ive been talking ot my guy for two months. not quite bf and gf yet. theres quite and age difference (5 years) im 17. since theres a gap, we question our relationship but he is like nervous to meet my fam parents, i told them hes 22. i was thinking about bringing him to my dads 50th birthday in october. is that a bad idea?
I think if you like him then you should definetly introduce him to your family but it's probably not a good idea on your dads 50th just cause thats kind of a amily thing anyways and it could turn into a big deal. Hope this helped:)
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im very deep in a pickle. ok ill try to make this short, but we know how that goes. i was with this guy for 14 months. we were very much in love we could sware up and down we were going to be together forever. i still think so. he was a great boyfriend. however, there was a lot of stuff that made the situation extremely difficult and one-sided for me. several times i considered taking a break so i could just breath and have a little fun ya know. but i never did. finally, at the start of school, i met this guy who i started to kind of like. something else was coming up that would make things between my boyfriend and i even more difficult and one sided, so i finally called a break. it was sooo painful and broke both our hearts in half, but i think it was for the best right now. this was roughly 2 weeks ago. this new guy confessed he liked me so were "talking" and flirting i guess however i want nothing more than casual dating with him [nothing serious] and i was planning on gettin back with my boyfriend in the future. the problem is, now that 'something else' happened and our situation will be much worse off than it was before, and i feel that because of that, itd be useless to get back together with him, because it was the reason i called a break in the first place. on the other hand, i cant imagine living the rest of my life without him. i know its kind of hard to understand given i dont give much info about the situation, but the whole thing was just extremely stressful for me and even my mom didnt like me to be in that situation. i have no problem casually seeing this other guy for awhile just so i can breath a little bit, but i just dont know what to do about the rest. any good, mature advice would be appreciated...
Okay heres the thing, this first guy who you really liked and really liked you is probably really hurting. It's not going to make things much better if you keep dating this other guy casually. In away your leading one guy on and almost using him and leaving another guy heart broken. You should break up with the casual guy and get back with the real lover guy immediatly. Mending a serious relationship after ending it is hard work and although he'll take you back it will be hard for him so be prepared but if you really love him then everything will eventually go back to normal and things will be fine. Hope that helped :)
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