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I'm honest, out-spoken, open-minded; whatever you would like to call it. Some people say its being a bitch; save it, I dont want to hear it. I will answer your questions with truthfully. If I hurt your feelings; I'm sorry. But please try to understand I am just being honest. I don't like when people aren't themselves only because they're trying to "fit in". This world starves for some originality. I've been through things; so I can try to relate to whatever. I can see things through other peoples eyes; so I will try to help any way I can. =]


ABOUT ME: Hi! The name's Emily; I have a lot of nicknames though, lol. I'm 14, and a freshman. I'm just having fun in life; it's kinda my thing. You only live once, right? So I'm intend to live it to its fullest! I love to meet new people; it's like finding money! Friends, brothers + music are my life; they pick me up when I'm down. I'm short and quorky; I love it. I make wierd faces; I sing and dance anywhere. So what? I don't get embarressed anymore; natrually because I've too many embarressing things and its a waste of time. I don't care what anyone says about me; I find it funny. I'm clumsy; I'm always falling for something. I'm always cold too; it's annoying and wierd. I wear a bow in my hair almost everyday; I'm sorta known for it, lol. The little things mean the most. I'm way far from perfect; and I wouldn't want it any other way. I make mistakes; everyday. I learn from my mistakes, so I think of them as a good thing. I'm incredebly ticklish; but I secretly love it =]. I want to make sometimes of myself; and I will. I'm going to open up my own cafe; its my dream job and I'll do it some how.


LOVER OF: coffee, green stride gum, vitamin water, candy necklaces, gobstoppers, snickers, zebras, acoustics, hello kitty, cinnamin, semi-colons, Disney movies, old movies, music, sweet-tea, crush sodas, rain, polaroids, pictures, will ferrel, dane cook, tyra banks, bows, tattoos, big beds, pillows, blankies, balloons, bright colors, chapstick, vicks vapor shit, roller coasters, inside jokes, hugs + kisses, snuggling, dancing around + singing into anything, anything comfy, bunny slippers, the little things, knee-high socks.

advice

i have a shirt from pac sun that is blue and has a peace sign on the front and the back says "peace and love" i love this shirt, but it unfortunately doesn't fit me right. i would like to turn it into a bag but don't know how to go about it. it's long sleeves as well. are there any patterns or instructions on how to turn this shirt into a bag? thanks!

okay I love to sew. So this is what I'm thinking. Its really good that its long sleeves, cause then you can turn them into the straps. Then just cuff the bottom of the shirt (half an inch, maybe a little more.) and sew it shut. You might have to cut off the coller to make the opening bigger. But cuff that a bit and sew it so there isn't threads and stuff. Oh yeah and for the straps/sleeves. Sew them together, you know, so they're straps lol. And thats a really good idea. I might have to try that with one of my old shirts. hahaha. Good luck, I hope it turns out. If it doesnt, just make it a pillow!

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I'm in love with my boyfriend. He's amazing. He really likes me, too.
But he's so high maintenance.
I'm sixteen. I don't have my license yet, and the possibility of me getting it sometime soon is very slim. He's not exactly thrilled with this situation. In fact, he's actually been fairly rude about it. He just gets upset about things easily.

So last night I was at my friend's house; my best friend drove me there and we were all just hanging out. My boyfriend texts me and asks me if I want to go to his house, and I tell him to just come over. He replies that he can't because he's been out and came home late the past 4 nights... (which a couple of times were my fault because we were hanging out) and tells me that he isn't even getting home until ten.
My curfew is 10:30. So I said "If you won't get home till ten, why would I go?"
I don't know if that was a mean thing to say or something. But he got upset and hurt about it and I guess I can see why.

It's like. he's the one that always has to drive to me. It's up to him whether or not we even see each other. And I'm not exactly worth all the trouble. I know that to him it just feels really unfair, but I can't really do anything about it. Like honestly.

But he's always been pretty easy to upset. About little things that I'm hoping most people wouldn't think twice about. Like if I don't talk to him for a day. I think he's pretty insecure.

It's just. I care so much about him. I really. I don't know what to do. I'm turning into a whimp who takes a ton of shit from him and apologizes for nothing, all because I like him so much. I want him to be happy. Why is it so hard for him to be? I don't know.
I don't even know what I'm asking you people. I guess I just needed to vent.

well.. since there was really no question; I'll just tell you what I think! I know what your going through.. I dated a guy that was the same way (i think my guy was a little worse though! lol). We dated for three months and I really liked him; but I had to end it. We ended up dated again.. and I could on about it. But thats the main point lol. I'm not saying you should end it, but just do whatever you have to so that YOUR happy. And maybe you should try talking to him about it. Hope I helped!

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So originally I had like an essay question
but it was too much.
So I'm gonna be short and to the point.
How do I forgive somebody
who ruined my family,
tried to kill me and my mom,
and made all of our lives HELL
for over 16 years
and doesn't even realize
there was a problem?

~Topaz

eek. thats tough. If it was me, I would have such a hard time forgiving them. So deffently only do it if you feel you want to. But if you do, then just start talking to them a little, maybe hang out once or twice. But still keep your guards up and be careful so something doesnt happen again.

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((15/f))okay so there is this guy named christian, hes a senior and im a sophomore. we have liked eachother b4 and we started a realtionsip....kinda sorta....it was "complicated" and then one day he decided that it would be better if we stayed friends. so i went out with another guy for two months. i went out with him at first cause i really liked him, but then i realized that i was thinking more about christian then my current boyfriend. so i used him to get christian jelouse.....follow me? well i recently found out that he likes me back, and i really like him. and we got close over the break when we went paintballing with a bunch of people. he like held me when iw as cold and he flirted with me ALOT. i feel like it was my fault that the realtionship ended last time, so i dont know if i want to do anything about it this time. hes going off to college in state, but i can't help but wonder if i should see what we could be. what should i do?

maybe you could try going on date or two with him. Then you can decide if you actually want to have a relationship again. And you're not still going out with the other guy, right? lol.

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I'm SO picky on my prom dresses. I absolutely hate those big poofy neon colored gowns with slits up to here and front cuts down to there. I'm all about simplicty with a small embellishment. I love empire waists just because its forgiving and I hate spandex. My favorite colors for a prom dress would be either cream, black, or ruby/pink.

Any advice on websites or designers I would like would be very much appreciated!

I haven't had prom yet; but my friend has [she graduated already]. She told me the a really good place is David's Bridal. I just checked out their website, and they have a section for prom dresses. click on that. then click on "dresses". On the first page, they have an adorable white empire waste dress. I know its not cream, but they have a lot of other cute dresses.
Hope that helped you! Good luck!

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are their underwear returnable?

i havent worn them and i just bought them two days ago

Well I've tried underwear on in the store before [over other panties obviously, lol] but I just hide them under pants or something.

You could try to returen them; but most stores won't allow you. So, I would just try; you never know!

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i absolutly love knee high boots, but i just cant seem to find a good pair im not all that preppy cuz i have sort of a gothic look so i was thinkin of boots somewhere around that kind of style but i dont want flames or skulls on em cuz i wnat thses to go with almost everything. like pnats skirts skinny leg pants so i can wear the boots over em to show em off, adn so on, does any one have anyidea where i can find boots like this?

If you're talking about boots like Uggs [but not that brand]; then I know what your talking about. At Charlotte Russe they have black ones. On the back they have cool patch-like things that say "Love". and underneath that, it has a heart with a knife through it. They are adorably cute. I have a pair =]
hope that helped!

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