me too!!! i want to be on broadway too!!
you should try and get any scholarships that you can...is there a showchoir at your school??
after i graduate, i'm going to new york to try out....i don't have a lot of dance experience either except i'm in showchoir. if you go to NYU then they'll teach you . just do anything and everything that has to do with music.


my boyfriend wants me to give him a lap dance. i would but i feel kind of weird. any suggestions? (link)
if he likes you maybe even loves you ...then he will understand if you feel uncomfortable doing that for him. just talk to him.i know it's hard sometimes, but that's the only way that he will understand.




13/f 8th grade

all the guy at my school go for looks in a girl....that's it! that is sooo wrong! as they get older will they change and start realizing that looks don't matter....or will they always be like that? (link)
looks do matter...but it shouldn't be what matters most. girls mature much faster than boys.boys are much easily influenced by the media. i can't tell you for a fact that all of the boys in your school will grow up and mature and realize the good qualities in a girl besides look. just be their friend and be patient.most of them should in maybe a couple more years.they won't always be like that.


Ok so i need help.Theres a boy i like.And we flirt alot but im not pretty to like make him want me.(as in going out). So i just need some tips.What should i do?



Thanks!!
Lindsey (link)
listen, never say you're not pretty enough. i know i don't know you or anything, but i mean the prettiest thing that you could do ....here it comes: BE YOURSELF.he is flirting with you!!he must think you're cute if he is. just be yourself and he will like you .act like somebody else or try and be something you're not, then you'll just get rejected in the long run.


What can I do to be more open about myself with my boyfriend? (link)
well i know how that is not being very open.
listen i mean if ya want go places that he likes going to ...and do things that you like doing.
don't worry about it ...it's a new thing...you guys will warm up to each other in no time...just give it time.




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