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I'm 18 and I'm in my freshman year of college right now at Arizona State University.
Gender: Female
Location: Arizona
Age: 18
Member Since: October 2, 2005
Answers: 46
Last Update: October 15, 2005
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Hey I was just wondering...where does it start, that is, STDs. If a guy and a girl are both virgins, is there still a chance? How does it like begin, because it doesn't seem to make sence. If its not infection by spreading it, then what starts them? Thanks - will rate. (link)
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If you guys are both 100% virgins, then yeah, you most likely will not get an STD. It's still safe to get checked anyway. If you're really worried about STDs, you could get checked after every partner you have. This shouldn't be a problem unless you have multiple partners in short periods of times.
However, about the Virgin/STD thing...If either of you have had oral sex with previous partners, STDs can be transferred that way too. Example: Your boyfriend went down on a girl who had herpes. He could then have oral herpes on his mouth, and would transfer it to you through kissing/giving you oral during an outbreak.
If you're going to have sex with a guy, it's just best to know their history. If you two are having sex, you should be open enough with each other to discuss these types of things. And if you don't know his history, use a condom, even if you're on the pill, to prevent STDs.
But most likely, if you're both virgins, you don't have anything. And even if you guys did go down on other people in the past, that doesn't necessarily mean you have and STD either.
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Do females find guys with ape like hairy chests sexy? (link)
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Not at all. No. Shave. I like happy trails, but that's it.
If we can shave things for you guys, you can shave for us :)
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I'm sixteen and I've never made out with a guy (or anything above that...and I only kissed once) is that a huge turnoff for a guy? I havent really had any boyfriends, but now I'm interested and I'm wondering will this scare guys off? (link)
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No it's not a bad thing, it's not a turnoff, and it won't scare guys off. Unless it's a guy who's asking you how far you've gone just because he wants to get into your pants...And you don't want guys like that anyway.
My friend is 18. She hasn't even KISSED a guy before, let alone make out with one. So don't feel bad.
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Is it normal for a 13-year-old girl to masterbate, or is it just really sick-o for my age? Omg, I'm sooooo embarassed and I think I'm the only one in my grade who does. I feel like such a perv., but I can't help it. I have to cuz it feels so good. So I want to know is, is this unusual for a girl my age? Or something to feel guilty about? (link)
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Don't be embarassed. You are NOT the only one in your grade that does. It's just that no one talks about it. Plenty of people do, and if they haven't started yet at 13, then they will start at 14 or 15, and so on. Almost every one masturbates. I think I was doing it at that age.
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i am 13, and my boyfriend is 14. we are both goth-like, and we love each other. we do have sex, but all my friends say i should go to the counselor and tell her about it. but i have nothing to tell. can anyone think of why i should or should not go the counselor? (link)
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I don't know why you would want to tell a counselor about it of all people?
Personally, you are too young. I think 16+ is a good age to start having sex (just as long as you are 100% ready). That's just my opinion.
You're 13, do you know the risks and proper procedures for protection? Do you have a backup plan if something goes wrong? Do you know how to handle STDs, infections, or pregnancy may they come along? If the answer is "No" one of those, then you should reconsider what you're doing until you're ready for the consequences. It would break my heart if my 13 year old daughter got pregnant. (I'm 18 myself, I mean that hypothetically. I don't really have a 13 year old daughter, haha).
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Is it wrong to have sex with someone,thats older than you by 3 years.
And another question,people that have taken meth.....did it make you more sexual? or anything? (link)
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Three years isn't that bad. Just depends on the age, like others said.
And for the meth, I've never done it, but my best friend used to be addicted to it. She told me once, "When you're on meth, you're either talking, or having sex". She cheated on her boyfriend of 2 years because she was on meth (100% regrets it, too). Of course, don't do it. Drugs are horrible. She's going to have to deal with her addictions for the rest of her life. Not worth it.
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