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#1 Not looking for a "Stop we can help you" Solution
#2 Not even sure if im going to go through with it.
(will know in about 2 weeks)
#3 -=Looking for fast painless ways to die.=- (not sure exactly how to get a real gun but im sure i could find a way.)
#4 Thanks ever so much!

Please no spam or #1 {Thanks} (link)
Don't you have something in your life, even the smallest thing that you care enough about not to leave? A pet? A family? Friends? Anything? Even though I don't know you and I won't ever meet you most likely, I wont let you do this. I used to have suicidal thoughts, so did one of my freinds. It was because she thought she was too fat.
Why are you doing this? Find a happy place. Up in a tree or something and bring a notebook, a pencil, your live self, and a bottle of water. Sit outside in nature and feel the wind, see the leaves blowing in it, all those little bugs that mean nothing to you but if you look really close, you can see others that want to help it.
Find a song that makes you happy, mine is Show Goes On and Wavin Flag by K'NANN. Write how you feel in a poem or however you want it. Take a day to just let it be about YOU being HAPPY. I live everyday to it's fullest, and I love my life compared to when I wanted to kill myself.
Please, if you can't find your happy place or something or someone that cares about you or that you care about, email me. casi.craig@cox.net Thanks :)


I love to wear lip gloss, but I don't have any money to afford it(I'm too young for a job), Is there any way for me to make my own lip gloss, like with sugar or something? (link)
You could ask your parents for a deal, that's what I do. Like, if I don't complain for a month I got this AWESOME toy. Do something like that:) or there's always Google...lol. I would look it up myself but I don't have time. I hope you get your lip gloss :D


Hi, i'm like REALLY really short, and I want to grow taller. Is there anything (Other than drugs or medication) that I can do to grow taller? (link)
Well, treat you body like it's the most amazing thing in the world, which mean eat healthy...not unhealthy lol. Then exercise but not to hard because you could cut off your growth plates. I used to be a gymnast so I was exercisin 30 hours a week. Don't do that...I recommend 40-60 min. a day. Good Luck! Oh and drink milk even though it tastes horrible... :D


I love to sing, but sometimes I just think I sound terrible. Is there any way to make me sing better? (link)
I HATE my singing voice but my mom loves it so much. She heard me singing in my room once..oops! But I'm starting to like my voice. What I did was start off with little, simple songs that you have known for a long time and feel comfy singing it. Then move to the more recient music. I like soft rock and it's easy to sing. Light on the voice and vocal chords. :) After you start to build confidence, record yourself (i recommend Audacity) and see how ya like it! If you still don't like it then ask someone that you trust to listen to it and ask thier opinion. Have Fun!!! :D


i figured it out on christmas eve and even though i wasnt supposed to look through his text messages i did because i already had a bad feeling about it. in his inbox, all the mssages were from friends and workmates but in his sent items most messages were sent to an unknown number and they go like "are u wearing panties?" "where are you?" "im coming please reply" "are mad at me"
i think there were a lot more but i couldnt take reading em all anymore for i was shaking. i dont have respect for my father anymore. not one. :((((((((( (link)
I found some messages on my moms phone a while ago that was with her boss, eew...I already knew he cheated on his wife more than once and now he wanted my mom. Yuck...It said things like thanks for last night;) and I cant wait to see you again. They all had little smiley faces and everything. Then I found pictures of almost naked girls on my dad's phone. He was looking at them online. I dont remember the last time my parents hugged, said they love each other, kiss each other or anything like that. They haven't slept on the same room for MANY years. My mom hates it when my dad comes home. What I did is what I do with anything else that bothers me. I write poetry, draw, exercise, ect. And most of all, I prayed. Now my mom barely talks to him and I talked to her about it, everything is good now. I hope it turns out the same for you. :)



I like this boy in my class. I don't know if he likes me back. We are friends. And chat on bbm. I want him to like me coz he is really cute. I don't want to flirt. Plz help me. I told him and he was like o oky. Then I asked if he was mad at me then he said no. He really chat a lot with me on bbm. And he makes me laugh a lot. And if I need to flirt I want to know how. 13 /F (link)
I'm in a similar situation but the guy doesn't know I like him and I have an older brother who is helping me with him. :) Anyway, just keep talking to him and smile at him when you walk by him and ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. Get closer to him and hopefully, soon he'll ask you out! Good luck!!!


I am a 20 year old male.the problem with me s tat im jus good for nothin.i even tried suicide but it didnt work out.I dont have any close friends either.the ones who i consider close consider me only as 1 among their friends.i just feel so left out.my college sucks,my mom scolds me for the most silliest of the reasons.i dont think im going to have a successfull future an just dont know what to do.when i hear some of friends saying that they did somethin makes me feel jealous.is it that i dont i deserve good things in life or what.can anybody advise me on this (link)
You know what I do when I'm sad? I write poems, draw, sing ect. I just let it out anyway I can think of. One of the best ways is exercising. I'm a very happy person although I have had thoughts of suicide. Many songs such as "Say" by John Mayer or "Just Haven't Met You Yet" Micheal Buble also lift my spirits. :) If you want someone to talk to email me at casi.craig@cox.net I hope you feel better! :D


Im a young girl with skin problems that are really annoying me.
I have black heads, pimples, spots, oily skin and i think i might even be getting acne.
School starts very soon! and i want better skin.
I use Nivea Visage Young Clean Deeper! wash scrub, Nivea Visage Young Stay Clear! tonic and Nivea Visage Daily Essentials shine control moisturising day cream.
First I splash my face with warm water then put a bit of the wash scrub onto my CleanPod from L'oreal Paris Perfect Clean and wash my face with that.
Then I wask that off with cold water, the use the tonic then put on the moisturiser.
Is that a good brand and routine?
BTW I do that every morning and night.
Sometimes I steam my face before I do my wash routine. and use a face mask every so often but my face hasn't seamed to make any improvements in the last 1 to 2 weeks.
Does anyone have any advice and tips for me?

Thank you sooooo much. (link)
I had that problem too. But I found some home remedies that helped me so much. My skin has barely any acne on it now. One remedy that I did was combine aloe and milk. I never measured it out but I always put a little less milk than aloe. Also, you can use honey, apple cider vinegar, or tea tree oil. Just spread one of them over your acne areas for a few minutes. Lastly, don't stress, your not the only one with acne :). And stress can increase acne, so good luck and have fun putting stuff all over your face!!!


How would a guy usually treat a girl he's not suppose to have interest in cause he's already in relationship?
what if he treats all his female friends good and are close and outgoing with them. But, for one of them, he shuns and talk differently with. (link)
I think that if a guy treated one friend differently, either he feels uncomfortable around them because he like them OR he feels uncomfortable because he doens'nt like them.
To fix this, I would try to tell a few jokes or something, just be funny and outgoing. Then when he laughs, chack to see if his eyes crinkle. That mean that he is really laughing. If there is no crinkle, he's not enjoying it so ask him what he wants to do!


Hey 13/F. I have dated this boy we broke up on the 26 January. Because he is moving tomorrow. We are still friends. But I feels like there is a hole punched in my chest. I am very sad and is crying every 5 min. How do I get over him?????? I really liked him and he me. Pleas help (link)
This happened to me last year. I'm 13 also, and female lol. But when we broke up he told meI wasn't good enough for him after 4 weeks of dating. It hurt bad. If I were you I would talk to him every day because this always helps when I can't date esomeone I like. Just be his best friend and maybe over the summers you can go visit him. But for the crying, buy some chocolate! If you don't like chocolate or something, exercice for a few minutes, then cuddle up with a cup of hot tea and a nice Disney movie! Or a comedy...I hope everything turns out ok for you! :)


Lets see here... well i'm a sophomore in high school and i like a junior. let me tell you that i've liked this kid for 4 years or so. and we are complete opposites. he's more with the popular crowd than i am, and obviously i'm not as popular as him.. i have no idea what made me like this kid. but anyways he ALWAYS looks at me. For example in the halls when its just me and him, he looks at me. when i'm cheering at my basketball games, he stares at me, when i'm in lunch he stares at me. oh btw, he's known i'ved liked him since i was in 7th grade. so i really don't know what to make of my situation here. i mean i wanna date this kid so badly, i'm like obsessed with him. not crazy stalker obessed, just obsessed ha. so i need advice and help, please. and if your gonna say that i should try talking to him i'm gonna say that i messaged him on facebook and he never replied back, and he told all his friends the next day. so that's not gonna work. i see him all the time, and it seems like its always a coincidence. (link)
I have the same kinda thing going on here. This kid I like(but he doesn't know) is always catching my eye and staring at me, it makes feel a bit ackward but whatever lol. If I were you, next time I caught him staring at me I would put my hands out as if saying "WHAT!?!". Haha, and maybe you would get an answer, I did that with this kid a few years ago and he laughed. Later he told me he liked me. So have fun with that!


I have been friends with a girl for going on 7years. Anyway she has been with a girl for like 8 years I think....anyway I went and saw her at her job the other day and ever since then theres been this spark. She said I made her day and it was a big surprise, she was like you smell so good I wanted you to come back as soon as you left. Well she told me that since her and her girlfriend got back together 3 years ago it isnt the same. They dont even sleep in the same bed. Well her gf is adopting a baby and the girl I love is waiting to get her name on something so she has rights then she was like I dont know then....... So later thatg night she text me that she couldnt stop thinking about me. On my facebook shes always leaving me comments and stuff. She said shes got a little crushing going on. Does she possibly like me? If things was so bad with her girlfriend why is she still living there and the baby? I understand her wanting to be on the paper to have rights for the baby but im confused and dont know what to do (link)
This is kinda tough to answer but if I had to tell you to do something. I would tell you to ask her the questions that you asked about her in your question. Ask her if she likes you and why she is still living there with her baby. Don't be afraid to ask her because if she was being so open about telling you what she thinks about you, you can do that too. Good Luck!!!


what should i do for my school talent show i am from newbern,nc

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If you do any sports than don't involve much equipment or none at all, you could show off your skills at that! For my talent show I did gymnastics and a play with a group of friends. Good Luck!!! :)




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