Well my name is leesle and I am here to help anybody who needs the help.
I want to study to be a rape crisis counselor.
i am very interested in hearing your stories and will give the best advice i think is possible.
please rate me if you ask me a question and i respond.
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when a boy finger's you for the first time..
will it hurt? also wouldnt it be awkward like what are you suppose to do when he's doing that and why does it seem like thats what boys always want to do, they try to go down your pants first?! also isnt it weird when a girl gets wet. i get wet easily, keep in mind ive never had sex or really dont anything physical except kiss guys. but this guy i like, when he rubs me or tries to get down my pants i get really wet and i hate it! i feel kind of embarassed and also it feels disgusting and he doesnt know im wet either because i always push his hand away, because im scared for him to finger me and since i shave down there its not always completely smooth so i always wonder what he is going to think, like gross! or what? (link)
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yes, it will probably hurt in the beginning but it will bring you a great deal of pleasure also.
dont worry about the guy getting grossed out. he will like the fact that your wet. that's his goal anyways. he wants you to be wet down there. that means he is doing his job correctly.
and the whole shaving part. well if you dont like the fact that your never completely smooth then just trim. having hair is completely normal. just make sure to keep it at a good level.
hope i helped and wish you the best of luck.
-litt0lkv :)
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So i have been going out with this guy for about 5 months now, and hes my first boyfriend. I never pictured myself going out with a boy for 5 months when im 13. I can still stay in this relationship, but has it been too long? But i really love him. I was telling my friend the other day that i want to break up with him just becuase we are going out for a long time. She said to do whatever i want. But im really stressed about it and asking myself so many questions! Like, what if another boy likes me but isnt going to show it because im already going out with someone? Will he get mad at me for breaking up with him because its for a stupid reason? So just a little bit of suggestions would help! thanks in advanced =] (link)
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it is a dumb reason to break up with him.
if you think its dumb then hes most likely going to think the same thing.
think about it...
what if another guy wants to ask you out after you break up with your boyfriend but he finds out that you break up with guys just because.
and yes i understand you are too young. and the longer you are in a relationship the harder it is to get out of one.
well just do what you think is best.
even if it does mean breaking someone else's heart.
what truly matters is what you think and feel.
you dont want to be in a relationship when you actually feel like you dont want to be with that person.
because then you will be lying to yourself and to your boyfriend.
hope i helped and wish you the best of luck.
-litt0lkv :)
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okay. so theres these 2 guys that i like. one of them i've known for like ever, but we are not exactly close. and im never shure if he likes me or not.
the other. i started talking to on the internet. and he lives out close to me. hes really sweet, and he asked me out. i've never actually met him, so i told him that i would have to meet him first.
well today after school. i noticed the first guy looking at me and smiling. but he didnt say anything to me. while the other guy is trying to figure out when we can meet. and im afraid of meeting the 2nd guy and going with him and the 1st guy wanting to go out.
i dont know what i would do. and it scares me. i think that if the 1st guy asked me out. i would extremely consider it. but i dont want to hurt the other guy. =[.
help me. please. (link)
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well...
i think you should consider the feelings of the guy you actually know in person first.
i mean you may feel like you know this guy you met online but think about it. you dont actually know somebody until you have actually conversated with them in person.
think about the facts.
what if the guy you met online:
*is not what he seems to be
* looks nothing of what you thought hed look like
*is not even his age
so just think about the facts and choose what you think is best.
i would advice you to go the first guy.
atleast you know that hes real. =]
hope that i helped and wish you the best.
-litt0lkv
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14/f (SORRY ITS LONG)
So there is this kid in my grade, Let's call him Connor. Last year we talked once or twice and that's about it. Then when this year's school year began he came up to me and we started talking like we've been friends forever, and ever since we've been completely close. He waits for me at the end of the day and we walk to our lockers together, We walk to the buses together, and hang out at Reck alot together. Throughout the time we've been hanging out I've developed a crush I guess you could say. Well not a crush, I'm positive I like him. A LOT. We call each other our "bestest friends" And he's always giving me high fives and nice smiles in the hallway. One day he came up to me at lunch and started playing with my hands I guess you could say, He told me he'd meet me outside the lunchroom so we can walk to our next period like we usually do. When he left my friend Addison came up to me and she was like "That's weird" and I was like "what?" And she was like, "Connor, he was like flirting with you yet he constantly texts this girl in another school, Jackie"
I was pretty dissapointed but I shrugged it off and tried to ignore it and push it in the back of my mind hanging out with him like normal. It was going great and I never heard of this Jackie girl until today I was walking with my friend Dana in the hallway (She's really good friends with Connor too) After he gave me the usual high five in the hallway Dana was like "You know he likes that girl in the other school right?"
That wasn't so hard to forget. I mean at first when I heard he texts her constantly I was like Okay No Big Deal he doesn't like her. But now that I hear he does, I'm bummed. And completely confused, It seemed like he liked me so much.
For example, He waited for me at my last period class like usual, We started walking down the hall when his friend called him over, He told me to go on without me and He'd catch up. I did as I was told and as I was walking some Weirdo kid comes up and starts hitting on me, He was saying some stuff that was making me uncomfortable. He was like "how are you doin?" When Connor comes up out of no where, goes in his face and was like "How are YOU doing" The kid instantly ran away. And now me and Connor laugh about that. It was like two weeks ago and I haven't seen the kid since and Connor was like, "I saw him before I was about to smack him" And I was like, "I don't even remember what he looks like" And he was like, "I'll always remember that face"
See what I mean? He likes Jackie, But yet he's acting like he likes me!!?! And I don't know if I should move on from him or what!? Maybe he really means 'Bestest friends' And i'm just getting mixed signals? Argg. Help!!! (link)
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i can understand why your confused.
let me break it down to you on what i think may be going on.
he MAY or MAY NOT like this Jackie chick. but it doesnt mean he doesnt like you.
maybe hes the flirty type of guy. you know the usual smile, highfive, and casual touching.
maybe he just really cares about you in a "best friend" kind of way.
maybe you think he likes you but in his eyes hes just being a really friendly friend
im not saying he doesnt like you, because maybe he does. but if you stop and think about it maybe its just the fact that you like him that gets you all happy when he does these nice things to you.
some friends just act extra friendly with their girl friends.
but if you really want to know how he feels about you ask around.
tell somebody to ask him how he feels about you.
and maybe then you can figure out whats going on and stop being confused.
hope i helped and i wish you the best of luck. =]
-litt0lk
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15/ female.
hello everyone! well, i have noooooooooo luck what so ever with guys. every guy that i have truely liked, it always either never works, ends bad, or doesnt happen. i don know whats wrong with me!! i know im not ugly cause i have a lot of guys always hitting on me and telling me im pretty but, they always just try to get in my pants, and im not all about that.
i been wanting to have a real relationship for a while now. im sick of just hook ups. and ughh! i don know , i know of a few guys that i would love to go out with, and im cool with them, but idk how to get them to like me.
i don know ! i just need some advice. thank you guyssss (link)
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i understand what your going through.
it sucks too.
but if you interested in a guy just let him know your interested and find out if hes interested in you.
make sure hes not a player or that he just wants a hookup though.
so make sure its worth it and get to know the guy before you start having a relationship.
best of luck
-littolkv
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i have mad pimples on my leg. ill provide a link.
what can i do to get rid of these? they hurt and their annoying. honestly, i find this embarissingg! please help! (sorry the picture is kind of blurry, my camera phones kinda dirty)
Linkk:
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=1y8p50&s=4 (link)
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completely normal
just keep your leg clean and put a anti-acne cream on it
they will be gone before you know it.
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i am 13/f :)
Well... there are 2 guys, and they are both cute... and well, one of them is really funny and the other is really cute! Is it normal to like 2 guys???? And, if not, I DONT KNOW WHICH 1 I REALLY LIKE ... :(
thats my first question. Second, if i want to like actually INTERACT with them (i dont chat with either 1 much... and they are in almost every class!),how can i like get a conv started??? Like, should i just go up to him or WHAT???
thnx for ever1 who will (try to) help!!!!! (link)
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aawww...
i remember those days.
liking two guys at the same time is totally normal.
shoot i like two guys right now. =]
haha
but yes just go up to them and be like so how was your weekend. just dont come up with a weird subject like nice socks or something haha.
well hope it works and i hope you figure out which of the two cuties you like best. =]
best of luck
litt0lkv
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how do you make a layout? (link)
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well it all depends on what kind of layout you are talking about
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does anyone know any good quotes that are kind of like the one from little manhattan:
"I couldn't escape them, all the little things I left unsaid, I was drowning in them."
or
like this:
"What the heart has once known, it shall never forget"/ "Whats meant to be will find it's way". (link)
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i know many quotes but if you want a website full of them go to
http://quotegarden.com
hope i helped. =]
litt0lkv
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Is it possible to get your period 2 times in a month? I got mine the 14-19 of September and then I started it again the 27 through right now. Is it because the 27 is so close to October or what..?
Thanks in advance! (link)
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yes its perfectly normal
you will probably not have a period until early november because you have had it twice this month. its ok. dont freak out, =]
litt0lkv
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16/f
Alright, well i like this guy and we talk every night for an hour or 2 on the phone. This has been going on for about 2 weeks now. Well whenever my friends ask him about me and stuff, he tells them different things. Like, one day he told one friend that we are about to date, and then yesterday he told a dif. friend that he dosen't know. Also, today i was walking out of school and i looked out of the corner of my eye and he was right behind me. He dosen't know that i saw him, he was only like 5 inches away and he didn't even say hi and i am pretty sure he could see me!! i am so confused, he talks to me on the phone but at school, he dosen't, he has before but not much. I don't get it! i am so confused! His name is steven and mine is cassie! (link)
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hey cassie,
well he probably is too shy in person.
i know what you mean.
me and this boy used to talk in the phone for up to 5 hours sometimes!
but at school i was to shy to conversate with him like i did on the phone.
just go right out and say it.
dont be shy.
hope i helped.
litt0lkv
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My hair is naturally a darkish blonde and they seem to match my hair but the shade of them drastically changes when I'm in certain lights. Sometimes they look brown and sometimes they look blonde. I'm thinking about darkening them but I'm not sure..
Here's a picture of me:
http://i35.tinypic.com/11vo50i.jpg
I just hate the way it looks when I'm under that kind of light and I think darker eyebrows would make my face look more defined. What do you guys think? Also bear in mind I usually have my hair dyed chesnut brown, my dye has just faded. (link)
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In my opinion i think you should go for it.
Your eyebrows do seem like they would look different in certain lighting.
You should go to a salon to get it done though.
DO NOT do it yourself at home because you dont know what kind of dye to use and if you read the label on certain dye it says not to dye your eyebrows because it might cause blindness.
hope i helped. =]
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16/f
Over the summer I met a guy and he was adorable and i fell for him so badly, but he lived about 40 minutes away. So i saw him only 3 times. And
i just started at a new school and i met a guy named Ryan. He's a junior and he's really cute. Ryan looks and acts just like the guy i met over the summer. I developed an awful crush on Ryan and i think it may be because he is just like the summer boy. So one time in class Ryan asked me what my name was and what town i was from. Then later that week he said hi to me. Then this week he came up to me at lunch and started talking to me then he went back to his table and asked me if i wanted to sit with him but i said no thanks. The day after his whole table was telling me to sit there and i just said no again. And then today nothing happened between me and Ryan. It was almost like he didnt notice me. Im so confused and i want to know what hes thinking. I want to know if hes interested in me. So if anyone has any advice or ideas, please help me. Thanks :) (link)
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Well you just cant approach Ryan because he reminds you so much of the guy you met during the summer.
but...
you may approach him if you think you like him for who he is.
i think he probably does like you but feels hurt at the fact that you rejected him twice by not sitting at lunch with him.
he probably thinks that you are not interested because you probably seemed like it when you rejected his offer.
he probably still likes you and the best thing for you to do that i think is good is to approach him if you like him.
maybe a little hi in the hallway or go ask him if you can sit with him at lunch.
i dont know maybe it will work.
hope i helped and if he really is THAT hot dont let him get away. =]
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im using one of those myspace theme layouts.. and i want to make the box with about me and who id like to meet.. like the "blurbs" box.. wider. how can i make it wider with the myspace themes layout? i know how to do it with regular layouts, but theres no code to change the width with the myspace themes layouts. thanks! (link)
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im pretty sure there is a way. only that you ahve to know your html and make sure you do the right thing. i think if you go where it says backround and check the heights and witdth numbers you can change them up. good luck. and if your having a lot of trouble ask the girl who runs this site. www.myspacelyts.net
she is a myspace genius. =]
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hello,
i just wondering if you can get ill, example being sick and dizzy spells, i swallowed his cum, he penis tasted funny he later told me sprayed his penis i also noticed his penis was rough at the side but then it could been my lipstick, could this mean that ive just got a bad gut pains, would this normal?
thanks (link)
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Actually this is kind of normal. alot of people get ill after having sex their first time or even giving oral sex.
i learned in a class im taking that it all depends on the person. so dont freak out.but like the person before me said next time tell him not to do that. or even better. shower first. =]
hope i helped.
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does it hurt when your cherry pops? and how do you know if it popped or not? (link)
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it hurts when your having sex. and you kno your cherry has popped whenever you start bleeding.
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The first time having sex,
is it expected to be tight??
Cuz i am rlllly tight...
17/f (link)
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yes it is
unless your not a virgin.
but first time REALLy tight is oompletely normal
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15/f
i dyed my hair about a month ago to dark brown trying to get it back to a normal color because before it was like brassy and orangy. it looked good and now it's fading again. i don't know what to do my hair will not hold color for more than a month and i don't want to damage my hair even more by coloring it because i straighten it too. is there anyway to like strip the color or take the color out? or anything i can do to make it hold the color?
also i don't think i get enough protein, could that be why? because my hair won't grow either. if so do they make like protein pills or anything?
thanks for any advice! (link)
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there might be many reasons why your hair doesnt grow. it might not be just the whole protein thing.
if you straighten your hair ALOT [which you shouldnt by the way] then thats one of the reasons it doesnt grow. another might be you dying your hair. and the other not having enough protein.
first start off by buying a hair damaging shampoo and conditioner. dyed hair shouldnt be washed every day. your suppose to wash your hair every other day but you can condition every day. that way your hair will have natural oils and it will actually look healthy.
secondly- when straightning hair you should only run the iron once throught the hair but really slowly so it will come out perfectly straight. and dont turn the iron all the way up. buy a hair damage control spray for straighting hair so your hair wont get as damaged. and let your hair air dry before straightning it. dont ever blow dry. your just double damaging it
third of all- you can strip your hair to take the color out. maybe your hair is naturally too dark. and the pigment is eally dominant over the color your tryin to get. ask your hairstylist.
fourth of all- if all this does not work then go to the whole protein thing. which i really doubt will be necessary. but these foods aer extra high in protein when eaten properly. dont eat toomuch because too much proteinis worst than not enough.
THESE ARE THE TOP 24 PROTEIN FOODS
1. Chicken, duck, turkey - meat only, which is either cooked, stewed, roasted, simmered
2. Fish halibut, salmon, haddock, rockfish, tuna - cooked, dry heat
3. Fast foods like hamburger, hotdog, cheeseburgers, taco, submarine sandwich with tuna salad or roast beef
4. Cottage cheese, ricotta
5. Lamb, veal (lean only)
6. Soybeans, cooked without salt
7. Pork, lean only
8. Beef, separable lean only
9. Crustaceans, cooked
10. Mollusks, scallops cooked
11. Wheat flour
12. Peas 13. Oat bran, raw
14. Beans
15. Cowpeas
16. Spaghetti
17. Beef macaroni
18. Rice, raw enriched
19. Potatoes
20. Milk shakes
21. Yoghurt
22. Corn meal
23. Chickpeas
24. Pie-crust
well hope i helped. =]
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15/f
I have recently taken 11 depressed quizs, typed in are you depressed in google and took them, and all of them said i was "serevely depressed" or basically tell me to get help.
A lot has been going on lately and its really getting tooooo much for me to handle, and i honestly don't trust myself alone because im afraid ill do something ill regret.
If i talked to my doctor would/could he put me on anti-depressants, i dont want my mom to know, and i dont want to go to a therapist because i dont like talking to people about how i feel. and i dont know what else to do, because i always feel sad even when it could be one of the most happiest days of my life i still feel empty and fake like this isnt my life or something.
So my question is would my doctor be able to prescibe medication to me, since i am only 15, and without my mother knowing?
**P.S. No im not trying to just get on some medication, drugs are what screwed up life so bad in the first place, and no i wasnt on them my step dad was. (link)
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if suicide is really coming to your mind wwwaayyy morethan it should than you absolutely have to go to the doctor. i reccomend you goin to your school counselor and telling her everything . but tell her to be very discrete about everything. tell her your situation and ask her in what ways she/he can help you.
then,
he/she will probably reccomend you in tellin your mother. but dont worry after some long talks with your counselor everything will seem easier. ive been there . and it is hard. but with a little help and somenodys patience your going to get better soon.
hope i helped and good luck with everything.=]
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14/f. theres this guy in one of my classes who like always says random stuff to me like "i love your ears" and "can i touch your eyebrows". and "i love you ____ (my name)" all stuff like that. hes this like really laid back i guess "cool", asian kid. and the problem is that it leaves be confused. like idk whether hes just joking, or he means it and hes just trying to be my friend. cause i dont want to be like agreeing to it when he was just kidding but i dont want to be cold and lose a friend.. but i really have no idea so it bugs me and i try to avoid him so he doesnt say stuff like that. like idk how to respond so im usually like.. "okay." but what else could i say? i mean how can i tell whether hes joking or not too? if he genuinely wants to be my friend? geeeez help please. (link)
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well...
i think you shouldnt be rude to him. just give it time and if he keeps on tellin you random stuff just asj him straight up. just be like . whats up with you always saying random stuff. he'll most likely be surprised you actually asked him this . but its better than nothin. well. hope i helped.
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