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okay....... so i really like this guy but im not sure that he likes me back. I mean i have given him everything. He knows i like him and that he can talk to me whenever he wants. (My friends thinks he does like me btw)but the problem is that he doesnt tell ME that he does. when anyone asks him how he feels about me all he does is stammer and say uhh-uh-uhhh idk. Does he say that becuz he doesnt want to hurt my feeliongs? pleezze help
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ok i would talk to him your self and not get other people to do it for you thats the only way your ever gonna know is if you do it your self maybe he says idk cause he feel uncomterible talkin to other people about his feelings
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So there is this boy my best friend likes, and well me and her see him around a lot, the only problem is we have never talked to him because were both too shy, well there is a game tomarow he is going to be in. I want your advice do you think we should go to this game or do you think he would think we were stalking him?
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if you have never followed him sure but if you have i wouldnt go and if you and your friend both like him thats a disaster waiting to happen
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hey.
i like this guy. lately, i've been talking to him more.
example:
day one - (he has big bandage on finger) "what happened?" - "oh i cut myself by accident" - "oh that sucks"
day two - he- "where are the books?" - "the books for the labs?" - "yeah" - "here" (i had him a book) "thanks"
and he's been talking to me first now. we always make eye contact & i'm scared i'm moving too quickly. are there any signs that guys give when he feels like you're stalkerish? & today at dismissal, he was walking near me & i just don't know if i am coming off as stalkerish or hot! i can't tell if he's like, "uhmm does that girl like me?" or "omg i think she likes me!" how do you know? should i take a break from flirting so much?
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stop for a little while and then see how things go he might like you but he dont know it so take a break then casually start talkin to him and see how he acts
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ok so me and my best guy friend are friends with benefits. we had a big fight about 2 weeks ago and we just started talking/screwing around again. he only talks to me online, through texts or when we're alone. im kind of confused why he does this, he used to talk to me all the time no matter where we were. are all friends with benefits relationships like this or just mine? dont tell me to stop being friends with benefits with him. we both tried doing that but we have this strange connection where we cant keep our hands off each other. how do i get him to talk to me in public (link)
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im not trying to stop you from being friends with him but thats not how you should be treated if he cant talk to you when your around other people just only when yall are alone doesnt that seem like hes using you im not trying to hurt your feelings in anyway but ive seen this happen all to many times
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Ok, so Eric a kid one grade higher then me but in the grade im saposed to be in and I hang out. Not after school just on the bus.. but when we hang out on the bus i never want to leave..
I donno its the pointless things that mean the most. Ohh that sounded a lot better in my head.
Like our taste of music the complete oppisite like he listens to 50 Cent and i listen to secondhand serenade... emo rap... umm NO. And i made fun of him today for it :) But when i look in his eyes.. i feal weightless and forget about everything and at that very moment the only thing i wonder is if he's looking in mine..
I never told him i liked him like I planned ofcoarse I chikened out. But i donno maybe i should. we goes days to a time without talking or seeing eachother juz of grades and his father. (divorced parents..) and it sucks being away that long but I just wanna ask him like did you think about me and see what he says ya know?
So i got a couple questions
1.) Do you think he likes me.. I dont think he does. But when were together we dont talk to anyone else just eachother and laugh at the same things so im donno.
2.) Should I tell him I like him??
3.) OR do the simplest thing and just ask if he thought about me over the weekend and see what he says but if i do that how?
so many questions so please help! (link)
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ok girl heres what you do first you ask him if hes missed you joking and see how he acts if he says yeah then you keep flirting for a little bit and see if he flirts back if he does after a few days tell him you like him if he doesnt feel the same atleast you know you tryed
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I like my guy best friend. Flatout. He has liked me for 3 years and i kept rejecting him. Now when i like him, hes not responding. Its really confusing, but im not sure whether he likes me or not. About a week ago, he asked me to have sex with him. I obviously said no, and asked him after if he liked anyone. He simply replied no. I was really shocked because i thought just maybe he would see ME! Anyway, hes always looking and me and poking me and talks to me when he has the chance. Which is hardly ever! But really im not sure whether he likes me or not! He has liked me for sooo long and its weird how hes acting towards me. He wouldnt look at me in the eye anymore but i still get a sense that he likes me. How do i know?! (link)
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ok you need to sit and have a little talk with him and ask him why he liked you but not anymore and if all he wants is to get in your pants then he aint worth your time and you might wanna move on before u get into deep trust me i know from experience but before you go and move on make sure he dont like you
its best just to be up front with him about your feelings that way you aint waiting around
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I went away on a week long school trip. When we were there, i had a fling with a guy even though i have a boyfriend. I had a crush on this guy for a few months, like a year ago. But now i have a boyfriend, and we've been together for 8 months. I know he loves me, and i love him too, but since i had a fling with this guy on my trip, i can't stop thinking about him. I'm torn between both guys, 'cause i know the fling guy would want a realationship, he's liked me for 2 years. I really have feelings for both of them, i've been thinking about this for the last 3 weeks, and i decided to stay with my boyfriend, but then when i go to school and see the other guy, i get the butterflies in my stomach, and i can't stop thinking about the way his lips felt on mine. i see myself having a future with my current boyfriend, but i can't help but wonder what it would be like with this new guy. I can't have both!!!!!I don't know!!!!!!!!Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated. (link)
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ok no you cant have it both ways and playing them isnt very nice you need to decide who makes you the happiest then go with that if you truely love your boyfriend you wouldnt have feelings for someone else so theres a reason why you have feelings for this guy so maybe you should take a chance but you also need to realize what you have with your boyfriend and if its worth throwing it away.
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13/female.
Let's call him David. David is in my first hour and I've like him for about 3 and 1/2 months. The first 3 months he had a girlfriend named Helena but they broke up. What I didn't know is he liked me during that time and I was one of the reasons he broke up with her. When he was going to tell me he liked me, this girl Rachel that he kinda liked told him she liked him, so he asked her out instead.
Now, my friends the messenger between us because we are both really shy, but what I know now is that he will ask me out at the end of the school year when he moves. If he dumps her now he already has 3 guys swearing they'll beat him up because they are really protective of Rachel. but I have to talk to him face to face about it.
Now the problem is, I don't know what to say. At all. It's been really awkward in first hour and we haven't really said anything. But I want to say something to him tomorrow.
How do I begin talking then just start talking about it?
HELP PLZ & THX
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ok girl i would start off just hey how you doing??? getting into a conversation about stuff like that then bring up how hes with rachel slowly work your way into telling him you like him and when you tell him u like him be like look i really like and even if you dont feel the same i just want you to know how i feel and see where it goes from there
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