elizxabeth's

advice column

about

advice

hey iam felicia at school ther is this guy and he likes me really bad but he had a gf and she still wants to go out with him but i dont know if i like him he evrytime wants to ask me out but i run away from him cause i dont wanna say an answer i dont know what to do. please help
thankxx
felicia

well if you're not sure if you like him or not, don't go out with him, at least not yet :] running away from him won't help anything, you need to get to know him more! hang out with him, talk on the phone or online. about his ex girlfriend, well it sounds to me like they're over and people gotta move on so.. ;]

hope i helped let me know how it goes!

[view]

soo, today, this kid whos like super popular, but i dont really know, asked me out. and i was yano excited, obviously. but i didnt know what to say, because i dont know him too well. and i like to get to know people, before i date them.

but anyways, i was all excited to tell one of my friends, well, one of my best friends, about it. and shes like.. well can this wait? im playing a game. and i was like.. you dont wanna hear about it? its hugeee. and shes like, one second. and so i was kinda just kidding when i said this, i was like fine =P if my love life isnt that important then who cares. =P. and shes like, yeah i know, glad you realize that, kayy brb! and i was like.. wtff.

and so right now im not talking to her.
but, i know that sounds kinda stupid, to get mad over that kinda thing, but shes one of those people who, talk behind alot of peoples back, doesnt care if your mad at her, and says whatever sshe wants. and alottt of people dont like her. but i always have. but now, idno. because she probably talks about me, because she talks about everyone else.

and i cant really talk to her, because like i said, she just doesnt care.

so basically, should i ditch her? or what?

k well first of all, congrats on being asked out by that kid! & i agree with you on getting to know someone before dating them.

about your friend, i don't know her personally so i don't know if she's the type to kid around or say stuff to be mean. if she was kidding, then there's no reason to be mad. but by the way you described it, it seems like she's not too great of a friend. talk to her about it and give her another chance, though, and if she does it again then ditch her.

good luck ! :]

[view]

Hi i'm a teenage girl who has given up on relationships and everything else in life.


Before i commit suicide i want to have a hookup with someone.


How do I go about getting a hookup with a guy who won't hurt me or abuse me?

thx

okay don't wanna sound rude or anything, but.
you just need to stop feeling sorry for yourself. trust me, you don't have it that bad. there are people in this world who don't have food, clothes, or anywhere to live. there are people who's lives are absolutely horrible, yet you're copmlaining about relationships. every single teenage girl goes through relationships that don't work out. it's part of being a teenager. commiting suicide won't help a thing. suicide is one of the most selfish things you could possibly do. think of all the people who love you who would be affected. there are people who lose their lives every day, and you're talking about ending yours willingly.

anyway, about hooking up with a guy who won't hurt you or abuse you. you need to get to know a guy before you start dating him. a lot of times it's good to become friends first. if you know the guy, and know he's a good person, then go for it.

and don't even think about suicide again! you need to look at the positive things in life, you're aliveeee girlfriend :)

[view]

When i start eating, ill eat like everthing and cant stop and i always go for more

Anyway to stop this?
Im getting fatter and fatter and dont know how to loose it.

you just have to control yourself. binge eating can happen because of boredom, but it doesn't have to. try eating healthier foods, and exercising. if you realize that you're getting fatter, than all you really can do is exercise and control your eating. good luckkk!! :]

[view]

I like this guy and I dont think he knows I even exist, hes hard to get to because hes not in my class,hes always with his friends,and he hangs out with my worst enemys!! anyways he likes sports (hes always playing basketball, or dogeball, trowing a tennis ball ect) and Im weak ant cant even shoot a hoop! how do i get his attention?

im 13
and a girl

please answer.. TT.TT

aw sweetie, just talk to him! yeah he likes sports but so do a lot of guys. i'm sure he won't care if you're not good at sports, trust me i couldn't shoot a hoop to save my life. the reason he may not know you exist is because you havn't talked to him. you just have to be confident in yourself. get to know him, maybe give him your number, and i'm sure things will work out :]

[view]