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what are some jobs for a 13 year old? *PLEASE* dont say anything like babysitting, walking dogs, cutting grass, watering plants, helping around the house, bake sale, lemonade stand, or stuff like that. kind of like real jobs. thanks

in most states the age that you are eligible for a "real" job is 14 however if you live by any farm stands or something like that then you could go do that but i dont know where you live like what state so yea your options are pretty limited. but maybe your state laws are different
-katie

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14/f
going into 9th grade

hey well i'm 14 now and i still don't have my period. i know it's normal, but my sister got hers about my age and my mom got it when she was like 12. so you know how people say you're supposed to get discharge about like a year before your period? well it's been way over a year, maybe even 2 and nothing's happening still. and also you're supposed to get it a little bit after your boobs start to grow? yeah well that's been about 2 years now. it's so annoying. it's not like i'm looking foward to it or anything, but practically like every girl my age has it already. even my bff who is like 85 pounds and tiny. i would have expected her to get it after me. but no. is there anything wrong with me? i don't want to talk about it with my mom or anything, because well, you don't know my mom. and also a doctor because i'm not open about this kinda stuff. any advice?

hey
yeah i mean i'm sure youll get it soon but trust me youre not missing out on anything great. you really only have to be worried if youre like 16 and still havent gotten it so yea i know it must be annoying to be like the only person left but if it helps my friend is 15 and she still hasnt gotten hers so just wait it out it will come soon enough. and yea im sure everyone is going to tell you that but at least you have boobs ;) lol my friend who is 15 still has like 0 boobs so look on the bright side you could be completely flat chested, so ou obviously are going to get it sometime soon and if it doesnt then maybe just go to your doctor? hope i helped
-katie

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13/f

I have a friend(B) and she has a friend(C). The problem, (B)'s friend, is my worst enemy. (B) and I are really good friends. Well, I kinda started hanging out with other people. I found out later, (B) hated the people I was hanging with. So I started to hang out with (B) more. Come to find out, (B) is friends with (C). (C) acts really nice to me. I got nervous because (C) is like really smart and i don't trust her. When (B) leaves (C) attacks me with all kinds of insults. She named them all to me. I told (B), but she doesn't believe me because every time (C) and (B) are both around I snap at (C) before she can snap at me. Well, (C) started insulting everybody. Even (B) behind her back. (B) won't believe me that (C) is starting fights and stuff. One day, I lost it and almost tore (C)'s face off. I didn't get in trouble because I made her swear not to tell. (B) doesn't know about this fight. What should I do? Stop hanging out with (B)?

i would probably stop being friends with b i mean seriously what kind of friend just blows you off and doesnt believe you. b and c should just go be friends with themselves since they are both pretty pathetic. go find some new better friends. you deserve friends who you can trust and who treat you like a friend
-katie

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If I do 200 or more crunches a day, how long will i take to see results?!

thanks :)

probably a month or so but just to let you know you build muscle faster when u do crunches every other day -the day that you take a rest it lets the muscle build trust me you get faster results if you do it every other day
-katie

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ok well i am getting a big dog but i dont want it to be bad at humping things. so what dogs are really bad at humping things, and whats the worst dog at humping things. plzz help, im gettin one tomorrow.

thx in advance

well if you dont want your dog humping things get a girl but if you do get a dog just get it neautored... this should solve the problem ;)
-katie

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what are some cute friendship analoggies(sp?) like this one:

"friends are like the bacon bits in the salad bowl of life"

thankss xo

www.holliesquotes.com

or,

www.photobucket.com go there and type in cute quotes in the search engine

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you know for a heart you just type in ♥
but whats the code for big letters?

then you have to write what you want to be big right next to the > or else it wont show up as being big. same for you do the same thing

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how old do u have to be to bag groceries @ a grocery store?

depends on the state but in ny its 14

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i just want o know how does sex feel and how does it feels when you first try it.And when you get finger does it hurt, and wat does it mean when they say a boy eat you up.And one more thing is it possible to give yourself an organsim and wat it feels like. thanks.

well you get an orgasm and it feels really good and when you first do it it does hurt cause uour vagina is getting stretched.

depending on how hard the guy is fingering you it might hurt if hes doing it wrong so you have to tell them when they are cause it can sometimes bleed.

when a guy eats you out it means they like are licking and kissing your vagina and stuff.

and yea it is possible to give yourself an orgasm guy do it by jacking off and girls finger themselves or use a dlido or vibrator
-katie

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For women what are the differences between the virgin women’s V TO a woman who had sex V?
And with men even if they get a blow job or hand job are they still a virgin?
And if you are gay or lesbian are you still a virgin? What is the differences? that if you had a orgasm you’re not a virgin no more or what??(when you play with yoursefl)

yeah i know i lost........

im assuming V=vagina so the difference between a virgins and a woman who has sex befores vaginas is that the woman who has has sex before,her hymen is like popped(if a guy popped a girls cherry it means that they had sex and he broke her hymen with his penis).also it might be alittle more stretched out. also some people arent even born with hymens and some girls pop theirs with tampons or with fingering themselves or whatever.

and yes if a guy has not has sexual vaginal intercourse hes still a virgin.

and if you are gay or a lesbian and you have not had sex with someone of the opposite sex then yes technically they are still a virgin but they have most likely lost their lesbian or gay virginity like im sure the lesbians hymen has been popped with a dlido or something.

every person has their own opinion about what losing their virginity means to them. everyone has their own definition technically however its when a person has ha vaginal intercourse with someone of the opposite sex
-katie

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do you know any quote that relates to players?

www.holliesquotes.com im sure youll find something here
-katie

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Does anyone know where i can get a really cute Bikini with an Anchor on it, that isn't too expensive???

Thanks so much!!!

wet seal. old navy, delias, american eagle, aeropostal... im sure one of them has what youre looking for
-katie

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i was wondering if girls like it when you shave your balls or not cause i am debateing if i want to shave them

i would rather have a guy with hair i think its kind of metro and less manly when they shave them
-katie

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14/f

Today and yesterday I've been feeling like I can't breathe as deeply as I want to. It's weird.


is this asthma or what?

if it helps- i'm not out of shape. slightly overweight, but in fairly good physical condition.

well i have excercise induced(sp?) asthma and that sound slike what i have but you should go to your doctor and ask them i mean no one here can really diagnose you.
-katie

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That have to do with like, having the person you like not like you back or saying that your over liking someone.

Ex:
Over it - Katherine McPhee.


Kinda like pop, pop-rock. yeah.
Any suggestions?
Thanks

kelly clarkson has songs like that and so does carrie underwood, and taylor swift hope i helped
-katie

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Whats the best one? I sweat a lot, and I'm sick of being embarresed of it. Thankss so much =]

i like lady speedstick, arm and hammer and secret but i dont like that gel crap it like dries up and starts to flake so get the normal kind of deodorant
-katie

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do you know any poems or wuote websites on depression like whn you want your friend back or like when your dealing with your life reallyHARD/rough

www.holliesquotes.com

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when does the average female lose her virginity?

probably between the ages of 14-20 the average is 16 though.

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where can you get pretty good icons besides iconators?

photobucket, its free you just have to make an account. (its www.photobuctet.com by the way)
-katie

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ok i want a myspace, im 14 and i think im old enough to know what is out there. my mom has been thinking about it for like 3 days and still picks out all the negative things about it, there are more positive. what should i do to help my mom know im old enough to have one?

well, i have a myspace and im 15 when i got it i didnt even ask my mom but later on she asked if i had one and i said yes mine is set to private, so only my friends can see mine maybe if you tell your mom that you will make yours private so no rapists or whatever can look at yours that will make her feel more comfortable with it. also theres a setting so that if someone friend requests you they have to know your last name. so even if someone you didnt know wanted to friend request you they couldnt.
hope i helped
-katie

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